Ukuthuthukiswa kwezintana kusukela ku-Age 1 kuya ku-Age 3

Amakhono Namandla Okumelwe Akulindele

Zonke izingane zikhula ngesivinini sabo, kodwa kunezigameko ezivamile abazali abangalindela ukuzozungezile ngosuku lokuzalwa ngalunye. Ukuthuthuka kwamakhono amakhono, ulimi, ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi kanye nomzwelo, nokucabanga okucatshangelwayo kwenzeka ngokushesha eminyakeni embalwa yokuqala. Ukwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela futhi ufune izindlela zokusekela lawo makghono angakusiza wena nengane yakho ujabulele eminyakeni encane kakhulu nakakhulu.

Ingane yakho kufanele ihlolwe njalo ekuhlolweni kwengane ukuze ubone ukuthi ingane yakho ihlangana nezinyathelo ezibalulekile noma ingase ibhekane nokulibaziseka. Lezi zivivinyo ngokuvamile zenziwa ezinyangeni ezingu-9, izinyanga ezingu-18, izinyanga ezingu-30, neminyaka emibili ubudala. Ungalindela ukuthi kusetshenziswe ithuluzi lokuhlola elihle elingabandakanya uhlu lwemibuzo yabazali kanye nokwenziwa ngumhlinzeki wakho wezempilo. Lezi zikrini zibukeka ukuthuthukiswa kolwimi, ukuxazulula izinkinga, ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi, ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo, kanye namakhono amancane kanye namakhono amakhulu. Lapho uneminyaka engu-18 neminyaka engu-2, ingane yakho izophinde inikeze ukuhlolwa kwe-autism.

Nakhu amakhono kanye nezindinganiso ongayilindela ngesikhathi ngasinye. Ungakwazi ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwakho nodokotela wezingane nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ukuthola ukuhlolwa okuhlelekile.

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Amakhono nezenzo ezimangalisayo ezinyangeni ezingu-12

Omncane wakho uyahamba, ehamba, ehamba, futhi mhlawumbe ethatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa eyedwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona ukuqhuma komsindo ovela kumntwana wakho osemncane oye wafunda ubuciko obuhle bokubukeka. Yiziphi ezinye izenzakalo ongayilindela kulowo mkhosi wokuzalwa wokuqala? Hlola amakhono nezinyathelo ezibalulekile ezinyangeni ezingu-12 .

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Amakhono nezenzo ezimangalisayo ezinyangeni ezingu-18

Ngonyaka wesibili wokuphila, ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kwengane yakho kwehla, kepha iziqhumane ezenza emakhono amakhono , ulimi, amakhono omphakathi, kanye namakhono okuqonda, ziyamangalisa. Ngalesi sigaba, uzoqala ukubona ubuntu obuzimele bukhula kahle namakhono amasha, okwenza kudingekile ukuma futhi uqaphele ukuthi ingane yakho ishintshile kangakanani kusukela ekuzaleni kwakhe kokuqala. Bheka amakhono kanye nezenzakalo ezibalulekile ezilindeleke ezinyangeni ezingu-18.

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Amakhono kanye Nezimfanelo Ezinyaka 2

Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kwengane yakho kungase kuphumele phansi, kodwa akukho lutho oluthile ngaye olusheshayo. Ugcwele amandla futhi ulungele ukuhlola imingcele yazo zonke izinhlobo-kusuka ukuthi ungakhuphuka kangakanani ukuthi ungase uthi "cha" ngaphambi kokuthi unikeze-wakho oneminyaka engu-2 ubudala uzokugcina ezinzwaneni zakho. Kodwa, uzophinde uvele emlonyeni wokuzimela kwakhe okusha, amakhono okufunda nokubhala, namandla omzimba. Bona amakhono kanye nezenzakalo ezibalulekile ezilindeleke eminyakeni engu-2 .

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Amakhono Nezikhathi Ezinzima Eminyakeni yobudala 3

Njengoba ingane yakho ikhumbula isikhathi sokukhula futhi amakhono akhe okukhuluma akhula, uzokwazi ukulandela imiyalelo nokuveza izidingo zakhe nemicabango yakhe. Ukushintsha kusukela ekuncane ukuya esikoleni samabanga aphansi, noma kunjalo, kungaba kancane kakhulu. Lindela ukwabelana okuhle kokuhlehla nokudabuka, kodwa beza ngokubambisana nomoya wokuzethemba ozokujabulisa ngempela. Bona amakhono kanye nezenzakalo ezibalulekile ezilindeleke eminyakeni engu-3 .