Yazi ukuthi yini ozoyibuza eNgqungqutheleni Yakho Yomzali / Umfundisi olandelayo
Uma ucabanga ngalokho ingane yakho eyenzayo ngosuku lwesimanje - ukudweba, ukudlala, ukufunda, ukudla ukudla okulula - ungazibuza ukuthi kungani othisha bezingane zasenkulisa babambelele izinkomfa zabazali / uthisha.
Ungase uzibuze, "Kungenzeka yini ukuba sibe khona ukuze sikhulume ngakho? Ingane yami ayikwazi ukufaka umbala emigqeni okwamanje?" Ngenkathi lokho kungenzeka noma kungenjalo, izingqungquthela zomzali / uthisha empeleni ziyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yenkinga yasenkulisa yengane yakho.
Ukubaluleka kwezingqungquthela zabazali / zothisha
Uma uhlangana nomfundisi wezingane zasenkulisa, uzofunda okuningi ngomncane wakho, kusukela emandleni akhe nasebuthakathaka kuye ezintweni azithandayo ozodlala nazo nokuthi uxhumana kanjani nezinye izingane. Ngabe uyazibuza ukuthi yini eqhubekayo ekilasini lasenkulisa? Lena yithuba lakho lokuthola! Cabanga ngqungquthela yomzali / uthisha wasenkulisa njengamehlo akho nezindlebe ezweni ongahlali njalo uyingxenye yalo.
Ukulungiselela Ingqungquthela Yomzali / Teacher
Ngakho-ke manje ukuthi wazi ukubaluleka kwalezi zinhlobo zomhlangano, unomsebenzi wesikole owokuwenza. Nakhu ukuthi ungalungisa kanjani kanye nohlu lwemibuzo ongase ucabangele ukubuza uthisha wengane yakho.
- Yilungele. Ngaphambi kokuba ungene emhlanganweni womzali / uthisha wengane yakho, bhala phansi uhlu lwemibuzo nokukhathazeka ongase ube nakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona izifundo, ezenhlalakahle, noma ngesenzakalo esithile esingase senzeke ekilasini. Kungumqondo omuhle futhi, ukuba nengxoxo esheshayo nengane yakho. Ingabe uyathanda amaschool? Iyini ingxenye ayithandayo? Yini engayithandi? Bhala konke phansi ukuze ungakhohlwa. Leli thuba elihle kakhulu lokuthola isikhathi ngasinye ngothisha wengane yakho ozogxila kuphela kumncane wakho ngakho ungafuni ukuphuthelwa. Letha futhi ipeni nephepha, ngakho-ke ungathatha amanothi njengoba uxoxa.
- Yiba nomqondo ovulekile. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuzwa izinto ezinhle ngomntanakho, kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi zonke izingane aziphelelanga. Uma uthisha wakho wezingane zasenkulisa ekhuluma okuthile okungaba yinkinga - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyinkinga yokuziphatha noma ngisho nalokho uthisha acabanga ukuthi kungase kube ukubambezeleka kwenkulumo noma enye ukulibaziseka kokuthuthukiswa , lalela lokho akushoyo bese uqala ukusebenza ndawonye ukuze eze up with plan of action. Uma udinga isikhathi sokucabanga ngakho, yisho kanjalo, ubone ukuthi uthisha uyatholakala yini ngesinye isikhathi. Khumbula umgomo ovamile ukusiza ingane yakho iphumelele futhi uthisha wasenkulisa angadlala indima enkulu kulokho.
- Thola okucacile. Uma uthisha ekhuluma ukuthi ingane yakho inenkathazo yokuzibandakanya ekilasini, cela ukuthi ikunikeze imininingwane ethile. Uzothola umuzwa ongcono wezinto eziqhubekayo, futhi uzokwazi ukunikeza ukuqonda okungemuva uma engakunika izigameko eziningiliziwe. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho iphoqa umfundi ofunda naye ekilasini ngoLwesithathu odlule, ungase ukhumbule ubusuku ngaphambi kokuba alele embhedeni futhi wayekhukhume kakhulu lapho evuka ekuseni.
- Nikeza okucacile. Ukuxhumana imgwaqo emibili ngempela futhi akukaze kube mnandi kuno. Uma kukhona okuthile okuqhubekayo ekhaya - ukuzalwa komntanakho omusha , ukuthutha, isehlukaniso, ukufa emndenini - nakanjani ake uthisha azi ukuthi kwenzekani. Futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngabe ungaphakathi kwenkomfa yothisha noma cha. Ngisho noma ingane yakho ihamba kahle ekhaya, izenzakalo zokuphila ezinjengalezi zingathinta nakanjani ukuziphatha kwengane.
- Khuphuka ngecebo lomdlalo. Ekupheleni kwenkomfa, qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi izinyathelo ezilandelayo zikhona (uma zikhona) nokuthi iyiphi indlela engcono yokuxhumana nothisha wengane yakho - ifoni, i-imeyili, ngemuva kwesikole, njll. Uma uthisha ubonise ukuthi kudingeka ulwazi oluthe xaxa, thola ukuthi uzoba nini kuwe futhi uma ungakwenza futhi kufanele ulandele.
Imibuzo emihlanu yoMfundisi Wenkolo YaseNtshonalanga Yenane
Kungenzeka ukuthi okuningi kokukhathazeka kwakho noma imibuzo izophendulwa ngaphakathi kwenkomfa ngokwayo, kodwa uma uthisha efuna ukwazi ukuthi unakho yini okunye okubhekiswe kuyo, cabangela ukubuza le mibuzo:
- Yini ingane yami ethanda ngayo ekilasini?
- Yiziphi amandla namandla omntanakho nobuthakathaka? Landela: Yini engingayenza ekhaya ukuze ngisize ngisebenze kunoma yiziphi izindawo ezidinga ukuqiniswa?
- Uyabona noma yiziphi izinkinga ngokuthuthukiswa kwengane yami yobudala bakhe?
- Ingane yami ixhumana kanjani nezinye izingane?
- Ingabe ingane yami izofunda kulo nyaka?