Izingane eziningi ezinamakhono zizwela kakhulu. Kubonakala sengathi bayathinta konke futhi bakhathazeke ngokweqile ngamagama nangezenzo ukuthi ezinye izingane zingazinaki noma zihambe ngokushesha. Abazali bangazisiza kanjani izingane zabo ezizwela ukuzwela ngokomzwelo ukuba zibhekane nalezi zindlela ezibuhlungu? Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso ezingase zisize.
Qonda ukuthi yini ebangela ukuzwela
Abantu bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi abantwana abanobucayi bamane beyingqayizivele futhi benza ingxabano phezu kwanoma yini.
Nakuba ezinye izingane ezinesiphiwo esihle zingase zibe nekhono lokumangalisa, lokho akunciphisi ukujula kwemizwa yabo. Lezi zingane mhlawumbe zineziphi zokusebenza kwengqondo uKazimierz Dabrowsk engizibiza ngokuthi yi- supersensitivity ngokomzwelo noma i-overexcitability . Lokhu kusho ukuthi empeleni bazwa imizwelo ngokujulile kunabanye.
Yenza Ingane Yakho Yakha Isikali Sokuphendula Ngokomzwelo
Izingane ezinomzwelo ezibucayi zibonakala ziphendula ngokuhlangenwe nakho okubi ngalunye njengokungathi ukuphela kwezwe. Abakwazi ukusiza lokho abazizwayo, kodwa bangafunda ukubeka lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho ngendlela ewusizo, engabasiza ukuba babhekane nemizwa yabo eqinile. Gcina izinga lokuphendula ngokomzwelo lisebenza kalula ukuze wena nomntanakho nikwazi ukubhekisela kuso uma kunesidingo. Ungase wenze ngisho nengane yakho idale i-poster ohlwini ukuze igcine egumbini lakhe lokulala ekamelweni. Noma nini lapho ingane yakho ithukuthele kakhulu, ungabe ubuza ingane yakho ukuthi iyilinganise ngokwezinga.
Yiqiniso, bangase benze njengokungathi kuyisenzakalo esiyishumi, kodwa babuze ukuthi bakholelwa ngempela yini ukuthi umcimbi ufana nenombolo eyishumi esikalini. Bazobona ukuthi akunjalo. Ekugcineni, bazokwazi kangcono ukuphatha izimpendulo zabo ezingokomzwelo ezenzakalweni ezihlukahlukene ezimpilweni zabo.
Indlela Yokudala Isikali Sokuphendula Ngezizwe
- Thatha iphepha bese ubhala izinombolo eyodwa kuya kwezilishumi ohlwini lwamabala
- Buza ingane yakho lokho acabanga ukuthi kuyoba yinto embi kunazo zonke engenzeka. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi usebenze kulokhu njengoba impendulo yokuqala oyithola ingaba into encane njengokunciphisa ithoyizi oyithandayo. Impendulo efanelekile ingaba yindlu evuthayo noma into ehambisana nalezo zindlela. Bhala le mpendulo phansi ngaphansi kwenombolo eyishumi.
- Buza ingane yakho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi yinto encane kakhulu engenzeka. Lokhu kungase kube lula kakhulu kunomcimbi weshumi umcimbi. Kungaba into efana nokulala embhedeni ihora ngaphambi kokujwayelekile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, kufanele kube into engalungile. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zizofuna ukukhetha okuthile, okungukuthi, into engayikhathaleli ngempela. Bhala lo mcimbi eceleni kwenombolo eyodwa.
- Thola umcimbi ozobhala enombolweni ezinhlanu. Uma inomboro yeshumi nenombolo eyodwa inqunywe, kulula ukuza nomcimbi wesihlanu. Siza ingane yakho ukuba ikhule ngisho neyinto engalungile ngempela futhi engeyona encane kakhulu, kodwa phakathi kokubili kokubili.
- Gcwalisa ezinye izinombolo kuhlu. Lokhu kungathatha kancane ukubukeza. Wena nomntanakho kufanele nibone ukuqhubekela phambili kusuka kokuncane kuya kokubi kakhulu okungenzeka.
Yamukela Imizwa Yengane Yakho
Khumbula ukuthi imizwa yengane yakho inamandla kakhulu futhi le mizwa ingaphezu kokulawula kwayo. Gwema ukusho izinto ezinjengokuthi "Uzwela kakhulu" noma "Yeka ukuphendula ngaphezulu." Amazwana anjalo angasizi nje kuphela, angenza umntwana azizwe kanzima futhi aze enze ingane ibe nomuzwa wokuthi kufanele kube nokuthile okungalungile kuye. Lokhu kunzima kakhulu kubafana abancane abazwela kakhulu, okumele babe nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, ngokwezindinganiso zomphakathi.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho izokwazi ukubhekana kangcono nomzwelo wakhe, kodwa ngeke iwashiye.
Lezi zintuthuko ezingokomzwelo ziyingxenye yokwenza umuntu futhi zikhona zokuphila! Noma kunjalo, lezi ziphakamiso zingasiza izingane ezizwelayo ezizwelayo ukuba zifunde ukuphatha leyo mizwa ejulile.