Thola Usizo Embusweni Wakho
Uhlelo lokusekelwa kwengane lwaklanyelwe ukuhlinzeka izingane ngezimali ezisekelayo ezidingekayo ukuze zikhule. Kodwa uhlelo luyiphutha futhi ngokuvamile lunikeza abazali izigwegwe ezingaphezu kwalokho ukuthi, ngempela, bangakwazi ukukhokha. Nakhu okufanele ukwenze uma ungomemeza "Usizo! Angikwazi ukukhokhela izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane. Yini okufanele ngiyenze?"
Usizo lwabazali abangakwazi ukukhokhela izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane
Abezindaba bakhathalela kakhulu 'abazali ababulalayo.' Noma kunjalo, akuwona wonke umuntu ongeke akwazi ukukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane ukuvimbela ukusekelwa kwengane ngaphandle kokunganaki noma ukunganaki .
Ngokuvamile, abazali abahluleki ukukhokhela izingane ngoba bangakwazi ukukhokhela ama-premium. Isibonelo, i-imeyili elandelayo ithunyelwe umama ongakwazi ukukhokha izinkokhelo zokusekelwa kwabantwana ngesikhathi futhi angaqiniseki ukuthi ungaphila.
Ngingumzali okhokhela ingane ukusekela ingane eyodwa futhi nginezingane ezintathu ekhaya ukusekela kanye eyodwa ekolishi. Ngenxa yokuthi ngiphumile embusweni, inkantolo yanquma ukukhululeka kwami ukukhokha futhi ngingacabangi nezinye izingane zami.
Ngikhubazekile okwamanje futhi anginayo imali engenayo. Okwamanje, izinkokhelo zokusekela izingane zisadingeka, ngisho noma ngingakwazi ukusebenza. Ngikwenza kanjani ngezimali ezincane noma ezingekho?
~ Angela W.
Ngeshwa, isimo somama lesi sivamile. Ngokusho kwe-US Census Bureau, abazali abangama-7,256,000 abahlukumezekile babesekelwa izingane. Kodwa-ke, kuphela ama-3,290,000 (noma 45.3%) athole inani eligcwele. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kunabaningi, abazali abaningi abangenalo ukuphepha abangakwazi ukukhokhisa imali yabo yokusekela izingane ngokugcwele.
Ezimweni ezinjengezakho, kunesizathu esizwakalayo esicacile esicela ukuhlolwa kabusha kwe-oda lokusekela ingane.
Yini Okufanele Uyenze?
Okokuqala, xhumana ne-Child Support Enforcement Office esifundazweni lapho kukhishwa khona umyalelo wokusekelwa kwengane. Okuzodinga ukukwenza ukufaka ukuhambisa okusemthethweni okucela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yezimo ezishintshileyo.
Kungani?
Isamba sokusekelwa kwengane okhokhwayo ekuqaleni kwakunqume ukusebenzisa imibiko yakho engenayo kanye nezimali ezinikezwe ngaleso sikhathi. Nokho, njengoba sazi, izimo ziyashintsha. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungenzeka kaningi eminyakeni edlule oyikhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana.
Khumbula ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ukucela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yezimo ezishintshile kunokuhluleka ukukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane.
Izimo Ezishintshileyo Ziyini?
Noma umzali angacela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yezimo ezishintshileyo. Izibonelo zezimo ezingahle zidinga ushintsho kumyalelo wokusekelwa kwengane zihlanganisa:
- Izinguquko kumholo
- Ukungasebenzi
- Izindleko zezokwelapha
- Izindleko ezengeziwe ezihlobene nokukhulisa ingane njengoba ekhula
Yini Okunye Okudingeka Uyazi?
Sicela uqaphele ukuthi kubalulekile, ukuze uvikeleke, ukuthi umyalelo uguqulelwe ngendlela enkantolo. Gwema ukungena esivumelwaneni somlomo esingabophezeli, esingasakwazi ukubonwa yizinkantolo ngesikhathi sokuphikisana esikhathini esizayo ngenani lemali ekhokhwayo.