Lapho ukuhlukumezeka kwenzeka, kunemiphumela embalwa isisulu sokuhlangenwe nakho kokuxhaphaza, okufaka nezinguquko zomzwelo nokuziphatha. Kodwa, izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa akuzona kuphela ezithintekayo. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amalungu omndeni weqhaza nawo ayathinteka.
Ukusuka ekungenakutshala nokukhathazeka ekuzihlukaniseni kanye nezifo zomzimba, imiphumela yokuxhaphaza ingakwazi ukugijima.
Kodwa ukwazi ukuthi amalungu omndeni angathinteka kanjani kungasiza ukunciphisa umthelela jikelele wokuhlukunyezwa. Nazi izindlela eziyisithupha eziphezulu imindeni ethintekile uma elinye ilungu lomndeni lihlukunyezwa.
Ukuzwa imizwa yokungabi namandla
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuxhashazwa kuyisinqumo esenziwe ngumxhashazi, kuncane kakhulu ukuthi abazali kanye namanye amalungu omndeni angayenza ukulawula isimo. Nakuba bangakwazi ukubika ukuxhaphazwa nokusekela isisulu, abakwazi ukuyenza. Noma kunjalo, bazizwa sengathi kufanele bakwazi ukumisa. Futhi uma bengakwazi, bavame ukuzizwa besengozini futhi bengenasici.
Thuthukisa Izimpawu Zemvelo
Abazali bavame ukubika ukuthi bagula lapho befunda ngokuhlukunyezwa kwengane yabo ehlala njalo. Kwabanye, lokhu kuyisikhathi sesikhashana kodwa kwabanye lokhu kungukuqala kohlu olude lwezikhalazo zomzimba. Ngokwesibonelo, ezinye zizokwenza izilonda nezinye izinkinga zesisu. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, abanye bangase babhekane nokucindezeleka, ukuphathwa ikhanda okungapheli kanye nezimo ezihlobene nokucindezeleka.
Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali kanye namanye amalungu omndeni asebenze ukuhlala enempilo. Kufanele bagweme ukuzidela impilo yabo ngomzamo wokusiza lo muntu ukuba ahlukunyezwe.
Yiba Nomsindo, Ukhuthele, Futhi Ukhathazeke
Ukuxhashazwa akungaziwa. Akunakwenzeka ukubikezela ukuthi kuzokwenzeka nini futhi ngumuphi umthamo.
Ngenxa yalokho, amalungu amaningi omndeni azothola imizwelo eminingi ehlanganisa konke okuvela entukuthelweni kuya ekukhathazeni .
Into ebalulekile ukuthi baqaphele futhi babhekane nemizwelo yabo ngendlela enempilo futhi eyakhayo. Ukuthukuthela ngokweqile noma ukuphazamiseka njalo ngeke kusize isisulu. Futhi uma intukuthelo iba yinkinga, amalungu omndeni kudingeka afunde ukuphatha intukuthelo, ukulawula izimpendulo nezinkinga zokukhathazeka kwekheli.
Yibani Ngokucophelela Ngesi simo
Lapho ingane ishaywa kabi, abanye abazali abakwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngesimo. Ichitha imicabango yabo yonke. Futhi izikhathi eziningi baqala ukwesaba ngokweqile ukuphepha kwengane yabo ngokuvamile ukudala imvelo ecindezelayo futhi enomkhawulo. Lolu hlobo lwesitayela sokubeletha ngaphezu kokuvikelwa kuphela lukhulisa ukukhathazeka kubo bonke abathintekayo. Esikhundleni sokucabangela izinto ezingenakukwazi ukuzilawula, amalungu omndeni kufanele agxile ekunikezeni amandla ingane ehlukunyezwayo.
Ukulwa Nezizwa Zokuhluleka
Abazali kanye nabantwana bakithi asebekhulile bavame ukulwa nomqondo wokuhluleka uma kuziwa ngokuhlukunyezwa. Akubona nje ukuthi bazizwa sengathi bayehluleka ukuvikela umuntu ohlukunyezwayo, kodwa abazali baphinde babuze amakhono abo okubeletha.
Bakhathazeka ngokuthi babengekho izimpawu zokuxhashazwa noma ukuthi akenzanga okwanele ukuhlukunyezwa ingane yabo kuqala.
Uma ngabe i- cyberbullying , abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe ngabe benze okungaphezulu ukuqapha ukusetshenziswa kobuchwepheshe bezingane zabo noma uma bekufanele bawuvimbele ngandlela-thile. Iqiniso liwukuthi akekho okwazi ukubikezela ukuthi ubani ozoxhashazwa. Abazali bangenza konke okulungile futhi bathole ukuthi ingane yabo ihloselwe izihlukumezi. Ngenxa yalokho, akufanele neze bazizwe benesibopho sokukhetha okwenziwa ngumhlukumezi.
Zizizwe Zodwa futhi Zisodwa
Iningi labantu lingalindela ukuthi abanye abazali kanye nomakhelwane babezobhekana nabo lapho ingane yabo ixhashazwa.
Kodwa ngokudabukisayo, abantu abaningi abafuni nje ukuzibandakanya. Kungcono bahlale bengathathi hlangothi ngesimo sokuxhashaza kunokuba bamele lokho okulungile.
Abantu baphinde bahlaselwe isisulu lapho bekholelwa ukuthi uma isisulu sasihlukile ngendlela ethile lokhu kwakungakaze kwenzeke. Kodwa inkinga ngesisulu sokusola ukuthi ikhulula umhlukumezi kuwo wonke umthwalo wemfanelo bese uyibeka emahlombe alawo olimele.
Ukwengeza, abantu abaningi abadala abahlukumeza abazali lapho ingane ihlukunyezwa. Bahlambalaza isitayela sokubeletha sabazali bezisulu futhi baqiniseke ukuthi into enjengaleyo ayisoze yenzeke kumntanakho. Zonke lezi zinto zishiya abazali kanye namanye amalungu omkhaya azizwa eyedwa futhi ehlukile.
Ngenxa yokuthi le miphumela ingathà sina, kubalulekile ukuthi amalungu omndeni afune usizo ngaphandle uma elinye ilungu lomndeni lihlukunyezwa. Kudingeka baqiniseke ukuthi bahlala bephilile futhi bezinakekela ngokwabo. Ukwenza kanjalo kuzobalungiselela kangcono ukusiza umuntu ohlukunyezwa yizihlukumezi.