Amasu okuqondisa ukubhekana nale nkinga evamile yokuziphatha
Kuyinto evamile ukuba izingane zibuyele enkulumweni yengane isikhathi eside ngemuva kokuthi zivele zivele ngesikhathi esisodwa. Eqinisweni, izingane zasenkulisa zivame ukubambelela ekusebenziseni izwi lezingane njengengxenye yentuthuko yabo evamile. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, izingane zasesikoleni samabanga asebekhulile zingase zizwakale njengezinsana futhi isikhathi esithile.
Nakuba ukulalela inkulumo yengane kungacasula, kungenzeka ukuthi kube yisigaba kuphela.
Ngokungenelela okulula okulula, ungakwazi ukuvimbela umkhuba omubi ngaphambi kokuthi uphume. Ngokuvamile, lixazulula ngokushesha ngokungenela okufanelekile.
Ukubusa Ngaphandle Kwezinkinga Eziphansi
Inkulumo yabantwana akufanele ibe yimbangela enkulu yokukhathazeka. Ngezinye izikhathi kubangelwa isimo esicindezelayo, njengokungena umntwana omusha ekhaya .
Ngezinye izikhathi, izingane zibuyela enkulumweni yentombazane ngoba ziphuthelwa njengengane encane futhi zifuna ukufakwa kabusha. Uma unomntwana osekhaya othola ukunakwa okuningi ngokusebenzisa amagama akhe, ingane yakho endala ingase izame ukunakwa.
Kunezikhathi, noma kunjalo, lapho inkulumo yengane ingabonisa inkinga enkulu kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukulawula ukubambezeleka kwenkulumo noma ezinye izinkinga zokuthuthukiswa. Xoxa nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ithuthuka ekuthuthukeni.
Uma inkulumo yengane yengane yakho ihlanganiswe nezinye izimo zokuzilawula, ezifana nokulala, funa usizo lochwepheshe .
Ngezinye izikhathi, izenzakalo ezibuhlungu noma izinkinga zempilo yengqondo zingabangela ingane ukuba ivuselele.
Ungenzi Isenzo Esikhulu Salo
Ukwenza ukukhululeka kokukhulumisana kwengane kungakukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke. Ungazikhulumi ngendaba lapho ingane yakho ingayisebenzisi inkulumo yabantwana futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho ayikuzwanga ukukhalaza ngezwi lomntanakhe kunoma ubani omunye.
Kunalokho, hlala uzolile. Ungenelela ngendlela eqondile futhi eqondile. Ngisho noma kungase kuthukuthelise, ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuthi ikukushayela. Uma kungenjalo, angase aqhubeke enza lokho ukuze athole ukunakwa okwengeziwe.
Qaphela
Uma ingane yakho yasenkulisa ikubuza umbuzo ngezwi lomntwana, ungase wenze sengathi awuzwa. Khona-ke, ngokushesha nje lapho esebenzisa izwi lakhe elivamile, lalela futhi uphendule.
Ngezinye izikhathi inkulumo yezingane iba umkhuba omubi futhi izingane azikwazi ngisho nalapho zikwenza. Isikhumbuzi esithi, "Sebenzisa izwi lakho lezinyane elikhulu," lingasiza. Ungase futhi uvumele ingane yakho yazi, "Angiqondi inkulumo yabantwana. Sebenzisa izwi lakho lezinyane elikhulu ukuze ungitshele ukuthi yini oyifunayo. "
Uma ngabe umfundi wakho wesikole usebenzisa inkulumo yomntwana, ungase uphendule ngokukhomba imizwelo engase ibe ngemuva kokuzikhethela kwakhe ukubuyela ekhulwini lomntwana wakhe. Yisho into ethi, "Ngiyabona ukuthi usebenzisa izwi lezingane ukuthi ungitshele ukuthi kwenzekani esikoleni namuhla. Ngicabanga ukuthi uzizwa ukhathazekile ngakho futhi kunzima ukukhuluma ngakho?"
Ngokusekelwa, ingane yakho ingafunda ukuveza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani , kunokuba ikubonise ngokusebenzisa inkulumo yabantwana.
Dumisa Ukuziphatha Okuhle
Enye yezindlela ezinhle zokuguqula ukuziphatha ukunikeza ukunakwa okuhle ekuziphatheni okuhle.
Thatha ingane yakho usebenzisa izwi lakhe evamile bese unikeza udumo . Yisho into ethi, "Ngiyayithanda uma usebenzisa izwi lakho lezinyane elikhulu ukubuza okuthile."
Ukunakwa nokudumisa kuzonikeza ingane yakho ukuqiniswa kahle ngokusebenzisa izwi lakhe evamile. Lokhu kungamkhuthaza ukuba agcine lapho eqonda ukuthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokunaka.
Fundisa Izingane Zakho Amakhono Amasha
Inkulumo yezingane ingabonisa ukuthi ingane yakho idinga usizo lokufunda amakhono amasha. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho isebenzisa inkulumo yabantwana ngomzamo wokuzihlanganisa nabanye abantwana, ingase izuze ekufundeni amakhono amasha omphakathi.
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zisebenzisa inkulumo yabantwana ukuzama ukuqinisa abazali ukuthi abakwazi ukuqedela umsebenzi onzima.
Isibonelo, oneminyaka engu-6 ubudala angase ahlale eceleni kokudla embuthanweni womndeni athi, "Ngifuna ukudla," ngoba uyesaba ngokuzama ukuzikhandla.
Kulokhu, fundisa ingane yakho indlela engcono yokusingatha lesi simo. Yisho, "Kungaba njani indlela ingane enkulu ingacela ngayo usizo?" Khona-ke, mhambise ngokusebenzisa amasu noma ukuthi angathini ukuze uthole izidingo zakhe zihlangane ngendlela efanele.
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