Qedela inkulumo ye-sassy ngalezi zeluleko ezilula
Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu amahlanu wokuqeda inkulumo emuva yangaphakathi . Awuzange ucabange lapho ingane yakho ifunda amagama akhe okuqala ukuthi ekugcineni uzosebenzisa lawo mazwi ngokumelene nawe ngolunye usuku. Cishe zonke izinhlangothi zizohlanganyela ekukhulumeni emuva, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kuyamukeleka. Uma i-kati yakho ingakaphenduli isicelo esivela kuwe nge-retort njengokuthi, "Angicabangi ngakho!" Linda.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukugoqa amehlo, isimo sengqondo , kanye namazwi okuhamba nawo kuzoziveza. Uma kwenzeka, nansi okumele ukwenze uma i-interne yakho ingena ku-sass.
Beka Isibonelo Esihle
Kubonakala kucacile, kodwa indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhloniphekayo kusuka phakathi kwakho ukuzifanekisela wena. Uma uthukuthele noma uqhathaniswa, qiniseka ukuthi izenzo zakho namazwi akukuniki. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ngisho nalapho ugxilile futhi ukhathele, uyakwazi ukuphendula ngendlela yomphakathi.
Izingane zibona ukuziphatha okungcolile nokungcolile esikoleni, kuthelevishini, futhi cishe yonke indawo kulezi zinsuku. Phakamisa ukuthi uma abantu beziphatha ngendlela eqinile, noma ngendlela ehlelekile, kubonakala kabi kubo. Ama-sitcom (ngisho nalawo ahloselwe kumakhaya kanye nemindeni) anenkulumo ephindayo ye-sassy, ikakhulukazi kusukela kubalingiswa bezingane. Ingane yakho ingase icabange ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo kuyamangalisa futhi kuhlakaniphile, kodwa udinga ukucacisa ukuthi ukuphila akuyona i-sitcom, nokuthi ulindele ukuthi ingane yakho ilandele imithetho yokuziphatha oyibeke yona.
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Kubalulekile ukuhlala phezulu ekuziphatheni kwethu, ukuze kuvikelwe imikhuba emibi emgwaqweni. Lapho indodakazi yakho ikubona lapho umtshela ukuthi aqale umsebenzi wesikole, noma izimpendulo, "Yebo, ngiqinisile!" uma umcela ukuba asuse ithebula lesidlo, yisikhathi sokwenza. Mtshele ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kukucasula futhi akuhloniphi .
Mcele ukuthi aphinde aphendule impendulo yakhe bese uzama futhi.
Iseluleko esifanayo sisebenza uma izinselelo zakho ziphikisana negunya lakho noma zizama ukusola izimo zakhe kuwe. Isibonelo, uma usola uhlangothi lwakho ngokuhluleka ukususa ithebula lesidlo, angaphendula, "Awungikhumbuzi!" noma "Ngikhohlwe, kungani ungangitshele futhi!" Uma inkulumo ebuyela emuva iba yindlela ekhohlakeleyo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungapheli. Mane uphendule, "Isicelo esisodwa kufanele sikwanele," futhi uqhubeke necebo lakho lesenzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuphoqa umphumela noma ukumcela ukuba abuyisele kabusha amazwi akhe.
Kuzama ukuvumela uhlangothi lwakho lubaleke nokubhekana nesimo sengqondo, ikakhulukazi uma ukhathele. Uma ukhathele into yokugcina oyifunayo ukulwa. Inkinga ukuthi ukukhuluma emuva kuwukuziphatha okusheshayo kuba umkhuba, kanti indlela kuphela yokuvimbela lokho ukuthi kwenzeke ukubhekana nayo, njalo njalo lapho kwenzeka.
Qinisekisa Imiphumela Yengxoxo Emuva
Uma isimo sengqondo sakho se- tween singaguquki emva kwesicelo esivela kuwe, sekuyisikhathi sokuthola kancane kakhulu. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ngeke nje uhlanganyele engxoxweni naye kuze kube yilapho epholile futhi engakwazi ukuxhumana ngokuhlonipha. Mthumele ekamelweni lakhe ukuze uthule phansi, futhi utshele ukuthi akutshele ukuthi usekulungele ukukhuluma.
Uma esesimweni esingcono sengqondo, ngomusa umkhumbuze ukuthi kukhona indlela efanele futhi indlela engafanele yokukhuluma nawe nokuthi ulindele ukuba akhumbule umehluko ngisho nalapho ethukuthele, ekhathele, noma ekhungathekile. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho iqonde ukuthi ufuna ukuzwa lokho akushoyo nokuthi uzizwa ekhululekile ukukhuluma. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuthi angayenza kanjani ngenhlonipho.
Ukuvuza Ukuziphatha Okuhloniphekile
Njengoba nje wenza imiphumela emibi yokuziphatha okungafanele futhi okungcolile, kufanele uhlaziye uhlangothi lwakho lapho ehloniphekile futhi eziphatha ngenhlonipho. Mtshele indlela oziqhenya ngayo lapho ehlonipha wena nabanye, futhi uhlaziye ukuziphatha kwakhe ngesikhathi esithile ndawonye, ukwelapha, noma ngisho nokukhukhuma.
Lapho abanye bekhuluma ngokuziphatha okuhle kwe-pakati, bahlanganyele naye izindaba ngakho uyazi ukuthi abanye bayaqaphela ukuthi uziphatha kanjani emphakathini, nokuthi uphatha kanjani abanye abantu, kuhlanganise nawe.
Yamukela Izinselele, Ngezinye izikhathi
Ngezinye izikhathi i-intermedi ayisho ukungabi namahloni noma inkulumo ebuyela emuva. Ubuchopho be-Tween bukhula ngokushesha, ngakho-ke kukhona okuvezwayo. Ama-tweens anekhono angase abuze imibuzo ehlangabezana nezinselele uma bengenakuhlosiwe ngaleyo ndlela. Isibonelo kungase kube lapho izinselelo zakho eziphakathi kwathisha ngento ethile efunda esikoleni. Siza phakathi kwakho ukuqonda umehluko phakathi kokubuza futhi okunzima. Khombisa ukubaluleka kwezwi lezwi, nangokuphinda imibuzo ngokufanele. Ukudlala indima ukuze ingane yakho iqonde ukuthi kulungile ukubuza, kodwa ukuthi kukhona ikhono elithile elihilelekile ekwenzeni ngokuvumelana nombuso.