Ukugqoka izingane akuyona nje umkhuba, kunconywa ochwepheshe bezokwelapha futhi.
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Ukugqoka izingane, kuzovela, kusemthethweni "ku".
Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, ingane egqoke akuyona nje into eyenzayo - empeleni iyanconywa yi-American Academy of Pediatrics. Ubani owaziyo?
"Ukugqoka izingane" kunconywa hhayi nje njengempendulo yokukhala, kodwa ukuvimbela ukukhala nokukhuthaza ukunamathiselwa komntwana nosana nokuthuthukiswa kwengane, "HealthyChildren.org, iwebhusayithi yezemfundo ye-AAP.
Ngakho-ke uma i-ejensi ebusayo yezingane ikhona yonke yokugqoka izingane, mhlawumbe sonke sidinga ukuthi sibe sebhodini "nomkhuba", huh? Nazi amathiphu ambalwa okufanele ucabangele uma ucabanga ngokugqoka ingane yakho:
1. Kunezindlela eziningi ezahlukene zezithuthi zabantwana
Lapho ngibheka kuqala kubathwali bezingane, ngangiqine ngokuphelele. Kunezinhlobo eziningi kakhulu zezinkampani nezinkampani nezitayela zonke ezizibiza ngokuthi "okungcono kakhulu" engangingazi nokuthi ngizoqala kuphi. Ngako-ke ngenza lokho okwenziwa ngumama abaningi ngaphambi kwami futhi ngiphendukela kumithombo yezokuxhumana yami ukubuza amanye amama ukuthi yini ayeyisebenzele yona. Umkhiqizo weBoba wakhuphuka njalo, ngakho yilokho engagcina ngihamba ngakho ukuze ngiqale.
2. Izigqoko zezingane zingasiza esiteji esisha
Ngakho into eyodwa okufanele uyenze: i- baby wraps kanye nezingane zithwala izinto ezihlukene. Ama-wraps, njenge-Moby, ewusizo kakhulu uma ingane yakho isanda kusana noma encane kakhulu ngoba ilula futhi isisiza nje ukugcina ingane ihlale igxilile eceleni komzimba wakho.
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, ungase udinge ukwesekwa okungaphezulu kwesisindo sakhe (nangemuva wakho), okuyilapho abathwali bezingane beza khona.
Ezinye izithwala nazo zikuvumela ukuba ubambe ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa kuzo, noma kunjalo, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukutshala ku-one-carrier-for-each-stage, bheka umthwali wesisu onamandla okugqoka.
3. Awukwazi ukulimaza ingane ngokusebenzisa ingane egqoke
Ngibamba noma ngigqoke abantwana bami kakhulu futhi ngiye ngathola imibono mayelana nokuthi "i-spoiled" kanjani izingane zami ngoba zithanda ukubanjwa. Kodwa ukuqagela ngani? Izingane zithanda ukubanjwa! Futhi i-American Academy of Pediatrics ihlangothini lami nalolu. Bathi akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisa usana ngokumbamba kakhulu nokuthi empeleni, ukugqoka ingane kunganciphisa ukukhala, okungukucindezeleka okuncane kuwo wonke umuntu .
4. Ukuthwala emuva kungaba yinto emangalisayo
Njengoba ngangingumfana womntwana ogqoke, kunezikhathi lapho ngingifuni ukuba nomuntu oboshwe esifubeni sami. Kuyingozi, ngokwesibonelo, ukupheka ukudla noma ukudla ama-anyanisi uma kukhona ingane esifubeni sakho, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukudla kudinga ukwenziwa futhi ingane ingangivumela ukuba ngiyidle phansi.
Yikuphi lapho ukubheja emuva kungena khona ngempela. Ngempela sitholile isikhwama esikhulu sokuhamba esikhwameni sezingane esibhedlela esithengiswayo futhi siphelele kakhulu ukuphatha abantwana abakhulu noma asebekhulile nxazonke lapho ngidinga ukunqoba abanye noma ngenza noma yini engokwenyama engingafuni ukuthi iboshwe esifubeni sami ngoba.
5. Ukugqoka izingane akuwona wonke umuntu
Abanye abantwana kanye nabanye abazali bayothola ukuthi ingane-ukugqoka nje ayisebenzi kubo futhi lokho kulungile kahle.
Nganginendodakazi eyodwa eyayiyizondayo nomunye owayithandayo. Wonke umntwana uhlukile futhi wonke umzali uhlukile.
Futhi, uma ungumzali we-preemie, uzofuna ukuhlola umhlinzeki wokunakekela ingane yakho ngaphambi kokwenza noma yikuphi ingane egqoke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthola uhlobo olufanele lokuthwala usayizi nosana lwakho, njengoba ezinye izithuthi zingakhiwa okwanele kumisipha yomntwana we-preemie.
Imithombo:
Ukugqoka izingane. (Meyi 2015). HealthyChilden.org, American Academy of Pediatrics. Kufinyelelwe ku-Agasti 5, 2015: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/preemie/Pages/Baby-Wearing.aspx