Intsha iyacabanga ukuthi abanye babukele futhi bahlulele
"Izilaleli ezicatshangelwayo" yilebula lezingane nentsha 'yezinkolelo' zokudala ukuthi iqembu labalandeli likhona elihlala libuka futhi lijaha ukuhamba kwabo konke. Le nkolelo ivela emcimbini omkhulu wemvelo yokukhula kwentsha , ukuthi intsha icabanga ukuthi izwe libazungezile nokuthi wonke umuntu uyabheka indlela ababukeka ngayo nalokho abakwenzayo. Lesi yisigaba esivamile sokuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle entsha.
Abalaleli Abalingiswa Ukubuka Nokugweba
Umuntfu ovamile wezingane okholwayo ukholelwa ukuthi nomaphi lapho ehamba khona, wonke umuntu ozungezile unesithakazelo kuye njengoba ephakathi kwakhe. Ukholelwa ukuthi izilaleli zakhe zilokhu ziphawula ngezenzo zakhe nokubukeka kwakhe. Kufana nokuba udumo-ngaphandle kokuthi akekho obukele ngempela. Lokho kungazwakala njenge-paranoia, kodwa kuyinto evamile yokukhula nokufunda ukusebenza komphakathi.
Isimo sezethameli sihlukahluka nesimo sengqondo sabantwana. Uma lo mfana noma osemusha ezwa uzibheka njengecala, ucabanga ukuthi abanye bayoba nokugwetshwa okukhulu kokuziphatha nokubukeka kwakhe. Uma esesimweni sokuzikhukhumeza, ucabanga ukuthi abanye bazogqokwa ngokulinganayo ngobuhle bakhe, umusa nomuntu omangalisayo.
Inkolelo ye-Adolescents ezilalelini ezicabangelayo ichaza ezinye zezimo zabo. Ngisho nezikhathi zangasese uzizwa obala kubo. Yingakho intsha nama-tweens aselekhulile avame ukuba namahloni ngezenzakalo ezincane.
Isibonelo, uma ubaba enza ihlaya elingenalutho endaweni yokudlela, akukhathaleli ingane ukuthi akekho obazungezile obonakala sengathi ulalele, wonke umuntu usazokwazi (ngandlela-thile) azi.
Abalaleli Abalingiswa Ngengxenye Ejwayelekile Yokukhula
I-egocentrism enganezinsana iyinxenye evamile yentuthuko, hhayi uphawu lokuthi ingane yakho iyoba ngumlobi wenkolo noma ibe ne-paranoia njengomuntu omdala.
Abacwaningi bawuxhumanisa nendlela ubuchopho buhlela ngayo phakathi neminyaka ephakathi nonyaka osemncane ukuze ube umqondo omdala ovuthiwe. Ukuzwela kwezimo zomphakathi kuyingxenye yalokho kuthuthukiswa kobuchopho nobuntu.
Kungadambisa umzali ukubona ingane yakhe ishintshe ihembe lakhe izikhathi ezinhlanu ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni, futhi iningi lezinqumo ezivela cishe ezifanayo. Kodwa lokhu ukuziphatha kwentsha evamile.
Imibono mayelana nabalaleli abacabangelayo
Leli gama lalabo abalingiswa lanikezwa nguDavid Elkind ephepheni ngo-1967. Wakha i-Imaginary Audience Scale. Umqondo wangena ekusetshenzisweni okujwayelekile ngabachwepheshe bezengqondo. Izibalo zihambisana nokukhathazeka kwezenhlalakahle, umqondo wokuzimela nobuntu kodwa hhayi ngokucabanga okusemthethweni. Ngesikhathi isazi sezengqondo saseSwitzerland uJean Piaget sicabanga ukuthi izilaleli zakhe ziyingxenye yobuntwana, lezi zifundo zathola ukuthi zaqhubeka iminyaka yobudala.
Imiqondo mayelana ne-egocentrism ye-adolescence iqhubeka nokuthuthukisa. Ngesikhathi semithombo yezenhlalakahle, intsha iyabonakala kakhulu emiphumeleni yomuntu siqu kanye nomphakathi yalokho abakwenzayo nendlela ababukeka ngayo. Izilaleli zangaphakathi zingase ziqiniswe izilaleli zangempela ezikhulisiwe kakhulu manje ezikwazi ukufinyelela kuzo.
Imithombo:
U-Elkind D. U-Egocentrism e-Adolescence. Ukuthuthukiswa Kwabantwana. 1967. 38: 1025-1034.
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