Amasu Amasu Okuthola Izinkinga Zokuziphatha Zengane Ejwayelekile
Njengoba nje uphefumula ukuthi "ama-two" aphelile, cishe uzobona ukuthi iminyaka yesenkulisa ayinakekelwa kahle. Eqinisweni, njengoba ingane yakho yasenkulisa izuza ukuzimela okuningi, cishe izobonisa izinkinga ezintsha zokuziphatha.
Kodwa lokho kuyinto evamile yokukhula. Izingane zidinga ukuhlukumeza ngezinye izikhathi ukuze zifunde ukuthi kunemiphumela yokuphula imithetho.
Ngesiyalo esiqhubekayo, ungenza ukuziphatha okungalungile kube yithuba elihle lokufunda. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho yokufundela esikoleni iyokhula ibe isihlakaniphile futhi ilungele kangcono ukwenza izinqumo ezinhle. Nazi izindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokusingatha izinkinga zokuziphatha zasenkulisa kakhulu:
1. Ukukhohlisa
Iningi lezingane zasenkulisa lizungezile ngezincwadi, amabhayisikobho kanye nemiboniso ye-TV lapho abantu abangakwazi ukuhamba khona kanye nezilwane ezifuywayo zingakhuluma. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi, banenkathazo encane yokuhlukanisa phakathi kwezwe langempela kanye nefantasy.
Futhi banemiqondo emihle futhi. Ngakho-ke ungamangali lapho ingane yakho yasekuseni ithi isikhala semvelo kufanele sithathe le cookie elahlekile ngoba ngokuqinisekile ayizange idle.
Ngenkathi izindatshana ezithandwayo zingase zingabi yingozi, kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane yakho yasenkulisa ukuthi umehluko phakathi kokuqamba amanga nokukhuluma iqiniso .
Uma ingane yakho ikhuluma amanga, buza, "Ingabe yile nto eyenzeka ngempela noma into oyifisayo yenzeke?" Iningi lezingane lizochaza ukuthi liyinto nje eyenzayo.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isikole sakho sokufunda esikoleni sizofunda ulimi oluzomsiza ukuthi akutshele ukuthi yindaba yokuzenza.
Uma ingane yakho yasekuqaleni ikhuluma amanga ukuphuma enkingeni, mnike umphumela wokungathembeki. Thatha ithoyizi noma ilungelo futhi umtshele ukuthi ulindele ukuthi akhulume iqiniso.
2. Whining
Abasenkulisa bavame ukucabange uma uthi hawu okokuqala, ukucela nokugcoba kuzokuphoqa ukuba ushintshe ingqondo yakho.
Futhi ezimweni eziningi, bayakwazi ukucasula ngempumelelo abantu ekuthumeleni.
Kodwa ukunikeza lapho ingane yakho icwilisa umqondo omubi. Kuzoqinisa ingane yakho ukuthi inamandla okuthola lokho ayifunayo ngokumhlophe kuze kube yilapho ungakwazi ukuma khona.
Nika ingane yakho umlayezo othi "Cha cha kusho cha." Uma ungayeki nhlobo, cishe uzoqhubeka ekhala. Namathela izibhamu zakho futhi ekugcineni, uzofunda ukuthi ukugcoba akuphumelelanga .
Into ebi kakhulu kunomuntu oneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala. Faka eminye imizamo manje ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ukugcoba akuyona indlela yokuphila yengane yakho.
3. Baby Talk
Emakhaya amaningi, inkulumo yezingane iseduze naphezulu ohlwini lokuziphatha okudabukisayo kwezingane zasenkulisa. Kodwa, ukubuyela enkulumweni yengane kungaba yingxenye evamile yentuthuko yasenkulisa.
Ngezinye izikhathi, izingane zasenkulisa zisebenzisa inkulumo yezingane ukuze zithole ukunakwa. Ngezinye izikhathi, zibuyisa ngenxa yokucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka. Isibonelo, umntwana angase aqale ukusebenzisa inkulumo yengane ngaphambi kokuba angene enkulisa ngoba uyesaba mayelana nokuguquka.
Ungakwazi ukusingatha inkulumo yabantwana ngokufanayo nendlela ophendula ngayo lapho ucula. Beka imingcele futhi ukhumbule, cishe isigaba okufanele sidlule ngokushesha. Vele uqinisekise ukuthi awukhuthazi ngengozi inkulumo yabantwana ngokuyibeka kakhulu.
4. Ukungathembeki
Nakuba ngokuvamile izingane zasenkulisa zifuna ukusiza, nazo ziyakuthanda ukuzimela. Kuvamile ukuthi bathi, "Cha!" Uma ubatshela ukuthi benze okuthile nje ukuze ubone ukuthi uzokwenzenjani.
Yakha uhlu lwemithetho yasendlini futhi wenze imiphumela emibi ngokuphula leyo mithetho. Yiba njalo esifundweni sakho. Abafundi besikole bazozama ukugwema ukuziphatha okungalungile uma nje bacabanga ukuthi kunethuba elincane ukuthi ngeke bangene enkingeni.
Sebenzisa ukuqinisa okukhuthazayo ukukhuthaza ukulandelwa. Izindlela zokudumisa nokuvuza , njengeshadi lesitika liyakwandisa amathuba okuthi ingane yakho yasenkulisa izolandela izikhombisi-ndlela.
5. Ukuhlukunyezwa
Iningi lezingane zasenkulisa liye lathola amandla okunciphisa ukufutheka komzimba kodwa lingazange lithole ukulawula ukucindezela ngokwanele ukuvimbela ukuziphatha okuvame ukuhlukumezeka. Ukushaya, ukukhahlela, nokuluma kungase kube yinkinga.
Phendukela ekuziphatheni okuhlukumezayo ngesiyalo esiqhubekayo. Isikhathi sokufunda sifundisa izingane indlela yokuzilahla phansi. Ukuthatha amalungelo kungase kube umphumela ophumelelayo wokuhlukunyezwa.
Fundisa amakhono akho ekuxazululeni izinkinga ukuze akwazi ukuxazulula izingxabano ngokuthula. Futhi, fundisa ingane yakho ngemizwa ukuze ikwazi ukuveza imizwelo yakhe ngamazwi, esikhundleni sokuzibonakalisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo kufanele kudlule lapho ingane yakho ilawula lawo makghono.
> Imithombo
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuziphatha Okucindezelayo.
> Michigan State University Extension: Isiyalo se-3-5 Year Olds.