Khombisa ukuziphatha komntanakho kanye nalawa mathuluzi
Njengasezimo eziningi zokubeletha, akukho ukulingana komuntu oyedwa-yonke indlela yokuziphatha yabantwana abancane. Ukuthola okungcono kakhulu amathuluzi okufundisa onakho. Abazali bangathola ukuthi uma bencika kakhulu endleleni eyodwa, indlela ephumelelayo leyo ndlela iba. Zama ezinye zalezi zindlela futhi unake kakhulu ukusabela kwengane yakho. Yibani ngokuvumelana njalo, kodwa hlala uguquguquka lapho indlela yakho yokuzikhethela ingasebenzi.Ukulungiswa kabusha
Ungasebenzisa konke ukuthanda namandla amandla encane yakho ifaka ukungalungi futhi isebenzise kahle. Isibonelo, uma encane yakho iphonsa isihlabathi kumuntu odlala naye, ungamsusa ebhokisini le-sandbox bese unikeza ibhola esikhundleni salokho. Ngaleyo ndlela, ingane encane isenza into afuna ukuyenza (ukuphonsa) kodwa uyibuyisele esikhundleni esihle.Ukuphazamiseka
Ukuphazamisa kufana nokuhlelwa kabusha kodwa esikhundleni sokugxila emisebenzini efanayo, khetha imisebenzi engahambisani noma okungahambisani nokuziphatha kwengane yakho ekhombisa. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho iqoqa i-strand evulekile egumbini lokuphumula futhi wesaba ukuthi uzoyiqeda, ungasetha umsebenzi wokudweba ngomunwe esihlalweni esiphakeme. Lokhu kunikeza ingane yakho encane okuthile okujabulisayo okumele ukwenze futhi isikhathi sokulungisa noma ukususa umgudu wokulungisa kamuva. Le ndlela isebenza kangcono ngokuziphatha okungahambi ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ukuthi wena noma abanye ungase uthole ucasulayo. Akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuziphatha okungathí sina noma ukuphindaphinda amacala adinga umsebenzi omningi.Ukungazinaki
Ukungazinaki kungaba nzima ukukhipha, kodwa kungaba ngempumelelo kakhulu. Kunezikhathi lapho ukunaka ukuziphatha okungafuneki kunomphumela wokwenza kube kubi nakakhulu.Isibonelo, uma ungajwayele ukufunga, kodwa kwenzeke ukuthi wenze njalo ngolunye usuku futhi ingane yakho iphinda iphinde uyivumele. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke futhi ngaphandle uma wenza into enkulu ngakho.
Noma uma izingane zakini ziphikisana kodwa akekho olimazayo, kufanele uzame ukungabandakanyeki ukuze bakwazi ukusebenza amakhono abo wokuxazulula izinkinga ndawonye.
Ungaphinde uqede ukufutheka okukhulu uma umntanakho eqaphela ukuthi ngeke uphinde uphendule ngendlela efanayo. Njalo qinisekisa ukuthi uphephile futhi uyayinaki ukuziphatha okukulo mbuzo.
Imiphumela Yemvelo
Angiqiniseki ukuthi iziphi lezi zinsuku abazali bafumana umqondo wokuthi ubuntwana kufanele bube buhle futhi bukhululekile ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukubhekana nokulungisa ukubhekana nokuhlukumezeka kwabantwana okuhlukunyezwa kwezingane. Ukukhathazeka okuncane nokunganaki kungaba uthisha ophumelelayo kakhulu, kodwa, futhi akuyona indlela ehlukumezayo uma usebenzisa umqondo ovamile. Vumela ingane yakho ihlangabezane nemiphumela yezenzo zakhe noma kunini lapho ungakwenza. Ungamshiyi ingane yakho konke ukudabuka noma zama ukwenza izinto zibe lula kakhulu. Qaphela ngokucophelela lezi zikhathi ezifundiswayo - iningi lesikhathi awusoze udingeke uphakamise umunwe ukuze usebenze. Vele ugcizelele amazwi: "Ngakucela ukuba uthole ithoyizi yakho izikhathi eziningi futhi awuzange, ngakho manje kuGogo kuze kube sesikhathini esizayo."Imiphumela Engewona-Yomvelo
Akudingeki kube yendalo ukuba iphumelele, kodwa qaphela. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane encane iqala ukubeka imbangela nomphumela ngokwakho kuqala. Abanye abazali abayithandi le ndlela ngoba uzizwa njengesijeziso. Ngibheka ngaphezulu njengokuthola ithikithi eligijima. Kunomthetho lapho futhi uma ngingakulandeli, kufanele ngikhokhwe futhi ngingase ngilahlekelwe ilungelo lami lokushayela. Akuthatha isikhathi eside izingane ukuba zifunde lokhu. Vele ube mnandi futhi ungaguquki.Sebenzisa izinkulumo "Uma-ke". "Uma uthatha ithoyizi lomfowenu kude naye kuzodingeka ushiye indawo yokudlala," noma "Uma uqhubeka uphonsa amadwala efasiteleni bese singena ngaphakathi."
Susa amalungelo noma amathoyizi uma lokhu kushukumisa ingane yakho. "Awukwazi ukubukela uDora namhlanje uze ugqoke."
Isikhathi siphelile
Ukuphuma kwesikhathi kungasebenza njengendlela yokuba ingane yakho iqoqe lapho ixhala. Kungamsiza ukuthi ayeke ukungaziphathi kahle noma aqale ukuziphatha ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Umgomo oyinhloko ukumsiza ukuthi afunde indlela yokulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe futhi le ndlela ingaba ngempumelelo.Sebenzisa uma ingane yakho ingaphandle ukubonisa intukuthelo noma ingekho kokulawula. Yisho, "Angikwazi ukukuzwisa uma usho," noma "Ngiyaqonda ukuthi uthukuthele, kodwa udinga ukuzola." Bese uhola ingane yakho endaweni engaphandle, ivumele ukuba aphinde abuyele lapho ephinde aphinde alawule.
Ungaphinda usebenzise izikhathi ezimbalwa emva kokunikeza ingane yakho isixwayiso mayelana nokuziphatha kwakhe futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzofunda ukuthi imithetho yakho ibalulekile futhi uzokwenza ukhetho olungcono.