Njengokuba ngabe isikole esiphakathi sasingenzima ngokwanele, le minyaka ibona nokuphakama kokuziphatha kabi. Bobabili amantombazane nabafana bangase bahlangabezane nokuziphatha okuhlukumezayo, empeleni, amantombazane angase abe namathuba amaningi okubhekana nobudlelwane obucindezelayo nabangane abanobugovu nabanobudlova. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokufundisa ingane yakho mayelana nezihlukumezi nabanye abahlukumezayo ukuqonda isiko lokuxhashaza.
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Ithebula elithi "Basho Amantombazane" lisetshenziselwa ukuchaza amantombazane abonisa ukuziphatha okulwa nomphakathi okubizwa ngokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane . Leli gama laphakanyiswa yi-Movie Mean Girls , ekhuluma noLindsay Lohan. Ukuziphatha kwentombazane ephakathi kuhlanganisa ukuhleka , ukubeka phansi amagama, ukuxhaphaza, ukubuyisela emuva, nokusebenzisa abanye ukuze bafike phambili. Amantombazane anobungane ngomzuzu owodwa, futhi asho okulandelayo angase abizwe ngokuthi ama-frenemies.
Amantombazane asho angatholakala esikoleni, ebhasini, nasemisebenzini eyengeziwe yokufunda. Bahle kakhulu ekuphenduleni umngane kumngani, futhi bahlose amantombazane ababa nomhawu, noma abambelela esixukwini. Amantombazane asho ukuthatha umdlalo futhi ngokuvamile asebenzisa ukuxhashazwa kwe-cyber ukuze ahlukumeze izisulu zabo. Kungaba nzima ukubona intombazane enhle, njengoba beyizinkolelo zokuxhaphaza ngaphansi kwe-radar othisha, abanye abafundi, nabanye abadala. Amantombazane asho angase abhekwe njengothandwa yiontanga, kodwa lokho kungase kungabi njalo.
Indlela Yokusiza Indodakazi Yakho Ngomntwana Ophakathi
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokusiza indodakazi yakho ukuphatha umhlukumezi noma intombazane enhle ukukhuluma ngokuziphatha nokuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi uhlale ukhona ukuze ukhulume futhi ulalele. Uma u-kati wakho ekwazi ukuthi angakucela iseluleko, ngeke azizwe ewodwa. Siza ingane yakho ithuthukise amakhono okubhekana nokuhleba noma ukuhlukanisa.
Ukudlala indima kuyindlela enhle yokusiza ukusebenzisana kwakho nezinkinga ezingase zibe khona nontanga yakhe.
Ungabuye uqiniseke ukuthi uhlangothi lwakho luba nobungane obunempilo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze athole ukusekelwa kontanga uma ehlangana noxhashazi noma intombazane. Ubuhlobo bungenziwa esikoleni, kanye nasemisebenzini yangaphandle ngaphandle kwesikole. Khuluma ngephakathi kwakho ngalokho okwenza umngane weqiniso, kanye nezimfanelo angathanda abangane bakhe ukuba babe nazo. Phakamisa izindlela zakho ezingase zikwazi ukusekela abangane bakhe, uma zihlangana nekilasi lisho intombazane. Futhi, khuluma ngendlela ongayibona ngayo intukuthelo noma intombazane, kanye nezindlela zokuvimbela ukuhlangana okungenzeka noma ukuguqulwa.
Okungenzi okumele ukwenze: Uma ingane yakho isikhononda ngezidakamizwa, sekuyisikhathi sokunaka. Ukuziphatha ngokuhlukumezeka kungaba yingozi, futhi phakathi kwakho akunakwazi ukwazi ukubhekana nayo yonke inkinga. Uma kushiywe kungavinjelwe, ukuxhashazwa kungalimaza ukuzethemba kwakho okuphakathi nokwenza impilo yakhe yesikole ihlukumezeke. Uma kunesidingo, cabanga ngokuxhumana nesikole ukuze usize. Othisha wengane yakho noma umeluleki wesikole angakwazi ukusiza phakathi kwakho.
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