Yonke Into Ofuna Ukuyazi Kodwa Wayesaba Ukubuza
Ubulili obukhulelwe kungaba yindaba ethinta inhliziyo phakathi kwemibhangqwana. Umthetho ukulandela izifiso zakho futhi uvula imigqa yokuxhumana. Phakathi neminyaka, ngibuzwe imibuzo eminingi yomuntu siqu mayelana nobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ne-orgasm ekhulelwe, nansi eminye yemibuzo nezimpendulo.
Q. Manje ukuthi ngikhulelwe ngingakwazi yini ukulala ocansini, futhi uma kunjalo, ngingahlala isikhathi eside kangakanani ekukhulelwe kwami?
A. Ukuya ocansini ekukhulelweni kuyamangalisa! Ungaqhubeka nokulala ocansini kuze kube sekukhulelweni, kuze kube sekuzalweni, njengoba wena nomlingani wakho nikhululekile. Lokhu kubandakanya ama-orgasms. Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi kungani ungafanelanga ubulili ngezikhathi ezithile ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Lokhu kufaka:
- Ukuphuza
- Umsebenzi wokuqala
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs) (wena noma umlingani wakho)
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho mayelana nezinto eziqondene nawe. Uma udokotela wakho ethi, "Awukho ucansi." Thola ukuthi zisho ukuthini, zenzeni ukuthi azisho izinhlobo ze-orgasms? Ingabe akusho ukuthi akukho ukulala nomzimba? Uma kunjalo, kungakanani? Isibonelo, uma owesifazane ephethe kancane kancane kwegazi ku-trimester yokuqala, kuvamile ukutshelwa ukuthi ugweme ukulala nomzimba noma i-orgasm isikhathi seviki elilodwa kusukela kusiqephu sokugcina sokuphuma kwegazi.
Imisebenzi Yezocansi Ezikhulelwe
Q. Manje ukuthi isisu sami sikhula sinezikhathi ezilukhuni zobulili. Noma yikuphi ukusikisela?
A. Yenza ubuciko! Ngenkathi abantu abaningi bevame ukukhetha isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli ngocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kuba yinkimbinkimbi enzima ukwenza njengoba isisu sikhula.
Zama ezinye zalezi zikhundla zobulili ezikhulelwe :
- Owesifazane phezulu. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuba ulawule ukujula kokungena nokuningi kwenhlangano. Ungahamba ngokusheshisa noma ngokusheshisa ngendlela ongathanda ngayo ngenkathi ulawula ukujula kwepenisi. Lesi sikhundla sisebenza kahle phakathi nokukhulelwa futhi ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
- Spooning. Lesi sikhundla sithola igama layo kusuka ezindleleni zezinhlamvu ezihlangene ndawonye esitokisini se-silverware. Ngokujwayelekile, kungcono uma lo muntu engemva kwakhe avumela ipenisi yakhe ukuba ihambe phakathi kwamathanga akho futhi ikufake ngemuva. Lokhu akudala ukucindezelwa esiswini futhi kuvumela ukungena okungenalutho. Abesifazane abaningi bakuthola lesi sikhundla sokuphumula ngocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi singasetshenziswa kulo lonke.
- Izandla Nezintambo. Lesi yisimo esihle kakhulu sabesifazane abakhulelwe futhi ngenxa yokuntuleka kwengcindezi eqondile esiswini, nakuba nje lapho uthola isisindo sakho esiswini singase siphumelele embhedeni. Abanye besifazane bakuthola lokhu kunzima ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, kuye ngokuthi baphakeme kanjani ukubamba isisu sabo embhede futhi bavumela ukungena.
- Ukulala kwangaphandle. Lokhu kungaba mnandi okweqile, kodwa kungenziwa! Beka ohlangothini lwakho nomlingani wakho obhekene nawe, zama ukudonsa umlenze owodwa ukuze uvumele ikamelo lomlingani wakho. Lokhu kungase kudangele ngemuva kwesikhashana, futhi kungase kungabi lula engxenyeni yokugcina yokukhulelwa.
Zonke izikhundla ezibalulwe ngenhla nazo zivumela ukugqugquzelwa okubhaliwe kwe-clitoris noma wena noma umlingani wakho. Lokhu kungandisa kakhulu amathuba akho okuba multi-orgasmic, ungasho ukuthi kuyinto enhle kakhulu.
Zibuye zivimbele umama ukuthi angabuyi emuva, engavunyelwe emva kwenyanga yesine yokukhulelwa (amasonto angu-16 ukukhulelwa).
Uma uzama ukucabanga ngesimo esihle, zama, uma kungasebenzi ukusebenza. Ubuciko buyoba mnandi kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi cishe kuzothatha ukuphila kwakho kocansi emva kokubeletha kanye nalapho ubuciko bubalulekile ngendlela ehlukile.
Ama-Orgasms abakhulelwe
Q. Igama elilodwa, ama-orgasms.
A. Izimpendulo eziningi kulowo! Amagciwane angahluka kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Owesifazane othile ekugcineni uzoba i-orgasmic ngenkathi ekhulelwe ngenxa yoketshezi okwenyuka endaweni okwenza i-clitoris ne-vagin izwele kakhulu.
Abanye besifazane bazoba ama-multi-orgasmic okokuqala.
Ngokuvamile, i-orgasms ikulungele kakhulu wena nomntwana! Uma une-orgasm ingane ingazi ukuthi yini okwenzayo kodwa izwa ukugijima kwe-hormone euphoric oyothola. Kuzophinde kube nezinsipho ezincane zesisu, njengoba kuhlale kukhona, kodwa manje ukuthi lesi sikhumba sikhulu kangakanani ungazizwa ngaphezulu. Lokhu akuwona umsebenzi wokuqala ngaphambi kokuba ube nalesi senzo sokucindezela noma izinsimbi ezingaphezu kwehora elilodwa.
Inkinga enkulu nge-orgasms ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa yilokho, ikakhulukazi ekugcineni, abaningi abatholi umqondo wokukhululeka ukuthi i-orgasm evamile inganikeza. Mina ngokwami ngisuka ekuziphatheni kobulili ngizizwa ngicindezelekile ngokocansi kunanini ngaphambili, naphezu kwemihla ngemihla eminingi. Noma kunjalo, kusabalulekile!
Q. Ngingakwazi yini ukushaya indlwabu? Ingabe kuyolimaza ingane?
A. Ukushaya indlwabu kungukukhululeka okukhulu kwamandla wezocansi. Ngiyakhuthaza kakhulu lokhu kwabesifazane. Kuhle futhi ukuthi ube neseshini sokushaya indlwabu uma ungenasithakazelo ekungeneni. Ukushaya indlwabu kuyinto enhle ukucabanga ukuthi uma umuntu oyedwa ebuhlotsheni enesithakazelo socansi ngalesosikhathi esithile.
Ivumela ukuba ube nobulili ngaphandle kokulala ocansini nganoma yisiphi isizathu, kodwa nokho umlingani wakho (noma wena) angajabulela ukukhululwa kwezingxabano zobulili.
Q. Ngizwile ukuthi ukulala ngomlomo kuyingozi. Ingabe lokho kuyiqiniso?
A. Ukulala ngomlomo akuyingozi kuwe ngenkathi ukhulelwe, ngaphandle kokukodwa, ungaboni umoya emkhathini. Uzofunda lezi zindawo eziningi, kodwa mina angazi ukuthi ubani oshaya umoya ngesikhatsi cunnilingus, mhlawumbe ngiphumile!
Ukulala ngomlomo kungaba mnandi kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ikakhulukazi uma wesaba noma ungafisi ukuhlanganyela ocansini. Kuyindlela enhle yokuzama ukuveza ubulili bakho ngaphandle kocansi. Kukhona ukwanda okukhudlwana ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa , lokhu akulimazi kunoma ubani. Uma omunye kini ehlukumeza lokhu ungamane ugeze nje ngaphambi kokuba uhlanganyele kulezi zenzo.
Q. Ngingaba nobulili obufanayo ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe?
A. Yileso esinzima. Abaningi abantu abaye bafunda lokhu, futhi ngokujwayelekile, ngingathi uma uke wenza lokhu ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe akufanele kube nobunzima, kodwa balalele umzimba wakho.
Uma kubuhlungu ukuyeka. Kungaba nzima nakakhulu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa njengoba ikhanda lomntwana lingena esikhwameni. Sivame ukukhohlwa ukuthi into kuphela ehlukanisa ubulili kanye ne-rectum iyisiqephu sesikhumba. Lokhu kungenza ubulili obudala bubuhlungu kakhulu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
Q. Ngingayisebenzisa yini isidlidliza ngenkathi ngikhulelwe?
A. Ingabe ukhona othanda ukwenza ingqikithi kulokhu? Ngesibindi, ngibuzwe lo mbuzo izikhathi eziningana, futhi akukho impendulo ecacile lapho. Ngakho ngizothembela ekupheleni komphumela: ama-orgasms.
Ama-organas aphephile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngezinye izimbalwa ezincane. Qaphela izinhlangothi eziqhubekayo zesibindi, futhi ngaphandle kokuthi kufanele uhambe kahle. Yiqiniso, kuyoba kuhle uma ubuza udokotela wakho ngalesi sihloko futhi. Bayoba nolwazi oluthe xaxa ngomlando wakho wezokwelapha. Uma bathi u-no uthole okucacile ukuthi kungani kungenjalo, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akusiyo inzuzo yomuntu siqu.