Amalungelo Abazali Abangabambisani

Inkantolo yomthetho ngokujwayelekile izonikezela amalungelo okuvakasha okungahambisani nabazali lapho umzali enganikezwa ukugcinwa kwengane eyisisekelo. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zomthetho zabazali abangenabulungisa.

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Landela isimiso sokuvakasha

Kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali abangabambeleli ukuhambisana nesimiso sokuvakasha esibekwe yinkantolo. Uma kunesizathu sokuthi umzali ongenamkhawulo angakwazi ukunamathela esimweni sokuvakashelwa, umzali kufanele aqale ngokuzama ukukhuluma isidingo sokushintsha nomzali wokulondeka kwengane.

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Landela uHlelo Lokuvakashelwa Olubukeziwe Uma Kusebenza

Ukuvakasha okuqashwe kungabhekwa njengokuqondiswa, ukuvakashelwa kwetende nomuntu wesithathu, okuvame ukwenzeka endaweni yomphakathi. Abazali abangabambisani kufanele bahambisane nokuvakashelwa okungcono kakhulu ngokuthuthukisa isimiso nezingane ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa. Kungaba usizo ukuthuthukisa imidlalo ekhethekile nezingxoxo ezizobe zihlanganisiwe ngesikhathi sokuvakasha.

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Beka Izintshisekelo Ezinhle Zengane Okokuqala

Umzali ongabambeleli kufanele abeke kuqala izithakazelo zomntwana kuqala. Abazali kufanele baqinisekise ukuthi izingane zinezindawo eziphephile zokuhlala nokudla okudliwayo ngesikhathi bevakashelwa nabazali. Ukwengeza, abazali kufanele basebenze ndawonye ngangokunokwenzeka ukuqinisekisa ukushintshwa okushelelekayo emakhaya onke kubantwana.

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Khokha ukusekelwa kwabantwana

Abazali abangabambisani nabanakekelwa icala lokukhokha izingane bangase basungule isivumelwano esingavumelekile nomzali wokugcina ingane okuzovumela umzali wokulondeka ukuthola ukwesekwa kwengane ngekheshi, hlola. Isivumelwano esingakahleleki singavumela umzali ongabheki ukukhokhela isikhungo sokunakekela izingane ngokuqondile noma ukuthenga izinto ezinganeni ezifana nokudla noma izingubo zokugqoka. Uma umzali ongekho ukuvikela ubeka ilungiselelo elingavumelekile nomzali wokulondeka, umzali ongabambeleli kufanele agcine ubufakazi bazo zonke izinkokhelo ezenziwe njenge-check stubs noma amarisidi ezithengiwe. Ukwengeza, umzali angakhokha ukusekelwa kwabantwana nge-debit ngqo kusukela ekukhokhweni komzali okungabambeleli, okubekwa yinkantolo.

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Landelela Izinkokhelo Zakho Zokusekela Zengane

Abazali abangabambisani kufanele balandele izinkokhelo zokusekelwa kwabantwana ezenziwe, ikakhulukazi, uma umzali ongekho ngaphansi kokukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane ngqo kusuka ekukhokhweni kwakhe. Umzali kufanele agcine amakhophi ama-paystubs. Uma umzali ongekho-myalelo adinga ukuguqulwa kwezinkokhelo zokusekela izingane, umzali ongabheki kufanele afune usizo lommeli noma afake ukuguqulwa kokusekelwa kwengane.

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Funa Usizo Lwezomthetho Uma Ungeke Uvumelane

Uma umzali ongekho ngaphansi komthetho unesivumelwane esingavumelekile sokugcinwa kwengane nomzali wokulondeka, kungase kube ngcono ukubeka isivumelwano ngokubhala. Kodwa-ke, uma umzali ongekho ngaphansi komthetho engakwazi ukwenza isivumelwano nomzali wokulondeka, umzali kufanele afune usizo lwezomthetho enkantolo yomthetho noma nommeli ofanelekayo.

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Hlela phambili Ukuvakashelwa

Umzali ongabambeleli kufanele ahlele ukuvakashelwa kwengane ngokuthenga izinto zokudla ezingathandwa ngumntwana kanye nokudla okulula futhi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane inemisebenzi yokwenza kanye nezindawo zokuhamba njengezemidlalo, ukuya kuma-movie nokudlala imidlalo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane izwe njengasekhaya njengoba ayengathi uma ingane isendlini yomzali wokulondeka.

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Lungiselela Ikhaya Lakho Lokuvakasha

Umzali ongabambeleli kufanele alungise ikhaya labo ukuvakashelwa ebusuku. Uma umzali ongeyena ongekho ngaphansi komuntu enekamelo elihlukile lomntwana, igumbi kufanele libe namanye amathoyizi noma amageyimu abathandayo. Uma umzali ongeyena ongekho emthethweni engenawo igumbi elihlukile lomntwana, kufanele abone indawo (ie sofa yokulala) lapho ingane izolala khona. Umzali ongabambeleli kufanele alungise indawo ngokusemandleni akho ukuze avumele ingane ukuthi ibe nobumfihlo kanye nokunethezeka kwekhaya (amathoyizi, imidlalo, ukudla okulula).

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Khokha izindleko ezengeziwe

Abazali abangabambisani nabasebenzi abadinga ukukhokhela izindleko ezengeziwe ezidlula izinkokhelo zokuxhasa izingane kufanele baqale ngokukhuluma nomzali wokulondoloza uma ukukhokha kube kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, bobabili abazali bangahlukanisa izinkokhelo. Kodwa-ke, uma umzali ongekho ukuphepha engakwazi ukufinyelela isivumelwano nomzali wokulondeka, umzali ongabheki kufanele ahlole ukucela ukushintshwa kokwesekwa kwengane.

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Ifayela Lokuguqulwa Kwempahla Yengane Uma Kunesidingo

Uma isivumelwano sokusekelwa kwengane asisekho umzali ongabambeleli, umzali kufanele afune ukulungiswa kwengane enkantolo. Umzali kufanele alungele ukuxoxa ngezizathu zokusekela ukuguqulwa. Kodwa-ke, inkantolo ingase isenqume ukungashintshi isivumelwano, uma inkantolo ibona isivumelwano esisebenza.