Kuningi lokukhuluma ngezombusazwe kulezi zinsuku. Eqinisweni, cishe uzwa izingxoxo cishe yonke indawo oya kuyo, ngisho naku-intanethi. Akukhona kuphela ukuthi abantu baveza imibono yabo, kodwa osopolitiki ngokwabo banokuningi okushoyo ngabantu abaphikisana nabo. Futhi iningi lalo alimnandi kakhulu. Eqinisweni, iningi lalo liyiqiniso.
Kodwa ingabe wake wakucabangela indlela yonke le nqubo yokuziphendulela ithinta ngayo izingane zethu?
Bazwa futhi bancipha okuningi kunokuba abantu abaningi abadala bazi ukuthi bangobani; futhi lapho izinkulumo zezombusazwe ziqukethe ukuxhaphazwa nokukhuluma okuvuthayo, kungaba nomthelela omkhulu ezinganeni.
Misa futhi ucabange ngakho ngomzuzu. Intsha eningi isifisa ukuba ngumengameli we-United States ngelinye ilanga. Futhi ngisho noma bengathandi ukuba ngumongameli lapho bekhula, izingane eziningi ziyamangala ngomholi wezwe. Kodwa ngesikhathi sokhetho, yini abayifunayo kubantu abaqhuba ihhovisi eliphakeme kuleli zwe?
Esikhundleni sokufunda ukuphatha abanye ngenhlonipho nangesizotha, babheka abaholi bezombangazwe abaphezulu bezwe ababandakanya amaqhinga okuxhashaza ukuthi izingane esikoleni zisebenzisa ukunyuka kwesiteleka somphakathi. Abaholi bezwe akufanele yini babeke izibonelo ezingcono kunalokhu?
Izivolonti eziningi zibonisa ukuthi iningi lamaMelika lingasho ukuthi yebo. Eqinisweni, abaningi banokukhathazeka okujulile ngokulahlekelwa ngumphakathi phakathi kwabantu.
Babona ukungabi nenhlonipho ezikoleni, ezindaweni zokusebenza, ikakhulukazi kuhulumeni. Eqinisweni, ngokwe -poll ka-Weber Shandwick , amaphesenti angu-65 aseMelika akholelwa ukuthi ukungabi nokuzimela kuyinkinga enkulu e-United States. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, amaphesenti angu-72 aseMelika akholelwa ukuthi uhulumeni wethu uyindawo encane yomphakathi eMelika.
Eqinisweni, cishe isigamu salabo abacwaningiwe bahlela uhulumeni kanye nezombusazwe ngenxa yokuziphatha okungahambi kahle nokuhlukunyezwa okukhona. Futhi amaphesenti angu-83 alabo abacatshangwa bakholelwa ukuthi abantu akufanele bavotele abazobhapathizwa nabangosombusazwe abangenalo ulwazi.
Izinhlobo Zokuhlukunyezwa Kwabantwana Bheka Ngesikhathi Sokukhethwa
Iningi lamaqhinga okuhlukumeza abazombusazwe abasebenzisa yiwo afanayo nalabo abafunda esikoleni esiphakathi nabasesikoleni esiphakeme, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ekuhlukuneni kobudlelwano . Nakuba iningi labantu bezombangazwe liyekela ukusebenzisa ukuxhaphazwa ngokobulili noma ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi , benza ukuhlukumezeka ngamazwi, ukuxhaphazwa ngokweqile , kanye nokuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying .
Basebenzisa futhi amaqhinga amaningi angatholakala ngaphakathi kwanoma yisiphi isikole esiphakeme e-United States. Esikhundleni sokuxhaphazwa ngokweqile ngesikhathi sokufunda esikoleni esiphakeme, kuwumkhuba oqhubekayo owaholela ekuhlukumezeni kwendawo emsebenzini kodwa nasebudloveni bezombangazwe. Nazi izinyathelo eziyisihlanu zokuhlukunyezwa abantu abasha abangazifakaza phakathi nonyaka wokhetho.
I-Blame-shifting . Abahlukumezi basebenzisa ukuzisola lapho befuna ukunqanda ukunakwa ngaphandle kwabo. Ngokufanayo, izakhamuzi zezombangazwe zivame ukuzifaka icala. Isibonelo esisodwa esithandwayo ukusola umuntu ophikisana nakho konke okuvela emnothweni, ukungasebenzi, kanye nezinkinga zokunakekelwa kwezempilo ekubandleni, ukufuduka, ukulawulwa kwezibhamu kanye nenkululeko yokukhuluma.
Umgomo wesigungu sezombangazwe ukufaka ukungabaza ngamakhono omunye umuntu ngokusola ngento okumele iqondiswe ezweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umuntu oyedwa esola omunye, bagwema ukuthatha umthwalo kunoma yini okungenzeka ukuthi bayenze ukuze bahlanganyele esimweni.
Ukushaya igama . Ukubiza amagama omunye umuntu kungenye yezinhlobo zokudala nokuxhaphaza eziseduze futhi ezibonakala kakhulu. Kuyinto engavamile ukuzwa izingane endaweni yokudlala yocingo nomunye umuntu olahlekile nabantwana. Bangase baqale ukubiza abanye abantwana abayiziphukuphuku kanye ne-dummy.
Nakuba abantu abaningi abadala bevuma ukuthi ukubizwa ngegama akumukeleki, kubonakala sengathi bayakubekezelela kubakhethi bezombangazwe.
Eqinisweni, abaningi abakhethwe kwezombusazwe bavame ukubiza amagama. Ngisho nabasekeli bangena esenzweni, ikakhulukazi ku-intanethi. Kodwa uma umphakathi ufuna ukuphela kokuhlukunyezwa, kudinga ukufuna ukuthi abaholi babo babeke izibonelo ezinhle.
Ukubukeka-ukushisa . Ukwehlisa isithunzi somuntu kungenye yamaqhinga wezepolitiki endala kunazo zonke ezincwadini. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi basebenzisa ama-tactics ngemuva kwe-scenes noma bathuthukise umkhankaso we-smear online, umgomo ufana. Umhlukumezi ufuna ukudweba idumela lomphikisi wakhe embuzweni. Kungenzeka baze bahambe baze bahlasele umphakathi.
Ngokumangalisayo, into efanayo kwenzeka nsuku zonke ezikoleni eziphakeme ezweni lonke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumhlukumezi noma intombazane enentombazane , umgomo ukulimaza idumela lomunye kabi kangangokuthi abasabe besongela. Ukuqeda lolu hlobo lokuxhashazwa ezikoleni kudinga ukuthi abantu abadala baphile ngezindinganiso ezifanayo ababeka kuzo izingane kanye nentsha.
Amahemuhemu asakazeka . Ngokuvamile enye yezinhlobo ezicashile zokuxhaphaza, ukusabalala amahemuhemu noma ukutshala inhlebo ngomuntu kuvame ukusetshenziswa ngesikhathi sokhetho. Umehluko kuphela ukuthi ithimba leqembu lezombangazwe lizwakalisa izindaba phakathi kwabezindaba nakwe-intanethi ukuze baxoshe abaphikisi babo ekukhanyeni okungathandeki. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi ziqhinga ziqamba amanga, ezinye izikhathi ziyiqiniso eliyingxenye. Kodwa umgomo ufana nokuthi ukufaka ukungabaza ngobuqotho bomuntu nomlingiswa wakhe.
Ukwenza izinsongo ezenziwe ngeveli . Ngesikhathi abanye bezombusazwe benesibindi kakhulu futhi beqondisa ukuxhaphazwa kwabo abanye abazobhapathizwa, abanye bavame kakhulu ezintweni zabo. Bathola umlayezo wabo ngokwenza izinsongo ezicashile ezingahle zichazwe kude uma othile ebabiza. Lezi zingsongo zingase zihlanganise konke kusuka kusixwayiso esibucayi kuze kube yisimemezelo esibi sokuthi kwenzekani esikhathini esizayo. Ukusongela umuntu kuwumzamo wokulawula isimo futhi kuyindlela eyingozi kakhulu yokuxhaphaza.
Isihluthulelo sokuqonda ukuxhashazwa ngesikhathi sokhetho ukuqaphela ukuthi ukhetho lwezombangazwe alukho ngaphezu kokusebenzisa amaqhinga okuhlukunyezwa okufanayo ukuthi izingane nentsha zisebenzisa nsuku zonke. Inkinga iwukuthi, kufanele babeke isibonelo esihle kunazo.
Indlela Abantwana Abathintekayo Ngayo Ukuxhashazwa Kwezombusazwe
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane nezingane azifundi nje ukuthi ziziphatha kanjani ngokubukela ithelevishini nokubukela ezinye izinhlobo zemidiya, kodwa futhi zifunda ukuthi yini eyamukelekayo emphakathini. Ngenxa yalokho, lapho izingane zibona abaholi besizwe sethu behlukumeza abanye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuthelevishini noma ku-intanethi, bakhula becabanga ukuthi lena indlela eyamukelekayo yokuphatha abanye, ikakhulukazi uma befuna ukufika ngelinye ilanga. Kukhona neminye imiphumela engalindelekile ekuqothulweni kokhetho. Nazi izindlela ezintathu eziphezulu izingane ezithintekayo.
Ukuxhashazwa kwezombusazwe kubangela ukwesaba nokukhathazeka . Ngokwesifundo esingahlelekile esenziwa yi-Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC), unyaka wokhetho we-2016 wakhiqiza izinga lokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka phakathi kwabantwana. Eqinisweni, abangaphezu kwezingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu koothisha abacwaningiwe babika ukuthi abafundi baye babonisa ukukhathazeka ngalokho okungase kwenzeke kubo nemindeni yabo emva kokhetho luka-2016.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifundo esenziwe ePenn State sibonisa ukuthi ingane efakaza ukuxhashazwa kungase kube nzima ukuzwa sengathi iphephile ngisho noma ingathinteki ngqo yizenzo zalabo abahlukunyezwayo. Abalobi bezocwaningo babonisa ukuthi ukufakaza ukuhlukumezeka kubangela ukungathembeki komphakathi okunciphisa ukholo lwengane kubantu nasemphakathini. Ngenkathi isifundo se-Penn State sisetshenziswa ekufakazeni ukuxhashazwa esikoleni, abacwaningi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukufakaza ukuxhaphaza kunoma iyiphi indawo yocwaningo kungaba nomthelela ofanayo.
Ukuxhashazwa kwezombusazwe kubangela izingane ukuba zilingise lokho abakubonayo . Ucwaningo oluningi lubonisa ukuthi izingane zivame ukulingisa lokho abakubonayo kuthelevishini. Ngenxa yalokho, uma ukuxhashazwa kwezombangazwe kusiza abaholi bekusasa ukuthola amavoti noma ukuthandwa, isiphetho esingokwemvelo sabanye abantu abasha kuyoba ukusebenzisa amaqhinga afanayo ukuze athandwe esikoleni. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ucwaningo lwe-SPLC lubika ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ukubukela izombangazwe kuzokuqinisa abafundi ukuba basebenzise ama-slurs, bahlanganyele ekubizeni amagama futhi benze izitatimende zokuvuvukala komunye nomunye. Futhi lapho bebhekene, babhekisela ezombusazwe benza okufanayo njengesizathu sezenzo zabo.
Ukuxhashazwa kwezombangazwe kwandisa ukuxhaphazwa esikoleni . I-SPLC ibika ukuthi abangaphezu kwengxenye yalabo abacwaningiwe babone ukwanda kwezingxoxo zezombusazwe ezingavumelani ngesikhathi sonyaka we-2016. Eqinisweni, othisha abahlanganyele ocwaningweni babika ukwanda kokuxhashazwa, ukuhlukunyezwa, nokusongelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zivame ukusebenzisa izitatimende zezombangazwe noma imizwa futhi zibuyele esikoleni, zizisebenzise njengezikhali zokuhlukumeza nokulimaza abanye abafundi.
Indlela Yokuphikisana Nemiphumela Yezokuhlukunyezwa Kwepolitiki
Isihluthulelo sokunciphisa umthelela wokuxhashazwa kwezombangazwe ezinganeni kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi uzobeka izenzo zezombangazwe ngesimo sezingane. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi uma abazali behileleka nezingane kanye nethelevishini noma imikhuba yokubukela e-intanethi , umthelela walokho abakubhekayo awuncane kakhulu. Xoxa nezingane zakho mayelana nokuxhashazwa abakubona kubalingani bezombangazwe. Khombisa ukuthi yini engalungile ngokuziphatha futhi uxoxe ukuthi kufanele baziphathe kanjani.
Okwamanje, uma uxoxisana njalo kwezombusazwe ekhaya lakho noma uma uthisha uxoxa ngaleyo ekilasini, sebenzisa isikhathi sokhetho njengethuluzi lokufundisa ngokuxhaphaza. Futhi, qapha amagama akho. Nakuba kuhle ukuveza imibono yakho siqu kunoma yikuphi ukhetho oluthile, qiniseka ukuthi uyahlonipha ukwenza kanjalo. Futhi uma uhlanganyela ezingxoxweni zezombusazwe ku-inthanethi, gwema ukuxhaphaza abanye abangavumelani nemibono yakho. Khumbula, izingane zikubuka ukuthi zifanele ziphendule kanjani futhi zihumushe ukuxhashazwa kwezombangazwe.