Ukuziphatha Kwentsha Yakho

Ukuphila impilo yenjongo

Mayelana nokuthuthukiswa komuntu, inhloso ibhekisela ekwenzeni ukusebenza ngenhloso. Ngamanye amazwi, izinhloso zenzalo kusho ukuziphatha ngenhloso engqondweni nokuthatha izinyathelo zokwenza ukufeza lowo mgomo. Umuntu oyifunayo ufuna ukwenza umehluko esimweni sawo ngandlela-thile, ukuma noma ifomu futhi unokuzithiba ukuthatha isinyathelo esiphikelela kulowo mbiso.

Ukuthuthukisa Ukusebenza

Ubuqotho buvame ukuqala ngaphambi kweminyaka engaphansi, kepha abanye abayishumi nambili bahlala enkambeni yokuthuthukisa izinhloso nokuzithiba . Ukuze kuthuthukiswe izinhloso, umuntu kufanele akholelwe ngokwazi kwakhe, okungahle kukhuthazwe ngokukhulisa abazali . Ngokuma eceleni komntanakho, kunokuba ubenzele izinto, ungabafundisa indlela yokusingatha imigomo yabo kanye nesithakazelo ngaphandle kokudlula. Nazi izindlela ezinhlanu zokuthuthukisa inhloso phakathi kwakho:

1. Banike isikhathi bodwa futhi ungabatshele ukuthi benzeni ngaleso sikhathi. Izingane zidinga isikhathi sokuphuma ngaphandle kwemicabango yazo ngaphandle kokufaka okuvela kwabanye. Vumela isikhathi esihleliwe noma samahhala usuku ngalunye ukuze lusebenze konke emakhanda abo.
2. Setha ukulindela nemingcele, bese uphendula ngemiphumela uma umngcele uphukile, futhi uvuza uma ukulindela kudlulile.
3. Vumela ukuba bahluleke. Ingane yakho idinga ukwazi indlela yokuzilungisa futhi indlela kuphela engayenza ngayo uma ihluleka emsebenzini. Ngokuphinda uqondise amandla akhe ukuqedela lo msebenzi ngendlela efanele, uhlangothi lwakho lufunda ukukhuthazela nokunamathela ku-iveness.
4. Khuthaza ukuzikhulumela okuhle. Umntanakho angeke akwazi ukulawula imicabango yakhe, kodwa njengoba ufundisa kubo ngokusebenzisa isikhuthazo sakho ungabasiza ukuthi bakhulume ngemicabango emibi ngezinto ezinhle. Lokhu nakho kudala ukubekezela futhi kuvumela ukuba phakathi kungabikho phansi.
5. Yiba khona. Ungasho ukuthi ingane yakho yenzani esikhathini esedlule noma yikuphi okushiwo ukuthi ingane yakho ifuna ukwenzani esikhathini esizayo. Yazisa umzuzu futhi ingane yakho izofunda ukwenza okufanayo. Ngokungabuki emuva emuva kobufakazi bekhono lakhe, bangaqhubeka phambili ngaphandle kokungabaza.

Ukufaneleka nokufunda Indlela Yokufunda

Ubuqiniso kubhekwa njengenye yezinto ezibalulekile zokwazi ukufunda; Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ekuphumeleleni kwezemfundo . Ngaphandle kokukwazi ukubeka imigomo, ukulinganisa isikhathi, nokuthuthukisa isiyalo ukuze ubone imisebenzi kuze kube sekupheleni kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungaba nzima kangakanani ukuba yingxenye ebalulekile yokufunda. Ngokusebenzisa inhloso yokufundisa, ufundisa nokuhweba nokuzimela. La makhono ahumusha ukuze avumele ingane yakho noma i-tween ukuba isebenzise ikhono lakhe lokufunda emandleni akhe okudala. Ngokugxila emisebenzini, uhlangothi lwakho lungcono ukuveza futhi ukuqoqa imicabango yakhe ngokuzungezile okuthile okuthandayo. Enye yezinkomba zokuba nebhizinisi nokuphumelela ekusebenzeni kwezemisebenzi ukuhlela imigomo, ukuxoxisana nokulandela. Zonke ezintathu zazo zakhiwa ngokusebenzisa inhloso yokufundisa.

Amagama afanayo : Ukuzimela

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