Ngeminyaka emibili ubudala, ingane yakho iphakathi kokuguquka kusuka "emntwaneni" kuya "emntwaneni." Lokhu kusho ukuthi wenza izinqwaba ezibalulekile ekuthuthukisweni. Kungase kusho nezinye izikhathi ezinzima uma nifunde ukuhlelwa phansi.
Kunezinhlobo ezehlukene ezivamile kule minyaka, kodwa kunezinye izici ezijwayelekile ezivamile izingane ezifinyelela cishe eminyakeni emibili ezindaweni ezilandelayo:
- Amakhono emoto amakhulu
- Amakhono emoto amnandi
- Amakhono okuqonda noma okuqonda
- Amakhono okukhuluma
- Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle Nezimoya
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Amakhono Ezimpahla Zama-GrossIgama elilodwa lingase lifake ingane yakho ngokulinganisa kuleli phuzu: lisebenza. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka elilodwa wayevame ukuhamba, kodwa amandla angalinganiselwe kanye nokulinganisela komzimba cishe amvimbela ukuba angasheshi kakhulu kakhulu. Akusekho inkinga. Eqinisweni, ingane yakho ingase ibe nesifiso sokugcina umzimba wayo uhambela ukuthi kunzima ukumenza ahlale phansi noma agxila ezintweni ezilodwa isikhathi eside. Lokhu kuvamile ngalesi sikhathi.
Ikhono lomntanakho lokulawula ukunyakaza kwengalo nomlenze kubonisa ukuthi uthuthukisa amakhono amakhono amakhulu . Lapho eneminyaka emibili, lokhu kusho ukuthi angakwazi:
- Khuphuka kahle (kubandakanya phezulu nangaphansi ifenisha)
- Hamba ngezinyathelo zezinyathelo zokuhamba (phansi)
- Khipha ibhola
- Hlala kuma-tiptoes
- Thatha ithoyizi enkulu noma amathoyizi amaningana ngenkathi uhamba
- Sebenzisa amabanga amancane
Ukugqamisa: Ngeke kudingeke ukuthi uhlele imisebenzi yengane yakho kule minyaka. Abaneminyaka emibili ubudala banolwazi lokushintsha noma iyiphi indawo ibe yindawo yokudlala. Lesi esinye isizathu, kodwa-ke, kungani kufanele uqaphele ngokuqinisekiswa kwengane.
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Amakhono Ezimoto EzinhleAbantwana abaneminyaka emibili baqala ukulawula kangcono ukunyakaza kwezandla zabo zomunwe, okuyizibonakaliso ukuthi zakha amakhono amakhono amakhono . Phakathi kwemisebenzi encane yakho izoqala ukuqonda ihlanganisa ikhono loku:
- Vala noma uvule amabhokisi nezinye iziqukathi
- Gcina amabhulokhi amane noma ngaphezulu
- Inhlama ukudlala inhlama
- Faka izikhonkwane ezizungezile nezigqoko zibe izimbobo
- Vula izimbambo ezijikelezayo (njenge-toy jack-in-the-box)
- Scribble noma upende
- Sebenzisa isandla esisodwa ngokuphindaphindiwe kunomunye
Ukuqokomisa: Amakhono amakhono amakhono asiza ingane yakho ukuba ithole ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe etafuleni lokudla. Uzoqala ukuphuza ekomishini bese usebenzisa i-spoon. Angase futhi athathe izingcezu zokudla ezilunywayo futhi azidle yena. Kodwa ngenkathi ingane yakho ihlala etafuleni njengenyane elikhudlwana, akakwazi ukuhlafuna nokugwinya njengelinye. Abaneminyaka emibili bangakwazi ukudlala kalula ukudla, ikakhulu uma bedlala noma behleka ngenkathi bedla. Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokusebenzisa ukudla oku-pre-cut noma okungapheli kakhulu, futhi ugweme ukudla okungabanjwa kalula emphinjeni wengane yakho, njengezipuni ze-peanut butter, amagilebhisi onke, izinja ezishisayo ezingenayo, kanye ne-candy hard (kufaka i-lollipops ).
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Amakhono okuqonda noma okuqondaEminyakeni emibili ubudala, uzoqala ukubona ingane yakho encane idala imidlalo engacabangi futhi ihlanganise imisebenzi ndawonye ngokulandelana okunzima kakhulu futhi okunzima kunokuba ikhuphuke kusuka kudoti eyodwa noma umsebenzi ukuya kwenye. Lezi zibonakaliso ukuthi ingqondo yakhe yenza ukuxhumana okuningi futhi uqala ukuqonda ubudlelwano phakathi kwezinto ezahlukene noma imibono. Ezinye zezinto ezibalulekile ingane yakho engase zifinyelele eminyakeni yobudala ezimbili zihlanganisa ikhono loku:
- Thola izinto ezifihliwe
- Lingisa abanye
- Faka abanye emisebenzini yakhe yokudlala
- Sebenzisa amathoyizi asebenzayo
- Thola izingxenye ezimbalwa zomzimba kuye ngokwakhe noma kudonsa
Ukugqamisa: Uneminyaka emibili ubudala manje uyakwazi ukulandela imiyalelo elula. Ngakho ungamtshela, "Faka ithoyizi lakho ebhokisini." Nakuba kungase kubonakale kulula futhi ngokushesha ukwenza izinto ngokwakho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqale ukukhuthaza ukuzimela futhi umfundise ukuba anakekele izinto ezithile ngokwakhe. Ukubeka indawo yokudlala nokuhlela izingubo ngendlela eyoyivumela ukuba ahlanze izinto zakhe ngokwayo uzomnika umuzwa omkhulu wokufeza futhi ekugcineni uzokunika amandla okuhambisa imisebenzi embalwa .
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Amakhono okukhulumaNgenkathi izingane zikhula ngamazinga ahlukene, izingane ezincane kakhulu ziyizwa okungenani amagama angama-50 akhulunywa ngalo ngosuku lokuzalwa lwesibili. Amakhono olimi lwabafana angathuthuka kancane kancane, futhi izingane eziningi azikhulumi nakakhulu nhlobo phakathi nonyaka wabo wesibili, kodwa ngokuvamile, ungalindela ukuthi ingane yakho iqale ukukwazi ukukwazi:
- Sebenzisa "I" futhi "wena" ngokufanele
- Yazi igama lezingxenye zomzimba ezijwayelekile, izilwane, nezinto kanye nokuhleka uma uzibiza kabi (njengokubiza inkomo i-bunny)
- Jabulela ukubheka incwadi eyodwa ngokuphindaphindiwe
- Uqedela imigqa ezincwadini ezijwayelekile
- Qamba abantu emndenini
- Khuluma ngemisho emibili kuya kwemibili
- Phinda uphendule amagama athile
Ukugqamisa: Ngenkathi kuneziningi zokuzijabulisa ezibonisa lapho izingane ezincane, i-AAP itusa ukugcina isikhathi sesikrini sabantwana abaneminyaka engu-2 kuya kwehora elilodwa ngosuku ngosuku lwezinhlelo eziphezulu. Imibukiso enjengeSesame Street ingahlinzeka ngamathuba emfundo kubantwana abancane uma abazali bebheka ngokubambisana ukuze basize ingane yakho encane iqonde ukubonisa futhi isebenzise izifundo zayo empilweni yansuku zonke.
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Amakhono EzenhlalakahleOchwepheshe ngezinye izikhathi babhekisela ezinganeni le ntsha ngokuthi "i-egocentric" noma i-self-centered. Lokhu kubonakala kunengqondo, kodwa empeleni, ingane yakho ayikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi abantu bangase babe nemicabango yabo noma izinto abazikhathazayo ngaphandle kwakhe. Kule minyaka, ke, ingane yakho encane ingase ingakulungeli ukudlala nezinye izingane ngendlela yendabuko, yokunikeza nokuthatha. Esikhundleni salokho, uzohlanganyela kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukudlala okufana (ukudlala eceleni kwabanye). Kodwa, ngisho nakulesi sigaba, uzothanda ukuhlala nabanye. Ukuxhumana okuningi nawe kanye nezinye izingane anazo, lapho ungase ubone ukuthi uyakwazi uku:
- Kopisha abanye, ikakhulukazi abadala nabantu abadala
- Yiba ozimele ngokwengeziwe (okungase kusho ukuthi uyangcola uma ephikisana noma etshelwe ukuthi kufanele akwenze)
- Qonda ngokwengeziwe ukuthi uhlukile kwabanye
- Qala ukuxhumana nezinye izingane emidlalweni efana nokuxosha
- Thuthukisa umngane ocindezelekile noma umzali
- Phenduka lapho udlala nabanye
- Qonda lapho enza okuthile abazali abavuma noma abangakuvumeli
Ukuqokomisa: Akuyona into engavamile ukuba abaneminyaka emibili ubudala benze okuthile ngamahloni, ikakhulukazi abangabazi. Nakuba lesi yisikhathi lapho abazali befuna ukugqugquzela ukuzimela nokuxhumana komphakathi, kubalulekile ukuba uhloniphe isigqi somvelo semntanakho. Mnike isikhathi lapho efuna ukuzizwa ekhululekile ngesimo bese emnciphisa ezindaweni ezintsha ngokumlungiselela ngaphambi nangokuzola. Ezimweni, lapho ingane yakho ingafuni ukushiywa ngesitifiketi, sebenzisa amasu okulawula ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukanisa.
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