Indlela Izakhiwo Zokuhlala Ezithinta Ngayo Impahla Yomntwana

Kungani ukuhlala ezindlini zesitokisini

Izinkantolo zizokwenza izinqumo zokugcina izingane nokuvakashelwa ngokususelwa endaweni yokuhlala yomzali. Izinga lokuhlala endaweni eyamukelekayo lisekelwe ezimweni zomuntu ngamunye nomzali. Ukucatshangelwa kuyohlukahluka enkantolo, ngombuso, ngisho nangabehluleli. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa abahluleli abazozicabangela lapho bebhekene nenselelo yokuhlala indawo yokuhlala kanye nezinhloso zokuvakashelwa.

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Age Child and Sex

Uma umzali ongeyena ongumlusi ohlukile wobulili obuhlukile bomntwana, inkantolo ingalindela ikhaya lomzali ukuba linikeze ingane ubuningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kungasho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane inekamelo lakhe lokulala, indawo yokugezela, noma indawo yangasese ukuze igqoke.

Ukwengeza, ingane endala ingadinga isikhala esiningi kunane encane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi inkantolo ingase ingabonakali kahle kwentsha ehlanganyela ekamelweni kanye nezingane zakudala esikoleni esiphansi.

Ungakhathazeki uma ungenayo imali eningi nendlu evulekile yokunikeza ingane yakho. Abazali abaningi basesimweni esifanayo, kanti izindlu ezingabizi kakhulu kunzima ukufika emadolobheni amaningi amakhulu, kungabi namakhaya angabizi futhi avulekile.

Ijaji lizoguquguquka futhi licabangele isimo esiyingqayizivele somzali ngamunye.

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Inani lezingane

Ijaji lizocubungula inani lezingane ezibandakanyekile lapho kunquma indawo yokuhlala yokuhlala efanelekile. Uma umzali enezingane eziningana, ijaji lingalindela ukuthi umzali abe nendawo engaphezulu yokubamba izingane ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa ebusuku.

Ngeshwa, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ijaji lingabamba ngokumelene nawe uma ufuna izingane zakho ezintathu zihlanganyele ekamelweni noma ingane eyodwa ukulala embhedeni nomunye ekamelweni lokulala nawe.

Uma unabantwana abahlukene ebuhlotsheni obuhlukene futhi abahlali nawe njalo, lokhu kungase kuhlolwe yijaji.

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Izimo Zomzali Ezihlukile

Ijaji lizocabangela ubudala bomzali kanye nesimo sezimali esiyingqayizivele lapho kunqunywa ukugcinwa kwezingane kanye nezindawo zokuhlala ezifanele. Isibonelo, ugogo nomkhulu ngamalungelo okugcina angase abe nemali encane yokunikeza ikhaya elikhulu labazukulu bakhe. Ukwengeza, umzali okhokhela ukusekelwa kwabantwana angeke akwazi ukukhokhela ikhaya elikhulu ukuze avumele ukuba izingane zakhe zibe namakamelo azo.

Yenza okusemandleni akho (ngaphakathi kwesizathu) ukuhlinzekela ingane yakho futhi unethemba lokuthi ijaji lizocabangela isimo sakho uma wenza isinqumo.

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Ikhono Lengane Lokulungisa

Ingane ejwayele isikhala esikhulu ingase inenkinga yokulungisa isikhala esincane endlini yomzali. Ijaji lizocubungula ukuthi ngabe ingane ingathinteka ngokwengqondo yizinguquko ezinkulu endaweni yakhe.

Kodwa-ke, ukukhathazeka okuyinhloko kwejaji kuzoba yisithakazelo esihle kakhulu kwengane. Uma kunjalo, ijaji lingacabanga ukuthi ingane izojabula, ngisho nangesikhala esincane, uma nje ingane inethuba lokuchitha isikhathi nomzali wayo. Ngakho-ke, ungakhathazeki uma ungakwazi ukuncintisana nomzali ocebile wengane ngokuqondene nezindlu.

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Ukuphepha Kwengane

Ijaji lizokubuza ngokuphepha komuzi nomakhelwane. Uma kunethuba elihle lokulimaza ingane ekhaya noma endaweni, ijaji linganciphisa ukuvakashelwa kokuvakashela ekhaya lomzali ongekho emthethweni.

Cwaninga indawo ohlala kuyo. Zingaki ukuhlukumeza ezenzeka lapho? Bangaki abenza ubulili bahlala eduze? Zonke lezi zici zingase zisetshenziswe ngokumelene nawe.