Ama-tween ayanzima kodwa ungabasiza ngokusebenzisa izinguquko ezizayo
Uyazi ukuthi eminyakeni eyishumi eyintsha izoba inselele, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ufike lapho kufanele unqobe phakathi phakathi kweminyaka, owaziwa nangokuthi unyaka ophakathi. I-preteens ingaba nzima kumzali, futhi kunzima nakakhulu ukuhlala nayo, kodwa ama-preteens aqhubeka kakhulu futhi adinga isiqondiso sakho nesineke. Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula futhi ishintshe yena uzodinga isiqondiso ukusiza ukubhekana nezinguquko ezingokomzwelo nezingokwenyama, izinselele ezintsha, namathuba. Le minyaka embalwa elandelayo izosiza ukunquma ingane yakho eyishumi nantathu izoba, ngakho-ke yenza okuningi.
Ukusiza Ukuvimbela Ukukhulelwa
Ngisho negama elithi "ukukhulelwa" lingaba ukuguqula ukuvimbela. Ngayo yonke inguquko isilungiselela ngokwanele ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, akumangazi ukuthi bangathola ukuthukuthela nokuthukuthela ngezikhathi ezithile. Lesi sigaba sentuthuko sizohlola ukubekezela kwakho, kodwa ungaphumeleli manje. Ama-preteen adinga abazali babo ukuba baqondise ekufikeni kwentsha , bazisize baqonde imizimba yabo eguqukayo kanye nezinguquko zomphakathi nezokucansi ezenzekayo. Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyinselelo enkulu kunazo zonke kubazali bama-preteens, kodwa thatha usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi futhi uzobona phakathi kwakho kuze kube sekupheleni.
Ukuzisiza Aguqule Esikoleni Esiphakathi
Ungakhumbula izinsuku zakho esikoleni esiphakathi noma esikoleni esiphakeme samabanga aphezulu. Ama-preteens yanamuhla abhekene nezinselele eziningi nakakhulu esikoleni esiphakathi kunakho, futhi izinkinga zomphakathi nazo zingaba inselelo. Qala ukulungiselela ama-preteens akho esikoleni esiphakathi isikhathi eside ngaphambi kwalolo suku lokuqala lwesikole. Ukuguquka kufanele kwenzeke ngonyaka wokugcina wesikole samabanga aphansi, futhi nasezinyangeni zasehlobo ezihola esikoleni esiphakathi. Qaphela impilo yengane yengane yakho njengoba izingane ezimbili zingazigcina zibhekene nazo uma zibhekene nezinselelo noma ukuxhashazwa.
Indlela Yokuyala Abaqashiwe
Ukubuyela emuva, ukugoba kweso, ukuqalekisa, ukuhlala isikhathi sekwephuzile, ukwehluleka ukuqeda imisebenzi noma imithwalo yemindeni. I-Preteens izosunduza izinkinobho zakho njalo, futhi uzothola uzibuza ukuthi kwenzekani kumntwana wakho omnandi. Ungakhathazeki, awuzange uphule phakathi kwakho. Lokhu konke ukuziphatha okuvamile kwabahlinzeki bokuqala, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kuyamukeleka ukuziphatha. Ukubeletha kudinga ukuthi uthathe isikhathi sokubeka imingcele yezingane zakho , futhi ufundise ngalezo zimingcele nokuthi kungani zikhona. Kubalulekile futhi ukuphoqelela imithetho nemiphumela lapho uhlangothi lwakho lungalandeli okulindelekile.
Ukukhuluma Nezingane Zakho
Ngandlela-thile, impilo yama-preteens ayishintshi kakhulu lokho kusukela usencane. Kodwa kunezici zeminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ezishintshile kakhulu kusukela usukhona ekushintsheni phakathi kokubuntana neminyaka eyishumi. Isibonelo, ama-preteens namuhla ane-Internet nezindawo zokuxhumana nabantu ukuze bahlale bematasa (futhi ngezinye izikhathi bephazanyiswe) empilweni yabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ama-preteens namuhla anolwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nobulili kanye neminye imibandela yabantu abadala kunokuthi beyiyiphi iminyaka edlule. Zonke lezi zinguquko ziletha izinselelo kubazali nasekudidekeni ukuze ziqede . Qiniseka ukuthi uqondisa ingane yakho ngokusebenzisa impilo yakhe e-intanethi. Lungiselela inkontileka yemidiya yezenhlalakahle futhi uhlale phezulu ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho kanye nemikhuba yakhe.
Ukuqonda Ukucindezelwa Komphakathi
Ama-preteen akhathazeke ngokuhlukumezeka , ngokuzibandakanya, ukwenza abangane bese uqala yonke indawo yokuphola. Khumbula, nakuba ingane yakho ikhula, akasakulungele ukubhekana nezinkinga eziningi zenhlalo ngaphandle kosizo lwakho nesiqondiso. Qinisekisa ukuthi ama-preteens akho ayaqonda ukuthi angaya kuwe ngemibuzo mayelana nokuxhashazwa, ukucindezela kontanga nezinye izinkinga zenhlalo okungenzeka zibahlupha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, hlala uxhumane nabanye abazali bama-preteens ukuze uhlale usesikhathini kulokho okwenzeka emphakathini.
Yazi Izithiyo
Ama-preteens azongena enkingeni . I-Period. Kodwa usengakwazi ukunciphisa izinkinga nokuvimbela ezinye zezinkinga ezinkulu ngokuhlala uxoxa ne-preteen yakho ngokuphila kwakhe, yini eyamkhathaza, nokuthi yini abangane bakhe abaye bafinyelela kuyo. Kulungile ukuvumela abantu abangu-10 inkululeko encane, futhi uma begcina ithemba lakho bangathola inkululeko eyengeziwe eminyakeni ezayo. Kodwa manje akusona isikhathi sokuvumela ukuqapha kwakho nge-preteen yakho. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyayiqonda imithetho yakho nemiphumela yakho. Qinisekisa ukuthi uchaza ukuthi kungani engavunyelwe ukuxhuma nabasakhulile kakhulu, noma ukuya ezindaweni zodwa ebusuku. Yisho ngokuqondene nemigomo yomndeni wakho ngokuphathelene nokubhema, ukuphuza, nokunye ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa.