3 Izindlela Zokubhekana Nengane Ekhohlisayo

Uhamba kahle ekufundiseni ingane yakho ukuba umuntu ozimele, bese-ke ngokuzumayo, kwenzeka - omncane wakho uba isiteji sesi-5 se-clinger. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isonto, amaviki amabili noma ngaphezulu, uyazibuza ukuthi kwenzekani ukuze ingane yakho inqabe ukushiya uhlangothi lwakho (noma umemeza njenge-banshee uma kufanele).

Njengoba kuvela, noma kunjalo, izingane zihamba ngezigaba zokubambelela (futhi, ekugcineni, ezinye izingane ziyi-clingier kuphela kunezinye).

Ukwehlisa kungaba uphawu lobuhlobo obuhle - lithi ingane yakho izwa iphephile futhi ikhululekile nawe.

Ukuze ugcine lokho, gwema ukungazinaki, ukudikibala noma ukujezisa ukuziphatha kwe-clingy, ngoba kungaba nemiphumela ehlala njalo ebuhlotsheni bakho. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uhlangabezane nakho konke okufunayo, nakuba lokhu kungenzeka ukuthi yisikhathi sokuthi ukhululeke kakhulu ngalokho okushoyo yebo no-no.

Uma ukunamathela kugxila kakhulu, qiniseka ukuthi cishe isigaba (ikakhulukazi uma singekho ndawo). Yakha izinguquko ezimbalwa kumkhuba wakho futhi cishe unciphisa isifiso somntanakho ukunamathela njengeglue.

Qiniseka

Njengoba kungenzeka usuyazi kakade, izingane zikhula ngokuvumelana nemigomo ; Kodwa-ke, ingane encane ingase ingaqapheli ngempela ukuthi uhlelo lwazo luhlelwe ngosuku lwamatshe nangosuku - ikakhulukazi bahlala okwamanje. Nikeza izikhumbuzo eziqhubekayo mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani ngokulandelayo nokuthi yini ingane yakho ezoyenza kamuva ngosuku.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho izoqonda, yenza ikhalenda ebonakalayo esebenzisa izithombe ukukhombisa umsebenzi ngamunye ohleliwe usuku.

Nikeza izixwayiso lapho kukhona okuzoshintsha. Uma umisa ingane yakho ekunakekeleni kwelanga noma esikoleni, unikeze isixwayiso seminithi emihlanu mayelana nemizuzu emihlanu ngaphambi kokuthi uhlukaniswe.

Bese, ubapha isixwayiso seminithi emibili. Uma sekuyisikhathi sokusho okuhle, qhafaza ukubuyela kwakho emcimbini wokukhonkolo, njengokuthi, "Ngizobuya ngikuthole ngemva kwesikhathi sokulala."

Say Goodbye

Ekhuluma ngokuthi ukuhlehlisa, kunendlela efanele yokwenza futhi indlela engafanele yokwenza uma kuziwa ezinganeni zokunamathela. Nciphisa ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho ngokungabi khona kwakho ngokuhamba "isimiso eside kakhulu:"

Yakha ukuzimela

Yiqiniso, ukuzimela kuyindlela yakho yokugcina , kodwa ingane ezuzisayo izuza ngokubonakala ngokusobala, ngaphandle kwamakhono abo okuzimela. Nika imisebenzi yakho efanelekayo yengane ukuqedela eyedwa, njengokuthatha amathoyizi noma ukubeka itafula.

Nikeza udumo lapho ingane yakho yenza okuthile ngokuzimela, njengokudlala yedwa isikhathi esithile esikhethiwe noma ukusebenzisa indlu yokugezela. Lokhu kuthumela umlayezo kumncanyana akudingeki abambelele kuwe ukuze uphumelele.

Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula futhi ithola ukuzimela, ukunamathela kungase kunciphise.

Eqinisweni, cishe uzolangazelela izinsuku lapho ingane yakho encenga ukuba ihambisane naye!

Kodwa-ke, uma ukhathazekile ngokunciphisa kwengane yakho ngokweqile, futhi kungabonakali kudlula, khuluma nodokotela wakho wezingane ngakho (kanye nomhlinzeki wakho wezinsuku, uthisha wesikole noma omunye umuntu okhonza njengomnakekeli kwengane yakho ). Udokotela angase ancome ukuvakashela isazi sezempilo yengqondo, kanti abanye bangakunikeza kunoma yiziphi izimo ezingase zidale lokhu "Ngidinga wena manje, mame" isimo.