Isinqumo sokushintsha odokotela noma ababelethisi akulula neze, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kufika iphuzu uma uqaphela ukuthi wena noma udokotela wakho awujabuli nokuthi udinga ukuthola umuntu ongakunika ukunakekelwa okudingayo futhi afanele ukukhulelwa.
Izizathu Zokuthi Abesifazane Abakhulelwe Bangakwazi Ukushintsha Udokotela wabo
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ungase unqume ukuthi udinga udokotela ohlukile.
Eminye yezizathu abesifazane ababelana ngazo zihlanganisa:
- Udokotela akalaleli (ukuxhumana okubi)
- Awuthandi ukuthi uphathwa kanjani
- Odokotela abaningi kakhulu kulo mkhuba
- Asikho isikhathi esanele esichitha nawe
- Amafilosofi ahlukene okuzalwa
- Uthole omunye udokotela oyithandayo kangcono
- Ukungavumelani ngemikhuba yokwelapha
- Izinkinga nabasebenzi basehhovisi noma umshuwalense
- Isikhathi eside silinde ukuqokwa
- Udokotela wakho ushiya umkhuba noma akabelethi
Indlela Yokushintsha Udokotela Wakho
Into yokuqala okufanele uzame ukuyenza ukuxazulula inkinga nombelethisi wakho noma udokotela wakho. Chaza inkinga bese usesha isinqumo ndawonye. Lokhu kungase kungabi njalo njalo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ubona umuntu oye waba yi-GYN emangalisayo kuwe iminyaka, kodwa uthole ukuthi udinga okuthile okuhlukile ku-OB. Uma uzithola usesimweni lapho uzame khona futhi izinto ezingasebenzi, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha.
- Xoxa nabanye odokotela. Buyela ohlwini lwakho lokuqala lwemibandela bese uthola abanye ukuthi baxoxisane nabo. Mhlawumbe ube nesinqumo sesibili lapho ukhetha lo dokotela kuqala. Uma usuvele uxoxile nabo, ungase uvele ubakhethe i-bat. Uma ungenalo uhlu oludlule, qala eyodwa. Khuluma nabomama abaye babhekana nakho okufana nokwethenjelwe ukuthi ube nakho futhi uqale khona. Khumbula ukubuza imibuzo ethize, hhayi "Uthandile udokotela noma umbelethisi wakho?" Yilokho okuzithobayo. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukwazi okunye okufana nalokhu: "Yiziphi odokotela kule ndawo asekela ukuzalwa kwemvelo ?" "Yimiphi imikhuba enabo bonke abesifazane?"
- Yenza isinqumo ukuthi uzokhetha bani . Shayela ukubona ukuthi ngabe umkhuba wamukela iziguli ezintsha futhi uthatha umshuwalense wakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, ungase ube nemikhuba yokushintsha isikhathi esicindezelayo. Ngokuvamile, ungangena uma ukhuluma nomphathi wehhovisi noma udokotela bese uchaza isimo.
- Yazisa umkhuba wakho omdala. Uma usulungele ukuhamba, kuzodingeka uzise umkhuba wakho omdala. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokubhala noma ngokusebenzisa ucingo. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhansela noma yimaphi ama-aphoyintimenti ahleliwe kahle ngokwanele kusengaphambili ukuvimbela izimali zokuqashwa ezingabanjwanga.
- Thola ikhophi yamarekhodi akho wezokwelapha. Kuzodingeka ucele, ngokubhala, ikhophi yamarekhodi akho wezokwelapha. Ungakhetha ukuphatha lezi zirekhodi noma ukuzithumela ngqo ku-odokotela wakho omusha. Imithetho kahulumeni ingase ihluke kancane kodwa ayikwazi ukukulahla amarekhodi akho, kodwa angakwazi ukukukhokhela. Lokhu kuvame ukukhokha imali encane yokukopisha futhi kuningi kuthi ikhophi yokuqala ikhululekile. Lokhu kungenziwa ngomuntu siqu noma ube nefeksi, i-imeyili, noma ukuthumela ifomu elikudingayo ukuthi ugcwalise.
- Qala ukubona udokotela wakho omusha. Qinisekisa ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti nomsebenzi omusha. Kuye ngokuthi uhlala kude kangakanani nokukhulelwa kwakho, isikhathi singase singabi lula uma sisebenza nawe.
Ungakwazi noma ungenqume ukuvumela umkhuba wakho omdala wazi ukuthi kungani ushiye amasevisi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uzozizwa kangcono noma ukuthi uzofunda kuwo, ungase unqume ukuzithumela incwadi. Abesifazane abaningi abangeke baphinde babuye emisebenzini yabo yakudala.
Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi bayothola incwadi noma ucingo. Nquma kusengaphambili ukuthi uzosisingatha kanjani futhi ulungele, uma kwenzeka.
Ngenkathi ushintsha odokotela akulula neze, omama abaningi baye bakwenza ngaphambili futhi bayajabula kakhulu ukuthi bakwenzile. Omunye umama wathi wayebheke ukulinda kuze kube yilapho engumntwana wakhe ozayo kodwa wabe esezibuza, "Lo mntwana akafanelanga yini okungcono engikwazi ukukunikela?"