Izinyathelo zabazali abasanda kusebenza abafanele ukusekelwa izingane
Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi wakho kungesabisa, ikakhulukazi uma unezingane. Ukuntuleka kwemisebenzi kungaba nomthelela kumakhono omzali wokuqhubeka nokukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi umyalelo wokusekelwa kwengane usasebenza, ngisho noma umzali engasebenzi. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baqonde ukuthi izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane zingashintsha kanjani izinzuzo zokungasebenzi. Izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane ziyadingeka ukusiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izidingo zezingane zihlangene.
Umzali ongeyena ongalungelo lokubambisana onomsebenzi osebenzayo wokusekela ingane futhi ulahlekelwa umsebenzi wakhe cishe uzoba nemibuzo elandelayo mayelana nokungasebenzi nokusekelwa kwengane:
Kwenzekani Ekukhokheni Kwezingane Zami Uma Ngiyeka Umsebenzi Wami?
Ukungasebenzi akusho ukuthi akudingeki ukhokhele ukusekelwa kwengane yakho. Umzali osanda kuqashwa kufanele ahlole ngokushesha isimo ukuze athole ukuthi ufanelekile yini izinzuzo zokungasebenzi. Uma kunjalo, yazise ihhovisi lokungasebenzi kulo lonke i-oda elihle lokusekela izingane. Ihhovisi lokungasebenzi lizokhipha inkokhelo yokusekelwa kwengane emholweni womholo ongasebenzi.
Kuthiwani Uma Umzali Ongasebenzi Angakutholi Izinzuzo Zokungasebenzi?
Umzali kufanele aqhubeke nokusebenza nenkantolo yomndeni kanye nomzali womntwana ngesikhathi sokungasebenzi. Umzali ongaqashiwe kufanele abhale ukuthi useshe umsebenzi wakhe oqhubekayo. Uma umzali egcina umsebenzi omusha, kufanele akhokhele ukusekelwa kwengane yakhe ngekhekhe, kuze kube yilapho izinkokhelo zingathathwa ngokuqondile emholweni wazo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali kufanele balungiselele ukwanda kancane kokukhokhwa kwengane ukukhokhela isikhathi sokungasebenzi.
Kwenzekani Ezinzuzo Zempilo Yengane Yami Uma Ngilahlekelwa Umsebenzi Wami?
Imithetho eminingi yokusekela ingane idinga umzali ongekho ngaphansi kokukhokhwa icala lokukhokha ingane ukuhlinzeka umshuwalense wezempilo kwengane yakhe.
Uma umzali elahlekelwa umsebenzi wakhe, uzolahlekelwa yomshuwalense wezempilo. Ngokuvamile, isisebenzi sinelungelo lokuqhubeka nezinzuzo zomshuwalense wezempilo nge-COBRA. Kodwa-ke, izindleko zomshuwalense we-COBRA azixhaswanga, njengoba izindleko zezinzuzo eziningi zomshuwalense, ezinikezwa ngumqashi futhi, ngakho-ke, zingabiza kakhulu. Uma umzali engasebenzi futhi engakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuhlinzekela umshuwalense wezempilo kwengane, umzali kufanele akhulume nomzali wokulondeka, okokuqala. Mhlawumbe umzali wokulondeka anganezela ingane yakhe kwinqubomgomo yomshuwalense wezempilo uma kukhona uhlelo olutholakalayo. Uma kungenjalo, umzali wokulondeka angase afune ukungeza ingane emcimbini womshuwalense okhokhelwa yi-federalally-funded for children.
Akekho ofuna ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi kodwa kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izimali zakho zinakekelwe uma wenza. Ukuntuleka kwemisebenzi kunzima kakhulu kokubili abazali bokuphepha nabangabambeleli ukuphatha. Noma kunjalo, isidingo sokusekela ingane asiqedi lapho umzali engasebenzi. Uma umzali ongenazo ukugwema ewela ezikhathini zemali ezinzima ngempela inkantolo kufanele yenziwe. I-oda lokusekela ingane lizoshintshwa kuphela uma umzali efuna ukuguqulwa. Abazali kufanele bafune usizo lommeli oqeqeshiwe esifundazweni sabo abangasiza ukufaka ifayela ukuze kwenziwe ukuguqulwa.