Iziqondiso mayelana nokuboshwa kwabazali ngokusekelwa kwengane okungewona ukukhokha
Ukuboshwa kwaba ingozi yangempela kubazali abangakwazi ukukhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana. Uma uzitholile kulesi simo, sebenzisa amathiphu angezansi ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngalokho izinkantolo ezicabangayo, kanye nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngenkathi ukhonza isikhathi sejele ngoba ungakhokhi ukusekelwa kwengane.
Kwabazali abangenalo ilungelo lokusekela izingane, kubalulekile ukuqaphela izingozi.
Ngenkathi ungase ubalekele ukusekelwa kwengane okungewona inkokhelo okwesikhashana, ungakwazi ukuyijayeza ekugcineni iyokuthatha. Uma kwenzeka, inkantolo inganquma ukunibamba umzali ngokudelela. Lokhu ngokuvamile kusho izinhlawulo (ngaphezulu kwalokho osuvele ukhokhela khona). Ngaphezu kwalokho, inkantolo ingakhetha ukubopha ngaphandle kokukhokha kokusekelwa kwengane. Lokhu kusho ukuya ejele, futhi kuyisizathu esibi kunazo zonke izinkantolo ezisetshenziselwa ukuphoqelela izinkokhelo zokusekelwa kwabantwana.
Ukuboshwa kwabazali abangabambisani nokuNakekela izingane ezingekho Ukukhokhela Ukusekelwa Kwabantwana
Uma inkantolo ithola umzali ukuba abe ngemuva kokukhokha izingane, ijaji lingamthatha lowo mzali eboshiwe ngenxa yokungakhokhi. Isikhathi sokuboshwa sivame ukubhekwa:
- Isikhathi esincane esincane
- Isikhathi esithathayo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane zizokhokhwa esikhathini esizayo
- Ngokujwayelekile kungaphezulu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha
Izinkantolo eziningi zizocabangela kuphela ukuboshwa ngemuva kokuzama ukuqoqa izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane ngokusebenzisa ezinye izindlela, njengokugubha inkokhelo yomzali.
Ngokujwayelekile izinkantolo zithatha ukuthi kunesithakazelo somntanakho ukuthola ukunakekelwa nokusekelwa kwezezimali kubazali bobabili, yingakho bengaboni njalo abaphula umthetho ngokuphindaphindiwe uma kuziwa ekusekelweni kwengane okungewona ukukhokha.
Izinto ezicatshangwa ngaphambi kokuboshwa
Ngaphambi kokubopha umzali ngokungakhokhi kokusekelwa kwengane, inkantolo izocabangela ngezici ezilandelayo:
- Inani lokusekelwa kwabantwana okumele likhokhwe (ngamanye amazwi, inani elisekhona elivelele, kufaka phakathi izinhlawulo kanye nezinhlawulo)
- Noma iziphi izizathu zanikezwa ngokungekho ukukhokha; ngokwesibonelo, uma ubaba ebuza imibuzo engabazali, inkantolo inganquma ukungabambeli ubaba kuze kube yilapho sekuvivinywa ukuhlolwa kwabazali
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzali ongeyena ovikelayo usebenza kahle
Izinto Okumele Uzicabange Ngesikhathi Ukuboshwa Kwabazali Abangabambisani
Abazali ababoshiwe ngenxa yokungabikho ukukhokhelwa kwengane kufanele benze lokhu okulandelayo ngesikhathi beboshiwe:
- Yiya emakilasini omzali
- Gcina uxhumane nengane ngokusebenzisa izincwadi nezincingo
- Zama ukwakha nokugcina isimiso esivamile sokuthintana
- Uma kungenjalo kakade, sebenze ukwakha ubuhlobo obuphilile, obuqhubekayo nomzali wokugcina ingane
- Uma umzali ongekho ngaphansi komsebenzi engasebenzi, zama ukuthola usizo oluvela kuma-ejensi kahulumeni ekukhululweni kwezinhlelo kanye / noma ukusebenzisa noma yiziphi izinhlelo ezitholakalayo zemfundo noma amakilasi
- Uma ukuzalwa komuntu kungasungulwa, i-ejensi yokuqinisa izingane kanye / noma iziphathimandla zasejele zingasiza ngokuthola ukuhlolwa kobunikazi
- Funa usizo lweziphathimandla zokusekela izingane ekutholeni ukuguqulwa kokusekelwa kwengane, uma kudingeka
Ukuze uthole ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuboshwa ngenxa yezibopho zamanje ezisekela izingane, khuluma nommeli oqeqeshiwe ophethe amacala okusekela abantwana esifundazweni sakho noma ubheke imihlahlandlela yokusekela ingane yakho.
Ihlelwe nguJennifer Wolf.