I-poll ithi izingane ezingama-43% zenza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya
Kuvamile ukuthi abazali bafune ukusiza izingane zabo ngemisebenzi yabo yesikole , kodwa kukhona umugqa omuhle phakathi kokusiza ingane yakho nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole kubo. Uma wenza ngisho nenani elincane lomsebenzi wesikole ngaphandle kokubaqondisa, wenza isingeniso kumntanakho.
I-Website Ask.com isanda kukhishwa imiphumela yocwaningo lukazwelonke lwabazali abangama-778 abanezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwengu-18 ngomsebenzi wesikole.
Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi amaphesenti angu-43 abazali abavunyelwe ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya. Futhi eNingizimu, amaphesenti angu-87 abazali abavunyelwe ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya. Umbuzo omkhulu kungani?
Othisha babonisa ukuthi abazali bangase benze umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya ngenxa yezizathu eziningi, bephethe amamaki angcono kakhulu. Abazali bavame ukuphuthuma "ukuthatha" amaphrojekthi afaka ucwaningo, ubuciko kanye nokwakha imodeli. Ngenkathi othisha bebahlale bebona umkhiqizo womzali uma kuqhathaniswa nezingane, ngokuvamile kunzima ukufakazela. Kodwa, ibanga elihle noma cha, ingane ihlupheka ekugcineni ngoba engakafundi ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze ngokwenza lo msebenzi kuqala.
Esinye isizathu esicacile sokwenza umsebenzi wesikole somntwana ukungabi nesikhathi sokwenza umsebenzi. Abazali abaningi banabantwana ekunakekelweni kwezinsuku noma ngemuva kokunakekelwa esikoleni kuze kube ngu-6 noma ngo-6: 30 ntambama, bese bekhanda imbuzi emisebenzini yangemva kwalokho ngemuva kwalokho.
Ukudla isidlo ngokuvamile kuvumelana nokuzigijima. Ngesikhathi ingane ifika ekhaya, ikhathele kakhulu ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Esikhundleni sokushintsha isimiso somndeni ukuze unikeze isikhathi esanele somsebenzi wesikole nokuphumuza, abazali abanomqondo omuhle kodwa abazali abangalungile empeleni bazokwenza umsebenzi wesikole wokuthi ingane iphenduke ngosuku olulandelayo.
Lokhu akubonisi nje ukuthi ukukhohlisa okungalungile kumntwana, kodwa futhi kumphika ithuba lokuqonda okuqukethwe okufundiswayo. Ngesikhathi sokuhlola, ulwazi lomntwana (noma ukungabi nalutho) lwezinto ezizobonakala luzovela. Nakuba ukusiza ingane ngomsebenzi wesikole kuyakhuthazwa, ikakhulukazi lowo olwa nesabelo, empeleni ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kuhambe kabi!
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Nazi okutholakala okuyinhloko kusuka kuhlolovo lwe-Ask.com:
- Amaphesenti angu-87 kwabazali eningizimu avumile ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya.
- Amaphesenti angu-43 abazali abavunyelwe ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya.
- Amaphesenti angama-47 abababa emhlabeni wonke enza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya.
- Amaphesenti angu-39 omama ezweni lonke enza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya.
- Amaphesenti angu-38 omsebenzi wesikole owenziwa ngabazali izibalo.
- Amaphesenti angu-28 omsebenzi wesikole owenziwe abazali yiNgisi.
Isikhathi esilandelayo ucabanga ukuthi ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya wakho kusindisa isikhathi sabo nokucindezeleka, cabanga futhi. Hlala nabantwana bakho bese ubahlinzeka ngesiqondiso. Ingane yakho izokubonga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
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