Thola ukusekelwa okudingayo futhi ube khona kwezingane
Ukubhekana nesahlukaniso kunzima, ikakhulu lapho izingane zihilelekile. Nakuba ngabe ususinde inqubo yesehlukaniso uqobo, ungase uhlale unemizwa eminingi nemibuzo. Kungokwemvelo futhi ukucindezeleka kwalesi simo kungakusiza.
Njengobaba ohlukanisile, ungathola ukwesekwa emithonjeni eminingi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiqembu lokusekela, umeluleki, noma nje umngane omuhle owake waba khona, kufanele uzame ukukhuluma nomuntu mayelana nemizwa yakho. Kukhona nezinye izinto eziningi ongayenza ukuze uzizwe ungcono futhi kukusize wena nezingane zakho ukuba nishintshe.
Ingabe Iqembu Lokusekela Labama-Fathers Likulungele Wena?
Abafana bangase babe nesikhathi esinzima ukukhuluma ngokulingwa kwabo nezinsizi zabo, ikakhulukazi imizwa yabo, kodwa kungasiza ngempela. Uma ungakhululekile ukuya kumeluleki, cabanga ngokujoyina iqembu lokusekela labangani. Abanye baze bagxile emadodeni ahlukanisile.
Kuqembu lokusekela, uzothola ukuthi unesibopho esivamile. Amanye amadoda azokwazi kahle ukuthi uyaphi futhi angakunika iseluleko ngoba 'abe khona.' Futhi kuyithuba lokuyeka umusi, ihlaya namanye amadoda, futhi uthole abangane abasha.
Endleleni, ungase uthathe ulwazi oluthe xaxa oluzosetshenziswa empilweni yakho bese wenza umehluko ngempela.
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Funda Izinkomba Zempumelelo
Isehlukaniso sibeka izinselelo kubo bonke abathintekayo. Njengobaba ongasakwazi ukuhlala nezingane zakho, kungaba nzima kakhulu futhi ushintsho lungase lube nzima kunalokho owakulindele.
Ngeke nje ukhathazeke ngokuthi izingane zakho zibhekana kanjani, kodwa ubhekene nezimo ezintsha zokuphila futhi, ngokuvamile, umuzwa wokungabi nalutho. Phela, umndeni wakho wawuyingxenye enkulu yempilo yakho, ngakho-ke kungokwemvelo kuphela.
Noma kunjalo, iqiniso lokuthi isimo siwukuthi udinga ukwenza okuhle kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukugcina ubuhlobo nabantwana bakho nokuthola ibhalansi elisha empilweni yakho. Ujabule futhi uphile kahle, kungcono ukuthi uzoba izingane.
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Hlala Uvale futhi Uqhubeke Uthinta
Unezinqumo eziningi ongayenza ngemva kwesahlukaniso futhi omunye walabo ozohlala khona. Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi izingane zenza kangcono ngemva kokuhlukanisa uma abazali bobabili beseduze. Lokhu kwenza ukuvakashelwa kube lula futhi kuqinisekiswe ukuthi uhlala uyingxenye yokuphila kwabo njalo nemisebenzi.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lokho akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi uzodinga (noma ufuna) ukuhamba phambili. Ubuhlobo obude obude nabantwana bakho bubaluleke kakhulu. Izinto ezincane njengezingcingo ezivamile noma izipho ezimangazayo zingenza umthelela omkhulu ekujabuliseni izingane zakho.
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Yenza Ikhaya Lakho Ingane-Ngomngane
Into eyodwa ofuna ukuyenza ukuthi ikhaya lakho elisha liba ikhaya lakho. Akufanele bazizwe sengathi 'ukuhambela,' kepha ngaphezulu kwekhaya lesibili.
Ukuze usize lokhu, qiniseka ukuthi wenze ikhaya lakho limemele izingane zakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Hlanganisa izithombe, faka amasiko nemithetho, unikeze ikamelo labo, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi banakho konke okunethezeka ekhaya.
Kungenza umehluko omkhulu enjabulweni yabo nasebudlelwaneni bakho uma bengaboni sengathi bahamba emgqeni we-bachelor's ngempelasonto.
Yazi Indlela Yokusingatha Amaholide
Iholide lakho lokuqala njengotata ohlukanisile lizoba nzima, akukho ukuphika lokho. Ukuphila komndeni owawuphethe kwakugcwele amasiko nenjabulo futhi uKhisimusi namanye amaholide angasivumeli sikhohlwe lokho.
Ukuqaphela ukuthi lo nyaka ngeke kube okufanayo isinyathelo sokuqala esihle sokuzilungiselela umcimbi. Ibuye ikunike ithuba lokwenza izinhlelo zokulwa nesilungu.
Hlela isikhathi sokugubha amaholidi nezingane zakho. Yakha amasiko amasha futhi ubenze bahlanganyele ekuhleleni imisebenzi yakho yeholide. Okubaluleke kakhulu, hlala uhle. Kuzokusiza wena kanye nezingane ukuba nesikhathi esingcono kakhulu.
Ukubhekana Nomntwana Omusha
Abanikazi abaningi abahlukanisile bayesaba usuku lapho umkakho wangaphambili ephinde aphinde ashade futhi ubaba omusha abone izinyathelo ekuphileni kwezingane. Kungaba nzima ngabo bobabili nobaba omusha omusha, kodwa ngenxa yezingane, kubalulekile ukugcina izinto zomphakathi.
Uma lesi simo sivela, qiniseka ukuthi awushintshi ubuhlobo bakho nezingane zakho. Ungamncintisana naye noma uzame ukuphumula imithetho ukuze ubukeke 'njengomfana omuhle.' Izingane zakho zizokuthanda kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, ngakho-ke idlale ngokupholile.
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