Kuyini Ukunciphisa Ukubonga?
Ukungasheshi kokuthokozisa kubhekisela ekukhoneni ukuthola umvuzo osheshayo ukuze uthole umvuzo ongcono kamuva. Ingaphakathi lakho lidala ngokwanele ukwazi noma ukuqonda ukuthi ukubambezeleka kokugcoba kungase kube nzima, kodwa ukuthi kunomvuzo ongase ube namandla akhe. Nakhu okumele abazali bazi ngakho ngokubambezeleka kokuthokozisa nokukhula nokukhula kwabo.
Isibonelo sokudambisa ukuthokoza
Ukungasheshi kokuthokozisa kubhekisela ekukhoneni ukuthola umvuzo ukuze uthole umvuzo ongcono kamuva. Ngokwesibonelo, zithi i-interne kufanele isebenze kumsebenzi wokugcina weklasini yezifundo zomphakathi. Abazali bakhe baye bathi uma ehola wonke ama-B no-As ekilasini, bayothatha umfundi wabo ukuba badle isidlo sokudla okuthandayo ukuze badle ndawonye umndeni ndawonye . Kodwa kulobubusuku umbukiso we-TV ozithandayo ukhona futhi umfundi ufuna ukuyibuka. Uyazi ukuthi uma ebukela umbukiso we-TV, iphrojekthi yakhe izohlupheka. Ingabe umfundi uthatha umvuzo osheshayo (ubukele umbukiso) noma ingabe ukhetha ukusebenzela umsebenzi kulobubusuku ukuze athole isidlo esikhathini esizayo? Lona ngumbuzo wekhono lomntanakho lokusingatha ukubambezeleka kokuthokoza.
Esinye isibonelo sokubambezeleka kokugcoba ukuchitha manje noma ukulondoloza ingozi kamuva.
Isibonelo, ingane yakho ingase ifune ibhayisikili elisha. Unayo imali eyanele elondolozwe ukuthenga ibhayisikili engabizi ukuthi akusikho ngempela into ayifunayo. Noma, phakathi kwakho kungaqhubeka nokulondoloza ukuze uthole ibhayisikili abayifunayo ngempela .
Ukunciphisa ukuzithokozisa kuyaqhubeka ngcono kusukela eminyakeni yobuntwana kuze kube sekukhuleni.
Ngokuvamile abantu abavame ukungena ekubambezelekeni kokuthokozela kuze kube sekupheleni kweminyaka eyedlule noma kamuva. Ngamanye amazwi, izingane nezingane ezimbili zidinga isiqondiso sangaphandle sokubasiza ukuba bakhethe kamuva, umvuzo ongcono ngomvuzo omncane, omncane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuqondiswa kwabazali emsebenzini wesikole kanye neminye imisebenzi yokubuyisa ebambezelekile kubalulekile ngesikhathi seminyaka yobudala kanye nengane.
Abazali Bangasiza Kanjani Ukukhuthaza Izingane Ukuba Nciphise Ukuthokoza?
Njengomzali, ungakhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ibambezele ukuzithokozisa ngamathiphu ambalwa alula. Ukuze uqale, usize ingane yakho isebenze emgomweni wayo ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo. Uma i-kati yakho isebenza kumsebenzi omkhulu ngesithembiso sesidlo esihle uma sesiphelile, msize noma ibalazwe lakhe liphume ohlelweni ukuze lifike emgqeni wokugcina. Ungathuthukisa ikhalenda yengane yakho ukuthi ibukeze noma ifake imigomo ebhaliwe futhi ingabuyekezwa. Isikhuthazo sokunikela njengoba i-tween yakho iqhubekela phambili ngokusebenzisa iphrojekthi futhi ishukumise umfundi wakho njengoba esondela futhi esondelene nomgomo.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uyaphumelela kunoma isiphi isithembiso ozenzile phakathi kwakho. Uma uthembise ingane yakho ukuthi uzoya kumabhayisikobho ngemva kokuba ephakamisa ibanga lesibalo, qiniseka ukuthi wenza kahle esithembisweni sakho lapho ingane yakho ifeze umgomo.
Ekugcineni, ingane yakho ekugcineni izofunda ukuthi izinqumo esizenzayo ziza nemiphumela. Ukwehlisa ukuzithokozisa kungasiza uhlangothi lwakho lubeke amasayithi akhe ngezinjongo ezinkulu, futhi usebenze ekufezeni.
Futhi ebizwa ngokuthi: "ukuthokozisa okushiwo" noma "ukubambezeleka kokuthokozisa"