Ukuba nomntwana ongakabi yisikhathi, owaziwa nangokuthi "u-preemie," kungesabeka ngisho nokucindezela. Abazali balindele ngelanga lapho bengakwazi ukuletha ingane yabo ekhaya esibhedlela, kodwa lapho umntwana ezalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kufanele ahlale esibhedlela, ngezinye izikhathi izinyanga, kuyilapho abazali beya ekhaya bengenalutho. Kuyinto enesizungu, engenalutho.
Ukushiya ingane ngemuva kwesonto esibhedlela kungukuqala kwezinkinga ezilindele abazali be-preemie ezinyangeni ezilandelayo.
Enye yalezi zinkinga iwukuthi uma ingane ikhula ngendlela evamile. Uma umntwana ezalwa amasonto ayisithupha ekuqaleni, ingane kufanele ihlale nini? Qala ukuhamba? Qala ukukhuluma? Amashadi wezinhlelo ezijwayelekile zokuthuthukiswa azibonakali ewusizo ngoba ukuthuthukiswa kwe-preemie kugxila ngemuva kwezingane ezesikhathi esigcwele. Kodwa-ke, ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungase kungabikho emuva njengoba abazali becabanga. Ukuze unqume ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwe-preemie kungaphakathi kwezigaba ezivamile, kuzomele badinga ukulungisa iminyaka yobudala be-preemie . Lokhu kusho ukuthi esikhundleni sokusebenzisa usuku lwangempela lomntwana lokubeletha, bazosebenzisa usuku olufanele lomntwana. Isibonelo, umntwana owazalwa ngoJanuwari wesithathu kodwa engakafaneli kuze kube nguFebhuwari wesithathu uzobhekwa njengengane esanda kuzalwa ngoFebhuwari wesithathu. Ngo-Mashi wesithathu, umntwana uzobhekwa njengenyanga eyodwa ubudala.
Ukuhlolisisa ukuthuthukiswa kwe-preemie futhi eyanekhono kunzima nakakhulu. Okokuqala, yize izibonakaliso zobunikazi zingabonakala ezinganeni , lezo zibonakaliso cishe ngeke zivele kuze kube yisikhathi ngemuva kokuzalwa komntwana.
Ngenxa yokuthi izitha zangaphambili zivame ukuzwa ukulibaziseka kwentuthuko , izimpawu zingase zibe nzima nakakhulu ukufunda.
Ukuthuthukiswa okungenasisekelo kwezingane ezinesineke
Ngisho nasezimo ezijwayelekile, ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezinamakhono kungase kungalingani. Izingane ezinezinwele azilandeli ngaso sonke isikhathi indlela yokuthuthukiswa evamile, okulandelayo esikhundleni sephethini yentuthuko engavamile .
Intuthuko yabo yokucabangela isivele iqhubekela phambili kakhulu kunalowo olindelwe kubantwana abaneminyaka efanayo, kodwa ukuthuthukiswa kwabo ngokomzimba kungase kungabi nakakhulu. Empeleni, kungase kube ngemuva. I-preemia ingane ingase ibe namathuba amaningi okuba nezinkinga ezinkulu phakathi kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, ezenhlalakahle kanye nezomzwelo nokuzikhandla. Kodwa-ke, ngoba abazali bakhathazeka ngokubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa okungathinta ingane kamuva ekuphileni, lokhu kuthuthukiswa okungalingani kwengane eyazalwa kusenesikhathi kungahle kubangele abazali ukuba bafune ukwelashwa uma kungekho okudingekayo.
Amandla amakhulu nezici
Ngisho nabazali bezingane ezinesikhathi esigcwele abanezinkathazo banenkathazo yokunquma ukuthi ingane yabo isipho noma cha. Bangabheka uhlu lwezimpawu ezinezici futhi uma ingane yabo ingenazo zonke izici ezibalwe, bacabanga ukuthi ingane yabo akufanele ibe nekhono. Isibonelo, isimiso esisodwa sezinsana zezingane sibheka izinyanga eziyisithupha. Ezinye izingane ezinesineke empeleni zisho igama labo lokuqala ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala. Noma kunjalo, izingane eziningi ezinesiphiwo empeleni zikhulumayo. Akugcini nje ukuthi bakhulume ngaphambili kunabantwana abaningi, bakhuluma kamuva kakhulu. Eqinisweni, ezinye izingane ezinezipho azikhulumi kuze kube sekupheleni kokuzalwa kwabo kwesibili. Bangase bangalandeli ngisho nephethini evamile yokubamba nokulinganisa imisindo.
Akuyona into engavamile ukuba izingane ezinesipho zihlale zithule kuze kube yilapho sezikulungele ukukhuluma bese sezilungele, ukuqala ukukhuluma, ngokuvamile emisho ephelele.
Uma ingane izalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, abazali bayobe bekhathazeka ngokwengeziwe ngalokho abakubonayo njengokulibaziseka kwelimi, lapho lokho abakubonayo kungase kube kuhle ukuziphatha okuhle.
Ukuzwela okukhulu
Enye inkinga abazali abanezingane ezinamakhono okufanele baqalane nayo ukukhathazeka ngokweqile noma okukhulu. Enye yalezi zizwela, okubizwa ngokuthi i-overexcitability yemvelo, ibukeka kakhulu njenge-Sensory Integration Disorder, okunye okuyaziwa ngokuthi ukungasebenzi kwe-Sensory Integration.
Kodwa-ke, lezi azizona izimo ezifanayo, kepha izingane ezazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zivame ukutholakala ukuthi zinesifo lapho lokho okuboniswa yingane kubhekene nezingane eziphikisayo.
Okubalulekile kubazali be-Preemie
Abazali abangabantwana babo abazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ababonisa izimpawu zobuphiko, njengokuqapha noma ukusebenza okuphezulu kwengqondo, basesimweni esinzima. Ingabe ukuziphatha abazibonayo ezinganeni zabo kubonisa ukulibaziseka kwentuthuko noma yizibonakaliso zentuthuko evamile? Ingabe izingane zabo zidinga ukwelashwa noma ingabe izingane zizoqhubeka zikhula njengabantwana abanezintandokazi ezenzayo, ngendlela enenhlonipho nangomzwelo omkhulu? Le nkinga ikhona kubazali abaningi abanezingane ezinamakhono, kepha kuyinkathazo nakakhulu uma ingane izalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngoba abantwana abaningi abangakabiphi isikhathi banokulibaziseka kwentuthuko njengokulibaziseka ekukhulumeni kanye nezinye izinkinga ezifana ne-Sensory Integration Disorder. Abazali kufanele baxoxe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokukhathazeka kwabo nodokotela wezingane zabo, kodwa kufanele baqiniseke ukuthi bona, kanye nodokotela wezingane zabo, bayazi ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezinezintandokazi kuyabonakala kanjani.