Uhlukanisile iminyaka eminingana edlule futhi wavumelana nezinkokhelo zokusekela izingane. Manje, uphinde ushade. Ungase unqume ukuthi ube nezingane eziningi nomlingani wakho omusha - noma ungase uthathe imithwalo yemali yezingane zakho zomshado omusha. Ungase ucabange ngisho nangokuthola izingane zakho ezishade naye emshadweni odlule.
Ngaphansi kwalezi zimo, kubalulekile ukwazi ngezibopho zakho zomthetho nezinketho.
Okulandelayo kwe-FAQ, okuhlelwe izihloko, kuzokunikeza indawo yokuqala. Uzofuna ukulandela lokhu kulesi sihloko ngokubuyekeza imithetho kahulumeni wakho, futhi-ke, ukuxoxa ngezinketho kanye nemibono nomuntu oshade naye nomngane wakho omusha.
Imibuzo yabazali ekunqopheleni mayelana nokusekelwa kwezingane kanye nokushada
Uma ngikhetha ukushada, ingabe izingane zami zizothola ukusekelwa kwengane encane?
Ukuhlinzeka ngokusekelwa kwabantwana kungumthwalo wabantwana bokuzalwa kwengane. Ngakho-ke, emazweni amaningi, izinkantolo ngeke zinciphise izinkokhelo zokuxhaswa kwengane ngenxa yesikhombiso somzali sokuqeda ukushada kabusha.
Umlingani wami omusha ufuna ukwamukela ngokomthetho izingane zami. Uma ukutholwa kwezingane kuqhubeka, ingabe izingane zami zizoqhubeka zithola ukwesekwa kwengane kusuka ku-ex yami?
Iningi lamazwe ngeke livume ukutholwa komzali wesinyathelo-ngaphandle uma umzali ongekho ngaphansi komthetho eye walahlekile amalungelo akhe omzali, okungajwayelekile lapho kwenzeka khona abazali abangenalo ilungelo lokubamba iqhaza ekuzimpilweni kwezingane zabo futhi bakhokhela izingane.
Ngemva kokuba ngiphinde ngishade, ngingakhetha ngokusemthethweni ukuthi ngingatholi ukusekelwa kwabantwana egameni lezingane zami, ngoba izimali zethu zomphakathi zizokwanela?
Lokhu akusikwazelwanga, kuwe noma nge-ex yakho. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele ucabange ukulondoloza imali eSikhumulweni seSigaba 529 semfundo yabantwana bakho uma ungayidingi izindleko zansuku zonke.
Ukwengeza, i-ex yakho kufanele iqhubeke nokugcina amarekhodi acacile, anembile yokukhokhwa kwengane ngayinye eyenziwe lapho kwenzeka khona nanoma imuphi umbuzo wokuthi ngabe usekhona yini manje kulezi zinkokhelo.
Imibuzo yabazali engabambisani nabantwana ngokuphathelene nokusekelwa kwezingane kanye nokushada
Umkami osanda kushada naye usanda kushada futhi yena nomlingani wakhe banemali eyanele. Kungani kufanele ngiqhubeke nokukhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana, lapho bejabulela izinga eliphakeme lokuphila kunami?
Kufanele uqhubeke nokukhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana ngesikhathi futhi ngokugcwele ngoba ukwenza kanjalo kuyisibopho sakho esingokomthetho. Uma ushiya ngemuva kokusekelwa kwengane, uhulumeni angakhokhisa intshisekelo ngesamba esingakhokhiwe futhi angakhetha ukuhlobisa inkokhelo yakho, wenqaba ukukhipha ipasipoti, uvumele isinxephezelo sokungasebenzi kanye nokubuyiselwa kwentela, ngisho nokuphoqelela isikhathi sejele.
Okwamanje ngikhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana. Uma ngikhetha ukushada, ingabe izinkantolo zizolindela ukuthi ngikhokhele ukusekelwa kwengane eyengeziwe ngoba imali yethu engenayo iyomkhulu kunenzuzo engayenza lapho kusekelwa ingane?
Cha. Izinkantolo azibheki ukuhlinzeka ngezimali zezingane ezikhona ngaphambi kokuba zibe ngumthwalo wemfanelo womuntu omusha oshade naye.
Uma ngiphinde ngishade futhi sinezingane ndawonye, ngingacela ukuguqulwa kokusekelwa kwengane engikukhokha njengamanje?
Izizathu zokuguqulwa kokusekelwa kwengane, kanye nomthelela wezingane ezalandela ekukhokhweni kwezingane ezisekhona, zihluka ngohulumeni.
Ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi, bhekisa emibhalweni yakho yokusekelwa kwengane ethize.
Ngokuvamile, izinkantolo ziyanqikaza ukunciphisa ukusekelwa kwabantwana kwezingane ezikhona ngenxa yokuzalwa kwezingane ezalandela. Uma umzali angabonisa ukuthi izindleko zomndeni jikelele zanda kakhulu, noma kunjalo, noma ukuthi imali engenayo yesikhombisi isinciphile kakhulu, izinkantolo zingase zibheke ukuguqulwa kokusekelwa kwengane.
Ukulandela ukushada komzali, ama-oda wokugcina izingane awaguquki. Abazali abacabangela ukushada kabusha kufanele baxoxe nommeli mayelana nemigomo yezomthetho neyezimali yokwakha umndeni ohlangene, ikakhulukazi uma kunamakhodi okusekela abantwana okwamanje.