Ingabe ingane yakho ithanda isenkulisa nokufunda, kodwa isathulile futhi ibonakala inzima ukwenza abangane ? Ungabakhuthaza kanjani ukuba baphume kwigobolondo labo kancane? Lezi yizinto abazali bezinsana ezinamahloni abazibuza ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ezinye izingane zizalwa ngo-Schmoozers
Ezinye izingane zenza kubonakale kulula. Abagogodla nabathintekayo , bangasebenzisa ikamelo elinabo bonke, behleka, badlale, futhi banikeze ama-high-fives kuzo zonke izinyane abahlangabezana nazo.
Ngemizuzu embalwa, kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu uyazi igama lakhe futhi ufuna ukuba umngane wabo. Khohlwa ama-playdates, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi u-Ashton Kutcher usevele ene-akhawunti yakhe ye-Twitter kanye nekhasi le-Facebook.
Ezinye izingane zinamahloni
Ngaphesheya kokuphambene nombono, kukhona ingane enamahloni . Umntwana onamahloni angatholakala atholakale kumama noma ubaba, noma engekho othandekayo othembekile, ehlezi eyedwa, ehla phansi, engakhulumi nanoma ubani. Ngeke bahlanganyele, bangalokothi babhekane naso futhi uma bengakhulumi nhlobo, ngokuvamile kunzima kakhulu ukuwaqonda.
"Akafani nalokhu ekhaya," udidekile futhi, yebo ngisho namahloni, umzali uzotshela uthisha wasenkulisa / udokotela wezingane / ingane ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke ivume. "Ekhaya, asikwazi ukumenza ayeke ukukhuluma."
Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kuyiqiniso. Ngenxa yokuthi ingane enamahloni ayiyona into engenabungane, kodwa lapho kukhona umuntu omusha, noma esimweni esenza akhathazeke, kulula ukuyiyeka.
Ubuqili Buvamile Kodwa Isikhuthazo Siza
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi, amahloni empeleni ajwayelekile kakhulu eminyakeni yasenkulisa futhi kaningi ukuziphatha ukuthi ingane yakho izothuthuka njengoba ikhululeka kakhulu esikhumbeni sayo. Kunezinto ongayenza, noma kunjalo, ukwakha ukuzethemba kwakhe futhi kumkhuthaze ukuba avumele ubuntu obunjalo obungazi ukuthi uyazi futhi bubuke.
Nansi indlela.
I-Role Play
Beka leyo mbono enhle yasenkulisa yokusebenzisa kahle ngokusebenzisa izimo ezivamile lapho ingane yakho ingase ihlangane njalo. Ungasebenzisa amadonsa noma amaconti noma nje uqobo.
Yenza ingane yakho icabange ukuthi yona (noma idonsa yakhe) iyahamba ekilasini. Wenzani? Uthini? Bese ushintsha. Udlala indima yomntwana onamahloni futhi uvumele ingane yakho ibe ngumuntu omdala osizayo.
Qaphela indlela asebenzisa ngayo ukududuza. Kungakunika ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani ingane yakho isebenza ngendlela eyiyo.
Yabelana ngamahloni akho
Kungenzeka ukuthi unesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho lapho uzwela khona uzishisa. Tshela ingane yakho ngakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhuluma nge-jitters yakho yokuqala yosuku noma ukuzwa ukwethuka ngesikhathi sokudlala kwakho eqenjini lakho le-softball, uzwela lwakho luzobonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ayodwa yedwa emahloni abo.
Buza Kungani
Kungaba khona isizathu sokuthi ingane yakho isebenze ngendlela eyodwa ekhaya futhi enye ingaphambi kwabanye. Futhi nakuba engase abe nenkinga yokuziveza, ngemibuzo ethile yokuhlola, ungase ukwazi ukufinyelela empandeni yenkinga.
Lungiselela, Lungiselela, Lungiselela
Uzokwazi kusengaphambili uma ingane yakho ibhekene nesimo lapho kungase kuzwe khona.
Mhlawumbe uya esikhathini esikhulu sokuzalwa komndeni noma umhlangano weqembu lakho lokudlala . Ngalolo suku ekuseni, khuluma nomntanakho mayelana nokuthi uya kuphi, ngubani ozoba khona nokuthi kwenzekani. Ukuba necebo lomdlalo endaweni kungasiza ingane yakho ukuba izwe ikhululekile.
Msize Abenze Abangane
Ukwenza abangane akuveli ngokwemvelo kuwo wonke umuntu, nakubantwana bezingane zasenkulisa, okwenza lokhu kube umsebenzi omusha ngokuphelele, kungaba yinselele. Ngakho ungenele kancane kancane.
Qala kancane, ukwethula ingane yakho kumuntu oneminyaka yabo. Mhlawumbe yilowo owaziyo esikoleni noma ngisho nasemzaneni.
Uma bebonakala bekhululekile ndawonye futhi ingane yakho ishisa kahle, mema enye ingane phezu kwe- playdate .
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula ikhululekile phambi kwamanye abantwana, kungenzeka ukuthi izothatha lokho kwezinye izindawo.
Ungambizi Ngamahloni
Nakuba kulungile uma ingane yakho yenza amahloni (uma ukuziphatha kuqhubeka kakhulu noma uma ubona ingane yakho ingenzi ukuxhumana kwamehlo noma uhlanganyele nhlobo, thintana nodokotela wezingane), awufuni ukuyibeka ngaleyo ndlela. Ngenxa yokuthi ukhuluma ngakho futhi unikeze igama, ingane yakho ingase ibone ukuthi kukhona okungalungile kuye. Futhi, yebo, akunjalo. Ukuba namahloni akukubi, kuyinto nje yobuntu bomntwana wakho.
Iminyaka yasenkulisa yilapho ingane yakho ibona ukukhula kwazo zonke izinhlobo emazingeni amaningi ahlukene - ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni komphakathi. Njengeningi lezinkinga zentuthuko kule minyaka, isikhathi, uthando nokubekezela kusebenza izimangaliso.