Abafundi abanezintandokazi bathambekele ukuba nobuhlobo obuhlukile nobuthongo
Abazali abanezingane ezinamakhono bangaqaphela ukuthi laba bantu abasha babonakala badinga amahora ambalwa okulala kunabo ontanga. Cabangela indaba yomzali wengane eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala. Umzali waphawula ukuthi lo mfana akazange alale njengengane futhi unenkinga yokushona esikoleni esiphakathi ngoba engabonakali "ukuvala ubuchopho bakhe." Ingabe into efana naleyo ejwayelekile nezingane ezinamakhono?
Funda kabanzi mayelana namaphethini okulala wezingane ezinezintandokazi ngalesi sibuyekezo. Uma ingane yakho enekhono ingabonakali ukulala noma ilele amahora ambalwa kuphela, funda indlela yokuphendula ngokufanele.
Ubufakazi be-Anecdotal bukhombisa ukuthi izingane ezifakiwe zidinga ukulala kancane
Enye yezinto zokuqala abazali abanabantwana abanamakhono okuqaphela ukuthi izingane zabo azibonakali zidinga ukulala okuningi. Yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi abazi ukuthi izingane zabo zinamakhono njengezinsana, nakuba izibonakaliso zobunikazi zingase zibonakale kule ntsha. Yiziphi abazali zalezi zingane abazi, kodwa ukuthi izingane zabo zibonakala zingalali njengabanye izingane. Amahora abalala phakathi nobusuku angaphansi, ama-naps abo afushane futhi iminyaka abayeka ngayo i-naps iza maduze.
Lokhu kungaba ukukhungathekisa kakhulu kumzali oqine kakhulu noma ocindezelekile. Kodwa hhayi ukulala okuningi kungase kube evamile kwabanye abantwana, ikakhulukazi abanesipho. Izingane ezinezinwele, noma kunjalo, aziveleli nje ukulala kancane kunezontanga zabo.
Izingane ezinezinwele zibonakala zikwazi ukusebenza kahle ngokulala kancane kunabalingani babo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ziba nesikhathi esinzima sokulala. Izingane eziningi zichaza ukuthi azikwazi ukuvala ubuchopho bazo. Akumane akwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga. Imicabango eyithakazelisayo ifika emakhanda abo, futhi iphishekela leyo migqa yokucabanga.
Kungaba ngumsebenzi wesikole noma ukuzilibazisa. Imibuzo ehlobene nalezi zindaba ingase ivele, futhi izingane ezinezintandokazi zizoqeda ubuchopho bazo zizama ukuthola izixazululo.
Bangakwazi ukuchitha amahora bebuza ukuthi kukhona okusebenzayo nokuzindla ngezizathu zokuthi kungani. Ngokuvamile akusizi abazali ukuba vala izibani noma bahlele lezi zingane ukuba zilale. Uma bekwazi, bebengaba!
Indlela Abazali Abafanele Bayiphendule Ngayo
Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi izingane zabo ezineziphiwo zisebenza kanjani emini. Ingabe babonakala bengenangqondo noma beqaphele ezinsukwini eziningi zesikole? Uma izingane zibonakala ziqaphile naphezu kokulala isikhathi esingaphansi kwezingane zabo noma oontanga, kungenzeka ukuthi zithola ukuphumula okwanele. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma bebonakala bengenangqondo, zama ukubasiza ukuba balale ngaphambi kwesikhathi nangesikhathi esiningi.
Siza lezi zingane ziphephe ebusuku ngokunciphisa ukuvezwa kwazo emisebenzini engase ibenze kakhulu. Okufanayo kuya ngokukhanya okukhanyayo kusuka kumakhompyutha nakwamanye amadivaysi angenza kube nzima ukuba balele. Banike isikhathi esinqunyiwe sokudla nokuzivocavoca, kokubili okungagcina izingane kanye nabantu abadala ngokufanayo uma kwenziwa kusihlwa kakhulu kusihlwa.
Fundisa izingane ngokubaluleka kokulala. Batshele ukuthi ukulala kuphazamisa kanjani ingqondo nomzimba bese kudala nezinqubo zokuphulukisa.
Uma lezi zindlela zingakusizi, khuluma nodokotela wezingane ngezindlela ezingcono zokuthi ingane ilale kakhulu.