Izingane nabantu abasha bangathola ukuxhaphazwa ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa uma kuziwa ekuhlukunyezweni okubandlulula, izihlukumezi zigxile emzimbeni wesikhumba somuntu, imikhuba yabo yenkolo ngisho nokuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili.
Ngokuvamile, ukuhlukumezeka okubandlulula kuncike ezintweni ezingaboni kahle kanye nokucwasa izingane ezibhekene nabantu abahlukile kubo.
Lolu hlobo lokuhlukunyezwa lungabandakanya zonke ezinye izinhlobo zokuxhaphaza . Ngokwesibonelo, izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa okubandlululwa zingase zithole ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying , ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane , ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuxhashazwa ngokocansi .
Ukuhlukunyezwa okubandlulula kuvela enkolelweni engafanele noma efundwe ukuthi amaqembu athile abantu afanelwe ukuphathwa ngendlela ehlukile noma ngenhlonipho encane. Lapho ukuhlukunyezwa okubandlulula kwenzeka, izingane zikhomba abanye abahlukile kubo futhi bazikhethela. Izikhathi eziningi, lolu hlobo lokuxhashazwa lukhulu futhi lungavulwa umnyango wokuzonda ubugebengu. Noma kunini lapho ingane ixhashazwa ngenxa yobuhlanga, inkolo noma indlela yokuziphatha ngokocansi kufanele ibikwe. Unganaki ukuxhashazwa noma uthemba ukuthi kuzophela. Kunengozi enkulu ukuthi izoqhubeka. Qinisekisa ukuyikhipha ngokushesha. Nakhu okuningiliziwe kwezinhlobo ezintathu zokuhlukunyezwa okubandlulula.
Ukuxhashazwa kwamaqembu
Nakuba leli zwe liye laqhubeka nokuqhuma kobuhlanga, ubuhlanga bukhona.
Ngenxa yalokho, ukuhlukumezeka ngokobuhlanga kuseyinkinga ezikoleni. Ukuxhashazwa kwabantu abahlukunyezwayo kuveza abantu ngenxa yombala wesikhumba, ubuhlanga noma isizwe. Ezinye izingane zixhashazwa ngoba zi-African-American, Chinese, Jewish, Italian noma Spanish. Ngisho nezingane zaseCaucasus zingahlushwa ngokuba mhlophe.
Uma ukuxhashazwa ngokobandlululo kwenzeka, izingane zihlaselwa yizontanga, ezibizwa ngamagama noma zingabandakanywa eqenjini ngenxa yenzondo, ukwesaba noma ukungabi nokuqonda.
Kwezinye izimo, ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kungabangela izingane ukuba zihlazeke umbala wazo noma isizwe sabo. Ukuphikisana nemilayezo yokuxhashazwa ngokobuhlanga, thola izindlela zokusiza izingane zijabule ngefa labo. Futhi qiniseka ukubika konke ukuhlukumeza ngokohlanga. Izikhathi eziningi, ukuxhashazwa ngokobandlululo kungadlulela ebugebengu benzondo.
Ukuxhashazwa Kwezenkolo
Ukungabi nolwazi nokuqonda ngamasiko, izinkolelo kanye nobuhle bezinkolo ezahlukene kungaholela ekuhlukumezweni okungokwenkolo. Ngokuvamile, izihlukumezi zikhomba ezinye ngoba zihlukile. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane zihlekwa futhi zikhohliswa ngezinkolelo zabo zenkolo.
Ngemuva kwe-9/11, abafundi abanezinkolelo zamaSulumane bavame ukuba yizinhloso zokuxhashazwa. Abantu babecabanga ukuthi ngoba amaphekula athiwa amaSulumane ukuthi wonke amaSulumane ayebe amaphekula. Lolu hlobo lwenkolelo luvela ngokwesaba nokuntula ukuqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela ukuba yiSulumane. Futhi akulungile kubafundi abangamaSulumane.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi abafundi abangamaSulumane akubona abafundi kuphela abathola ukuxhashazwa ngokwenkolo. Ngisho nabafundi abathile abangezinkolo zobuKristu bangase baklolode ngenxa yokutadisha iBhayibheli nokukholwa kuJesu. Empeleni, ubuKristu bubhekwa njengecala kwamanye amazwe.
Khumbula ukuthi noma ubani angathuthukiswa ngenxa yezinkolelo zabo zenkolo. Abantu futhi baxhashazwa ngoba bangamaJuda, amaKatolika namaHindu. Ngisho nalabo abangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu bangaxoliswa ngokungakholwa kuNkulunkulu.
Izikhathi eziningi, ukuhlukumezeka kwenkolo kubangelwa yimibono yangaphambili noma ukungakwazi ukuqonda umehluko phakathi kwezinkolo. Lokhu kungezwani kungafaka konke okuvela ezintweni ezinkolelo, ukuzila ukudla nokuthandaza kuhlobo lwezingubo ezigqoka. Izihlukumezi zikhomba lokhu okungafani njengesizathu sokuhlukumezeka nokubhekela isisulu.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-LGBT
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-LGBT, noma ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-gay, kusho ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngamazwi, ngenxa yokuzibandakanya ngokocansi noma ukungaziwa ngokobulili.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-LGBT nakho kungabandakanya ukubiza amagama , ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi nokuxhunywa kwe-intanethi. Lolu hlobo lokuxhashazwa luyabathinta abantu emphakathini we-LGBT kanye nalabo abathandwayo ukuba babe.
Ngamanye amazwi, izingane akudingeki zibe gay ukuzwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-LGBT. Eqinisweni, ngezinye izikhathi izingane zihlekwa futhi zibizwa ngamagama nje ngenxa yokuthi zenzeni noma zigqoka kanjani. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ezinye izinsizwa zixhashazwa ngokuba izongqingili, ubungqingili, abantu abesilisa nabesifazane kanye ne-transgender. Baphathwa njengezigqila futhi ngokuvamile baxoshwa emaqenjini. Bakhuthazelela imibono futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nobudlova.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Lapho abaphathi noma othisha bebona isibonelo sokuxhashazwa okubandlulula esikoleni noma emakilasini, kubalulekile ukubhekana nalezi zinkinga ngokushesha. Enye indlela yokwenza lokho ukuqaliswa kohlelo olungagcini nje ukubekezelelana kokuhlukana kodwa futhi lifundisa abafundi ngalezo zohluko. Ukuqeda ukwesaba nokwandisa ulwazi, ukuqonda nokuzwela kufanele kube imigomo yalolu hlelo.