I-"drop and run" syndrome, yilapho abazali bephonsa ingane yabo ekunakekeleni ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuba noma ubani abe nesikhathi sokubona ukuthi bayagula. "Yehlisa futhi ugijimise" kubonakala nakakhulu phakathi nezinkathi zokubandayo nezomkhuhlane kanye nezinye izikhathi zonyaka lapho izingane zikwazi ukuthuthukisa amacala okukhwehlela, ukukhwehlela nomkhuhlane. Kuye kwasetshenziselwa izifo eziningi zobuntwana, njengezigameko ezinzima ze-strep throat kanye nezifo ezinokutheleleka kakhulu ezifana ne-pinkeye.
Yini abahlinzeki bokunakekela izingane abangayenza ukuze bagweme "ukwehla nokugijima"?
Misa inqubomgomo yokugula
Kulula kakhulu ukuxoxa ngezinqubomgomo zokugula kanye nemithetho "engekho" nomzali uma ngabe inqubomgomo isivele isendaweni. Uma ubheka ama- dayceller, uzobuza mayelana nezinqubomgomo . Ukuba nenqubomgomo egulayo esungulwe futhi kudinga abazali ukuba bavume ukuwamukela futhi ukuqonda kubeka abaphathi beziko lokunakekelwa kwesikhungo esimweni sokuqina kokungathathi ingane egulayo. Uma isikole esiseduze sasekhaya singavumeli ingane ukuba ifunde ekilasini kuze kube yilapho ingenakho umkhuhlane futhi ingazange iphonswe isikhathi esithile esikhethiwe (ngokuvamile kuba ngamahora angu-24-48), khona-ke ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana kufanele kubheke imingcele efanayo. Futhi, isikhungo kumele sicabangele impilo yazo zonke izingane.
Abaqeqeshi Abaqeqeshi Okumele bakwenze uma Basolwa Ngesilwane Kugula
Umphathi wokunakekelwa kwezinsuku kufanele acabange ukusebenzisa imithetho evezwe ngokucacile kubazali ukuthi izingane ezigulayo ngeke zivunyelwe kuze kube yilapho kudingwa izimfuneko ezithile.
Kuncike ekuguleni, kunengqondo futhi ukufuna inothi udokotela ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukuya emasontweni futhi kube eduze nezinye izingane.
Kudinga Abasebenzi Ukubingelela Ngayinye Ingane Emnyango
Lesi "hello" sokuqala singasheshe siqaphele umnakekeli oqeqeshwe ukuthi ingane ayikho kahle. Uma izimpawu ezithile ziphawulwe noma ingane ibonakala sengathi i-lethargic noma i-whiny noma ikhombisa ukuziphatha okungafani nokunye, ilungu lomsebenzi kufanele libonise ingxoxo eningi edingekayo.
Buza umzali ngokuqondile imibuzo mayelana nengane nempilo.
Khuluma ne-Sick Kid ngokuqondile
Izingane ezisencane, ngisho nalabo abazizwa kahle, zivame ukukhuluma ngokushesha ngokuthi ziphonse kanjani ubusuku bonke noma zadingeka ukuba zihlambe ukuze zingabishushu. Uma kukhishwa umkhuhlane, cela umzali ukuba alinde ngesikhathi kusetshenzwa izinga lokushisa kwengane.
Lapho Abahlinzeki Kufanele Batshele uNozali Womzali Ukunakekelwa Kwezingane
Abanikezeli kufanele bazimisele ukutshela umzali (ngisho nokukhathazeka) ukuthi ingane yabo egulayo ayikwazi ukwamukelwa ngokunakekelwa uma kukhona izibonakaliso zokugula ezikhona futhi kuthiwa abanye bazovezwa ukugula. Abanakekeli kufanele futhi balungele abazali ukuba bathukuthele noma basongele ukuhoxisa ingane yabo. Abahlinzeki bokunakekelwa kwelanga bayazi ukuthi abazali ngeke balethe ingane yabo ukunakekelwa lapho begula ngaphandle uma bezwa ukuthi abanakho okunye okukhethwa kukho. Ezinye izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwesikhashana zingase zinikeze nokunakekelwa kwezingane ezigulayo, ngokuvamile ngezinga eliphakeme nsuku zonke. Uma abazali benenketho, bangase babonge ngale ndlela. Kodwa ekugcineni, umphathi akufanele azizwe ephoqelelwe ekunakekeleni ingane egulayo, okuzodinga abasebenzi abakhethiwe, ukukhathazeka kwezempilo kanye nesixuku sabazali abathukuthele abangaqondi ukuthi kungani ingane yabo ivulekile ekuguleni okungenasidingo.
Lokhu kungaba umsebenzi onzima kakhulu, kepha ekugcineni, ukuphepha kwezingane ezincane konke okukhona umuntu angavuma ngakho.
Uma ingane itholakele ukuthi iyagula ngenkathi inakekela
Abanikezeli kumele babe nesivumelwano endaweni yepop / amanye amalungiselelo lapho ingane igula. Ngezinye izikhathi, izingane zingahle zibonakale umzuzu owodwa bese zigula ngokulandelayo. Ngokuvamile, izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwamasuku zijwayele izifo zezingane ezingakwazi ukuhamba ngosuku, futhi ukuzimisela kuvame ukuba kwenziwe uma ingane ifuna kuphela i-R & R engeziwe noma umzali kudingeka abizwe. Kodwa abahlinzeki kudingeka futhi babe necebo endaweni lapho bethola ukuthi bayisisulu sehlakalo "sokuwa phansi nokugijima".
Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi uma ingane ibonakala ithule kodwa iningi lilungile emaminithini ambalwa okuqala noma ihora, iqala ukuqala ukushisa futhi, noma ngaphezulu, ukuphonsa noma ukubonisa ezinye izimpawu zangaphandle zokugula. Inqubomgomo esivumelwane kakade kufanele ifakwe, futhi uxhumane nomzali okwenziwe kuqala. Ezinye izakhiwo zidinga abazali bakhokhele isikhathi esengeziwe sabasebenzi kanye nezindleko zokuhlanza ezihambisanayo; abanye banesilinganiso "esiphezulu" esivamile futhi abanye basuke bamane bathathe izindleko zabasebenzi abengeziwe njengengxenye yebhizinisi lokunakekela izingane.
Yini Okufanele Abazali Bakwenze Ukugwema Ukulingwa Kokunakekelwa "Kwehla Nokugijima"?
Akekho umzali onothando ofuna ukubeka ingane egulayo kunoma ubani. Kodwa nakuba kulula ukubona ukuthi izingane eziningi ezigulayo zifuna nje ukulala embhedeni noma mhlawumbe embhedeni ohlala eduze nokubuka izithombe, akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi kumbono womzali osebenzayo. Abazali kumele bahlale benombono wokuthi bazozizwa kanjani uma omunye umndeni uletha ingane enezifo ezithathelwanayo futhi idalula ingane yabo, noma uma umakhelwane evumela izingane ukuba zidlale ndawonye ngemva kwamahora ngemva kokuthola ukuthi unesifo esithathelwanayo. Lokho sekushiwo ukuthi kunezinto abazali abangayenza manje ukunciphisa umuzwa wokungabi "nokukhetha" ngalokho okufanele ukwenze lapho ingane igula.
Thola ukuthi Imithetho Yendawo Yomsebenzi iphathelene Nengane Egulayo
Abantu abadala kufanele bathole lolu lwazi ngaphambi kokuba kudingeke isidingo. Abashadile kufanele baqhathanise amanothi njengokuthi zivumelane nezimo kanye namalungiselelo. Ezinye izinkampani zize zinikeze izinketho zabazali abasebenzayo ezizungezile ukunakekelwa kwezingane ezigulayo noma zinikeze ithuba lokusebenza kusuka ekhaya noma ezinye izinhlelo ezinjalo eziguquguqukayo.
Ucwaningo Noma yiziphi izinketho zokunakekela izingane ezigulayo
Kweminye imiphakathi emikhulu, izibhedlela zendawo kanye nezikhungo ezithile zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku ziyakunakekelwa ukwelashwa. Kodwa-ke, ukukhathazeka kwayo, ukuthi ezimweni eziningi kuyadingeka isaziso esidingekayo, futhi abazali bangathanda "bazi" kusengaphambili lapho ingane yabo ingagula. Cabanga ukuthi kukhona umakhelwane, isihlobo noma omunye umuntu omdala ongase azimisele ukuza futhi ahlale nomntwana ogulayo ngesaziso esifushane. Isihluthulelo ukwazi nokwazi ukuthi ngabe ingane egulayo idinga isikhathi sokuphumula noma ngabe idinga ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha noma isifo esithathelwanayo futhi sithathelwana. Ngezinye izikhathi, zonke izidingo zezinyane ezigulayo zikhululekile futhi ziphuza amanzi futhi zizobuyela emuva zingakapheli isikhathi. Kwezinye izimo, ukutakula kungase kube isikhathi eside noma kuhilele ukwelashwa noma ukuvakashelwa kudokotela.
Gcina Ukunakekelwa Kwezinsuku Ezikwaziswa Ngempilo Yengane Yakho
Uma kunokwenzeka, xhumana nomnakekeli wakho uma ingane yakho iphuma futhi ibonise isizathu. Umhlinzeki angabe esabheka abanye nalesi sifo ukusiza abanye abazali bazi. Ungathemba ukuthi abanye abazali bayakuhlonipha. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ingane yakho yathola ukugula kwakhe komunye umuntu noma kwezinye izindawo ezithathelwanayo.
Hlanganisa Ukuhlanza Kwezandla Ezihlanzekile Namacebo Okugwinya ngaso sonke isikhathi
Abazali kudingeka bathathe izinyathelo ezingeziwe ukuze bazigcine bangena esivumelwaneni sokugula, futhi wonke amalungu omndeni kufanele akhunjuzwe ngokubaluleka kokugeza izandla nokumboza ukukhwehlela. Lokhu kuzogcina ikhaya lakho lingabi isigceme esigulayo ezimweni eziningi.
Yazi ukuthi izingane zizogula
Uma abazali bezolandela nje umthetho othi "ukwenza kwabanye" khona-ke ukusabalala kwemifudlana, u-strep, umkhuhlane, i-pinkeye, isifo sesihlanu, kanye nesifo sezinye izifo kungancishiswa okungenani. Kungakabiphi, wonke umuntu uzobuya esimweni esijabulisayo nesempilo.