Izingane Nezempi

Indlela Ongaba Ngayo Ukusekela Kwabo Okukhulu Kakhulu

Ukuphila akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi izingane ezikhulayo ezempi. Kufanele abhekane nokunyakaza okuvamile, abazali abathunyelwa, futhi bathole indawo okufanele bavumelane ngayo njengoba bevuthwa. Akumangalisi-ke ukuthi amabhangi empi avame ukubhekana nokudideka, ukucindezeleka , intukuthelo , ukwesaba noma ukuphelelwa ithemba. Kodwa izindaba akuzona zonke ezimbi. Izingane zempi nazo zijabulela injabulo nenjabulo enkulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi izingane zihamba nezinguquko eziningi ebuntwaneni futhi zisengozini ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yabo yobudala obudala, njengoba ukukhulelwa kuhamba. Nazi izindlela eziyisithupha ezinamandla ongaba umsizi wabo omkhulu kanye ne-cheerleader ngezikhathi ezinzima.

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Khuluma Ngokukhululekile

Enye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokusekela izingane zakho ukukhuluma nabo-uma ziphikisana nazo noma kubo. Ngakho-ke uma ungazange ube nezingxoxo ezinde esikhathini esidlule, manje sekuyisikhathi sokuqala. Bavumele bahole ingxoxo futhi bakhuthaze ukuba bahlanganyele imicabango yabo, imizwa, ithemba, izinjabulo, ukwesaba, noma ukungabaza nawe. Kodwa ungabacindezeli ukuba bakhulume-uma uzama, cishe bazokufihla izinto esikhathini esizayo. Uma ushintsha indlela oxhumana ngayo nezingane zakho, nabo, bazofunda ukuthi bangakuthemba. Ukuba nokukhulumisana okuvulekile nokuthembekile kuzokusiza wazi kahle ukuthi ungasiza kanjani futhi usekele ingane yakho.

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Nika Isikhala Sabantwana Ukuveza Imizwa

Ucwaningo olwenziwe yi-National Military Family Association lwaqhathanisa izingane emkhakheni wezombusazwe kulabo abakhuliswa emindenini yempi futhi bathola ukuthi izingane zasempi zilwa kancane ngesikhathi sokuthunyelwa kunontanga yabo. Baneenkhathi ezilukhuni ukulungisa ukushintsha futhi bangase balahle noma banganaki umnakekeli wabo. Baba nesikhathi esibucayi ukuxhumana nabangane futhi bangase babe nomhawu uma bebona abanye abantu nomndeni wabo ndawonye. Ezinye zalezi zamasosha ezempi zisebenza kahle kakhulu esikoleni futhi zihlukumeza ukuqhubeka ekilasini. Abanye babhekene nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo . Ukuvumela izingane ukuba ziveze indlela abazizwa ngayo-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imizwa emihle, embi, noma engenandaba-ingabazuzisa kakhulu. Uma ingane yakho isenza kahle futhi ungazi ukuthi kungani noma yini ongayenza ukuze usize, kunezinsiza ezikhona kuwe ezempi. Ingane yakho ingazuza ngokuhlangana nomtholampilo noma isifo sengqondo. Ukwelashwa kweqembu kungaba yithuluzi eliwusizo izingane noma intsha yokuziveza ngokusekela kwezinye izingane ezisezimo ezifanayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unquma ukwenzani, khumbula ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuvumela izingane zakho ukukhulumisana nezinkinga zabo nawe nabanye.

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Gcina imizila evamile

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzali ulungiselela ukuhambisa noma usuvele usethunyelwe, umndeni wakho uhamba ngokushesha, noma izingane zakho zikhathazeka ngokuqala isikole esisha, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ihlinzeka isimiso. Ukusungula imizila kungasebenza kakhulu ekusizeni izingane zakho zizwe ngokwengeziwe ekulawuleni impilo yazo. Qinisekisa ukuthi izingane zikhuphuke ngesikhathi esifanayo usuku ngalunye futhi zicacile ngalokho abangakulindela ngesikhathi sokudla, ngemuva kwemisebenzi yokudla, izikhathi zokulala, kanye namaviki. Izingane ezinezinhlelo zokuhlela ukubhekana nezimo ezincane ezingokomzwelo, ukungaqiniseki, nokungaqiniseki njengalabo abangazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela noma kunini isikhathi noma usuku.

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Siza Izingane Zikhulumisane Nomzali Othunyelwe

Ezinye izingane zizoyeka ukubhala noma ukubiza umzali osusiwe ngoba ziyesaba ukuthi izinto zihlukile noma zizwa ukuthi zishiyiwe. Siza izingane zakho ezincane ukubhala incwadi elula noma ukudweba isithombe somzali wabo osetshenzisiwe. Batshele indlela incwadi enhle ngayo noma isithombe esizokwenza ngayo ubaba (noma umama) futhi ubakhuthaze ukuba bafake lo mzali empilweni yabo. Khuthaza izingane ezindala ukuthi zigcine amaphephandaba noma izenzakalo ezibalulekile noma izenzakalo ezingabelana nomzali othunyelwe lapho ebuya. Khuthaza wonke amalungu omndeni ukuba ahlanganyele kumakholi wefoni kanye nevidiyo futhi wabelane ngezindaba ezinhle nelilunga lomndeni elisetshenzisiwe.

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Bazisize Uhlobo Ngalolu Luzwa "Oluzayo"

Zonke izingane ngokwemvelo zijabule ngomzali wazo ukuba abuyele ekhaya kodwa bazozikhombisa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Abanye bazozizwa besaba emavikini, izinsuku, namahora ngaphambi kokuba umzali othunyelwe eze ekhaya. Bangase bazizwe benecala ngokuzizwa besaba. Uma uzizwa ukuthi yilokho okwenzekayo, kubalulekile ukubasiza ukuthi baqonde ukuthi leyo mizwa ingokwemvelo. Izingane zingase zizwe ukwesaba ngenxa yokuthi aziqiniseki ukuthi izinto zizohamba kanjani uma umzali othunyelwe efika ekhaya, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzali ushintshile, noma ngabe ngeke aqaphele ukuthi ingane ishintshile futhi ikhule kusukela ukuthunyelwa kuqala.

Ezinye izingane zikhathazeka ngokuthi amalungelo athile azosuswa lapho umzali othunyelwe efika ekhaya noma ukuthi isiyalo sizoba nzima. Futhi uma umzali osetshenzisiwe empeleni efika ekhaya, izingane zingase zibe nzima kanzima ukulungisa. Izingane nezinsana cishe zizoqaphela "omfokazi" omusha, futhi izingane ezincane zingase zibe namahloni ekuqaleni. Abantwana abaneminyaka engabazali bangase benze njengokungathi ubaba uyiqhawe labo futhi bamlandele nxazonke, ngenkathi intsha ingase igweme ubaba ngoba ayinaso isiqiniseko sokuthi angenzani ngokuzungezile okwamanje. Lezi zikhathi zokulungisa zijwayelekile futhi kuthatha isikhathi esithile ukuze wonke umuntu ajwayele ukuthandana.

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Gubha Izipho Zabo Ezihlukile Kanye Namalenta

Yonke ingane inezici ezikhethekile zobuntu, amakhono, amakhono, izipho, namakhono azobasiza njengoba behamba kulo lonke ukuphila. Izingane ezikhuthazwa ukuba zihlakulele futhi ziphishekele imigomo yazo zizophumelela kakhulu kunabo abathola isikhuthazo esincane. Enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokumisa ingane ekuguleni noma ukukhathazeka ngokungapheli ukubuka futhi ugxile kwenye indawo. Izingane zasempi zingabasiza ngokukhethekile, zidalwe futhi ziphefumulelwe ngenxa yezimo ezinzima okumele zibekezelele empilweni yabo. Bafanelwe ukunakwa, uthando, nokunakekelwa. Asazi zonke izindlela zokuba umndeni wezempi uyashintsha, kodwa siyazi ukuthi lezi zingane zinamandla futhi ziqinile. Baye bahlangabezana novivinyo olunzima futhi abaningi baphuma kangcono. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, iningi lezingane ezizethemba ukuthi abazali bazo bayabathanda futhi bayabasekela bazokwenza kahle.