Ukuhluka kungenye yezizathu ezivame kakhulu ukuthi kungani izingane zixhashazwa. Ngenxa yalokho, akufanele kusimangaze ukuthi intsha ivame ukuxhashazwa ngenxa yenkolo yabo, ikakhulukazi uma kungeyona inqubo evamile yokukholelwa. Isibonelo, amantombazane amaSulumane abembatha ama-hijabs (ama-head scarves) nabakwaSikh abagqoka i-punch noma i-starstar (ama-turbans) bavame ukubhekiswe nje ngokugqoka izimpawu ezibonakalayo zenkolo yabo.
Kodwa ukuhlukunyezwa akukhawulelwanga ezinkolweni ezingewona zaseNtshonalanga. Noma ubani angahlushwa ngenxa yokholo lwakhe.
Ukubheka Ngokucophelela Ukuxhashazwa Kwezenkolo
Nakuba ucwaningo olwenziwe ngokuhlukunyezwa okungokwenkolo lungaphansi, luye lwabonakala eminyakeni embalwa edlule ukuthi lolu hlobo lokuxhashazwa luyaqhubeka kakhulu. Akumangalisi ukuthi ukhetho lwango-2016 lwakha izinga lokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka phakathi kwabantwana, ikakhulukazi izingane ezingamaSulumane.
Eqinisweni, isifundo esingakahlelekile esenziwa yi-Southern Poverty Law Centre sathola ukuthi abangaphezu kwengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu kwabafundisi abavotshweyo babone ukwanda kwemicabango yamaSulumane. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ezinye imibiko eminingi ibuye ikhombise ukunyuka kwama-anti-Muslim nokulwa noSikh. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuhlanganiswa okubonakalayo phakathi kwefa labo lenkolo nobuphekula, ikakhulukazi emva kuka-9/11.
Ngokwesibonelo, imindeni yamaSulumane ihluphekile ngenxa yabantu abathandana nabo okholweni lwabo.
Ngisho noma lezi zingane azihlangene nezenzo zobuphekula, zingase zibe nomuzwa wokuthi ukuxhashazwa kwenkolo kubangane babo.
Umthelela Wokuxhashazwa Kwezenkolo
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuxhashazwa kwezenkolo kuvame ukuba nzima, abaholi benkolo bayakhathazeka ngokuthi ukuxhashazwa kuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa okungokomoya nentuthuko yengane. Kungase kubangele ukuba abuze ukholo lwakhe nezinkolelo zakhe.
Akekho osemusha okufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi ufanelwe ukuhlukunyezwa ngoba unezinkolelo ezihlukile.
Abaningi bayavuma ukuthi kungakhathaliseki izinkolelo zenkolo zomuntu, uma kungabungozi yena noma abanye, kufanele avunyelwe ukwamukela nokuphishekela ukholo lwakhe ngokuthula. Phela, inkolo yengane inengxenye enkulu kuye njengobuzwe bakhe, ukubukeka, ukuhlakanipha, amakhono kanye nezithakazelo. Ngenxa yalokho, inkolo yakhe akufanele iholele ekuqondiseni, ekuhlukunyezwa, nasekuxosheni . Wonke umntwana kufanele avunyelwe ukukhulekela indlela ayifunayo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuxhashazwa izinkolelo zakhe.
Indlela Yokubhekana Nokwenkolo Kwezenkolo eSikoleni
Ukuxhashazwa ngokwenkolo kuyinkinga ekhulayo e-United States. Eqinisweni, abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kwenkolo nokuzondwa kuvelele kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ngenxa yalokho, uma uthisha noma umqondisi, kubalulekile ukuthi ubhekane nokuhlukunyezwa okungokwenkolo futhi uvimbele ukuba kungenzeki esikoleni sakho. Unomthwalo wemfanelo wokwakha isimo sezulu esiphephile nesondla esikhuthaza ukufunda. Nazi izindlela ezintathu zokwenza lokho kwenzeke.
- Yenza izingxoxo mayelana nezinkolo ezahlukene kube okubalulekile . Qala ngokukhuluma nabafundi nganoma yimiphi imibono engafanele abanayo ngezinkolo ezithile. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlukunyezwa kwenzeka ngenxa yokuthi intsha ayiqondi noma iyesaba ngezinkolelo ezithile zenkolo, ezingabangela ukuhlukunyezwa okubandlulula . Kodwa uma uxoxa ngokungafani ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka, intsha izokwamukela ngokwengeziwe futhi ibekezelele labo abahlukile kunabo.
- Qeqesha othisha bakho ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nokuhlukunyezwa kwezenkolo. Akukho hlelo lokuvimbela ukuxhashazwa luzosebenza ngaphandle kokusekelwa kwabafundisi bakho kanye nabasebenzi bakho. Ngenxa yalokho, qiniseka ukuthi uwaqeqesha ukuthi ungabheka kanjani ukuxhaphazwa nokuxazulula izinkinga zokuxhashazwa. Bangase bazuze ngisho namathiphu okuphatha ekilasini ahamba phambili ekuvimbeleni ukuxhaphazwa. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, qiniseka ukuthi banokuqonda okuqinile kwezinkolo ezihlukahlukene ezimelelwa esikoleni sakho. Ngale ndlela, bangakwazi ukuqeda noma yiziphi izinkolelo futhi baqede noma yiziphi izimfundiso ezingalungile, okuzogcina ekusizeni ukuvimbela ukuxhashazwa kwezenkolo.
- Khuthaza ukubandakanya kwabazali. Ukuvimbela ukuxhashazwa ngokwenkolo kusebenza kakhulu lapho umphakathi wonke ubandakanyeka. Isibonelo, izikole zingahlakulela izinhlelo ezikhethekile, njengemikhosi yezinhlobonhlobo, lapho abazali bengena khona futhi bahlanganyele ngezinkolelo zabo kanye nesiko labo. Isihluthulelo ukuthola abazali abahilelekile. Ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kwabo, izinhlelo zokuvimbela ezenzelwe ukuxhashazwa ngokwenkolo ngeke ziphumelele.
Lokho Ongakwenza Uma Okuhlangenwe Nezingane Zakho Ukuxhashazwa Kwezenkolo
Kungase kuzwe kunzima, kudidekile futhi kubuhlungu lapho ingane yakho izwa ukuxhashazwa kwenkolo. Kodwa kukhona izinto ongayenza ukuze usize ingane yakho isabele ngendlela efanele. Nazi izindlela ezinhlanu ongasabela ngazo ekuxhashazweni okungokwenkolo:
- Yazi ukuthi umthetho uthini . Uma ukuhlukumezeka okusekelwe enkolweni kunzima futhi kuqhubeka, uMnyango Wezobulungiswa weDivishini Yamalungelo Abantu ungakwazi ukungenelela ngaphansi kwesihloko IV se-Civil Rights Act. Khumbula ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kwezenkolo ngokuvamile akusekelwe enkolweni ngokwayo kodwa ngezici zobuntu ezihlangene. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, iHhovisi loMnyango WezeMfundo Lamalungelo Abantu lingase likwazi ukungenelela ngaphansi kwesihloko VI se-Civil Rights Act.
- Yazisa isikole . Noma nini lapho ukuhlukumezeka kwenzeka khona esikoleni, abaphathi abafanele nabafundisi kufanele baziswe. Ukwenza kanjalo kuvumela ukuba baphenye futhi bangenele ngokushesha. Ukuxhashazwa akufanele neze kunganakwa ngakho, kubalulekile ukuthi bobabili othisha nabazali bathathe isisombululo sokuhlukumezeka ngokujulile. Lokhu akubonisi nje ukuthi umfundi uyakhathazeka ngokuphepha kwabo kodwa kubonisa ukuthi izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa azidingi ukubekezelela ukuxhashazwa kwenkolo.
- Xhumana namaphoyisa . Ngezinye izikhathi ukuxhashazwa kwenkolo kuhilela ubudlova, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukusongelwa kobudlova, nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-inthanethi . Futhi uma benza, lezi zinhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa zingase zihambisane nomthetho. Ngisho noma amaphoyisa engenzi lutho ngalokhu, kungumqondo omuhle ukufaka isikhalazo okungenani. Okungenani isikhalazo sizobe sefayili uma ngabe ukuxhashazwa kukhula.
- Qinisekisa ukuphepha kwengane yakho. Ukuxhashazwa kwezenkolo kungaba yingozi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma izihlukumezi zikhomba ingane yakho ngenxa yokwesaba nenkolelo yokuthi inkolo yakho yentsha ihambisana naye ngamaqembu amaphekula. Ngenxa yalokho, udinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isikole sithatha izinyathelo zokuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwengane yakho. Lokhu kungase kusho isimiso esisha, indlela ephephile eya emakilasini othisha abathunyelwe endleleni kanye nesabelo esisha se-locker. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi uxhumane njalo nabalawuli mayelana nezidingo zentsha yakho.
- Siza ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nakho. Ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa okungokwenkolo kungaba buhlungu ikakhulukazi ngoba kuhlasela intsha engxenyeni yabo. Ngenxa yalokho, kuyinto evamile izisulu zokuxhashazwa ngokwenkolo ukuze zithole ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka , ngisho nokucindezeleka. Ezimweni ezimbi, bangase bacabange nokuzibulala . Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi uthathe izinyathelo zokusiza ingane yakho ukuphulukisa ekuhlukunyezweni kwenkolo.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Uma ukuhlukumezeka kwenkolo kuvezwa futhi kunselele, ngokuvamile ngeke kwenzeke endaweni yesikole. Ukulwa nokuxhashazwa kokucwaswa kuzo zonke izinsizakalo kunikeza intsha isikhuthazo esikhulu sokukhuluma ngokumelene nokuxhashazwa nokubhekana nale nkinga kunokuma ngokuthula ngephandle.
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