Ukuyala izingane akulula neze, kodwa kungaba nzima nakakhulu uma uhlangothi luhilelekile. Nakuba izinyanga ezingu-12 ziyaziwa ngokuzizwa okunempilo nokuziphatha okungalindelekile, kunezindlela zokusiza ingane yakho ifunde ukuphatha imizwelo futhi iphile nemithetho oyimisele yona. Ngezansi kukhona iziphakamiso eziningana eziphathelene nesiyalo, izingane, kanye nokubhekana nokuziphatha okuphakathi, intukuthelo ephakathi, inkulumo ephindaphindiwe, kanye nekhasi eliphakathi kwekhasi.
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Ukuyala nokuziphatha okuphakathiZonke izingane zidinga ukujeziswa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zenzani ukuthuthukiswa kwazo. AmaTweens, ikakhulukazi, kufanele aqaphele kakhulu imiphumela yezenzo zabo nezenzo zabo. Uma ungumzali noma umnakekeli we-kati, ungalindela into eyodwa: i-kati yakho izokwenza. Indlela osabela ngayo kumntanakho uzothatha isinqumo sokuthi noma ngabe ukuziphatha kuyoba kubi kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma ukuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa nokusizwa kwakho. Isiyalo, izingane kanye nokuziphatha okuphakathi kungathatha okuningi kumzali, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uthatha izinyathelo ezidingekile ezidingekayo nsuku zonke ukuze uzizinakekele ukuze ukwazi ukunakekela phakathi kwakho. Ukulala, ukudla okunomsoco, nokuzivocavoca kubalulekile kuwe njengoba kunjalo kumntanakho.
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Lapho amaTweens ekhuluma emuvaUkugcoba kweso kuwukuqala. Ngaphambi kokuba i-tween yakho ikhiphe eminyakeni engamashumi ayishumi nesishiyagalolunye uzoba uchwepheshe ekukhulumeni emuva. Yuck. Kodwa hlala lapho, leli lilungelo elihle kuwe ukufundisa amakhono akho ezentengiselwano zomphakathi, umthwalo wakho siqu, uzwela, kanye nezifundo kwezinye izifundo ezidingekayo. Nazi amasu ambalwa alula ongawasebenzisa lapho ama-cops akho aphakathi nesimo sengqondo noma ekhuluma nawe noma omunye umuntu.
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Ama-Tweens adinga isikhathi sokufikaAmakhokhelo yindlela enhle yokuthi abantu abayishumi nambili bafunde imithetho yendlu. Futhi zidingekile ukuze ufundise ukuziphatha kwakho okuphakathi. Kudingeka futhi ukuba ingane yakho ivikeleke futhi ivimbele ukuba angazitholi ezimweni angasakwazi ukuzenza. Nakhu okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nezinsuku ezingu-13 nezikhathi zokufika ngesikhathi.
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Ukunciphisa Ukufutheka OkuphakathiAmaTweens ayaziwa ngokuba nemizwelo enamandla, futhi akumangalisi. Cabanga ngazo zonke izinguquko ingane yakho ehamba ngayo. Uzoba nomoya, futhi. Kodwa ungakwazi ukusiza intukuthelo yakho ukugcina intukuthelo ngaphansi kokulawula. Futhi lokho kwenza ukuphila nokubili kube mnandi kakhulu.
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Imisebenzi Yomkhaya kanye Nemithwalo YemfaneloIzingane ezihlelwe kahle ziqonda ukuthi kufanele zisize ezungeze indlu. Ukufundisa phakathi kwakho ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini kusiza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ngokuzithiba futhi nokuba yilungu leqembu. Qiniseka ukuthi u-kati wakho uyaqonda ukuthi imisebenzi yasekhaya kufanele ibe yingxenye yendlela yakhe yansuku zonke, ngisho nangonyaka wesikole. Futhi ake ingane yakho yazi ukuthi uziqhenya kanjani lapho elwa imisebenzi ngaphandle kokukhunjuzwa.
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Ukuqedela ukuphikisa okuphakathiAkunakugwema ngalolu suku ngenkathi yobudala - ukuqalekisa kukhona yonke indawo. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi uhlangothi lwakho kufanele lusebenzise ulimi olungalungile noma ulimi olutholakalayo. Nciphisa ukuthuka okuphakathi kwakho ngokubeka isibonelo esihle ngokwakho, uchaza ukuthi kungani kungalungile ukuqalekisa, nokuphoqelela imiphumela yomndeni ngokuphula imithetho.