Izinto Ezinhlanu Okufanele Uzicabange Ngaphambi Kokuba Umndeni Ohlanganisiwe
Ukuba umndeni ohlangene kuyisimo esikhulu sokulungisa. Futhi ngenkathi kuningi lokugubha, kubalulekile futhi ukulungiselela izinselele eziningi ozolubhekana nazo njengoba uguqula ukuthi yiyiphi "yakhe" ne "hers" ibe "yethu." Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe ubuhlobo bakho ezingeni elilandelayo ngokuthola eshadile noma ehamba ndawonye, hlola imibuzo elandelayo:
Sizokwenza Kanjani Ubuhlobo Bethu Kubaluleke Kakhulu? - Ikakhulukazi uma ujwayele ukuba yedwa ngosuku noma emakhaya omunye, ukuhlala ndawonye nezingane zakho kuzoba ushintsho.
Ungalindeli uhlobo oluthile lwe "nkinga" ukuba luvele ngaphambi kokuthi unqume ukuhlobanisa ubuhlobo bakho nomngane wakho. Yenza izinhlelo zokuqhubeka nokuthandana noma uhlele isikhathi esithile sokuphumula samasonto onke ukuze ube nesikhathi esedwa wedwa.
Sizosiza kanjani izingane ukuba zilungise? - Izingane zakho zingase zibe nemizwa ehlangene ngokuhlala ndawonye. Ngisho noma bejabule, cishe bayoba nokukhathazeka okukhulu ngokuhlanganyela ngothando lwakho nothando lwakho. Xoxa nomlingani wakho ngokuthi ungabambisana kanjani ndawonye ukuze usize izingane zilungise. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi uzodinga ukunciphisa i-PDA, ngisho nasekhaya lakho, ngenxa yezingane, noma ukuthi udinga ukuhlela isikhathi esisodwa nomntwana ngamunye ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyabathanda futhi uqhubeke unakekele, kuyilapho ukunciphisa ngomona.
Sizosingatha Njani Imali Yethu? - Kungenzeka ukuthi ukushada noma ukuhamba ndawonye kuyoholela ekutheni inani lemali engenayo engaphezulu kuwe nezingane zakho.
Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukunquma ilungelo kusukela ekuqaleni ukuthi uhlela ukwabelana kanjani ngemali yakho nomlingani wakho omusha. Ingabe uzoba ne-akhawunti yokuhlola ehlangene? Ingabe zonke izimali zizokwabiwa, noma ezinye izindleko zizogcinwa zihlukile? Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinqumo mayelana nokusebenzisa imali zingenziwa kanjani? Ingabe uzokwazi ukuzikhethela ukwenza izinqumo egameni lakho kanye nezingane zakho, noma ingabe zonke izinqumo zezimali zizodinga ukuxoxisana ndawonye?
Kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukukhipha lezi zinkinga ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi usebenze ndawonye ukuze unamathele kwisabelomali sokuqhathanisa nyanga zonke okuzophoqelela kokubili ukuba wenze ngokuqondile indlela yakho yokusebenzisa imali.
Siphila Kuphi? - Lona ngenye yezinto zokuqala izingane zakho ezizozibuza, futhi kubalulekile ukucatshangelwa, ikakhulukazi uma wena nomlingani wakho uhlala kude kakhulu. Uma bebonke kuzodinga ukuthi omunye wenu ahambe, xoxani konke okushiwo yizinkampani kanye nokuqeda isinqumo, bese uhlangana ngesivumelwano, ngakho-ke akekho ozozonda omunye ngesinqumo kamuva. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlola izikole endaweni entsha, futhi, futhi ucabange indlela ukuthutha kungathinta kanjani ubuhlobo obuseduze bezingane zakho nomunye umzali. Kwezinye izimo, kungase kudingeke ukuba uhambisane nokugunyazwa izinkantolo, futhi ungalindelwa ukumboza izindleko ezengeziwe zokuthutha ezihambisana nokuvakashelwa kwengane yakho ukubona omunye umzali.
Uhlobo Luni Lomndeni Obolekile Ingabe Sifuna Ukuba? - Ungaba nesithombe esicacile engqondweni yakho ukuthi uthemba kanjani ukuthi izingane zakho kanye nezingane zakho zomlingane zizoxhumana, futhi ngeshwa, leso sithombe singase sibe yi-rosier kakhulu kunenguqulo yangempela-impilo. Hlela phambili ukuthi uzoba nesifiso kanjani ngokuhlakulela ubuhlobo obuhle phakathi kwabantwana bakho.
Lokhu kungase kuhilele ukuhlela ukuphuma komndeni okuvamile, ebusuku ebusuku, noma ubusuku be-movie ndawonye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, zama ukungacindezeli kakhulu izingane zakho. Ubuhlobo obunempilo obusondelene nabantwana bodwa buyathatha isikhathi sokuthuthukisa, nokuvumela izingane zakho ukuba zikwazi ngendlela yabo futhi ngesikhathi sabo kungase zibe nomphumela ojulile, ohlala njalo kunokuba uzame ukuphoqa ukuba bahlangane nokuhamba .