Uma ufuna izingane zakho zibe nesimo sengqondo esihle esikoleni, udinga ukubakhombisa ukuthi uxabisa kangakanani imfundo ekhaya. Enye yamathuluzi aqine kakhulu onayo ekuthuthukiseni isimo sengqondo esihle nokubaluleka kwemfundo yithonya lethu njengomzali.
Ngokubuyekezwa kweminyaka eminingana yocwaningo lwezemfundo ku-"The Broken Compass" lika-Angel Harris noKee Keith Robinson, isimo sengqondo sabazali singenye yezithonya elikhulu kakhulu ekuphumeleleni kwesikole.
Nazi izindlela ezintathu uHarris noRobinson abathola ukuthi ziphumelela ekudaleni isimo sengqondo esifanele esikoleni.
1) Yabelana Ngolwazi Lwakho Lomuntu Ngenzuzo Yezemfundo
Isizathu sokuphumelela kwezemfundo ezinganeni ezingenhla-ezingaphakathi kubangelwa yizingxenye ngoba lezi zingane zihlala emiphakathini lapho zingatshelwa khona kuphela ukubaluleka kwemfundo, futhi ziyabona futhi ziyithole ngesikhathi sokusebenzisana nabantu abadala njengoba kuphethwe ngabacwaningi uHarris Robinson.
Isibonelo, uma izingane zibona noma zizwa abazali bazo nabanye abantu abadala bexoxa izindaba ezivela eminyakeni yabo yekolishi, izingane zithatha umyalezo wokuthi imfundo ibalulekile futhi iyoba yingxenye ejabulisayo yokuphila kwabo abasebasha abadala.
Ngokuthakazelisayo, uHarris noRobinson bathole le nethonya elihle emisebenzini eminye imindeni ebhekwa njengabantu abampofu. Abacwaningi bathole ukuthi imindeni eminingi yase-Asia, kungakhathaliseki isimo sezezimali, izothola izindlela zokukhulumisana ukubaluleka kwemfundo kubantwana babo.
Ngenhlanhla, awuhlali endaweni ecebile noma uchitha izimpelasonto zakho uphonsela odokotela nabameli ukuvumela izingane zakho ukuthi imfundo ingaletha ingane yakho izinzuzo zemali nezenhlalakahle.
Izindlela Zokukwenza Khuluma nengane yakho mayelana nesipiliyoni sakho esikoleni. Bazise ukuthi yini eyasebenza kuwe futhi uma kukhona okungazange kusebenze, yini ongayenza ngokuhlukile.
Ingane yakho izokuzi kangcono futhi izwe ngokuqondile kuwe mayelana nendima yemfundo eye yadlala empilweni yakho. Gcina ingxoxo igxile ekusebenzeni kahle esikoleni kuholela empumelelweni kanye namathuba akhule kamuva ekuphileni.
2) Yiba Nokulindela Okuphakeme Kwengane Yakho Esikoleni
Esinye isinyathelo esiyinhloko sokuphumelela kwesikole ukuthi kulindeleke ukuthi umzali akwenze kanjani esikoleni. Ukuhlaziywa kwe-meta yi-Harvard Family Research Project yemfundo engu-77 yocwaningo lwezemfundo ibonise ukuthi ukulindela okuphezulu kwabazali yiyona ndlela enkulu kunazo zonke yokuphumelela kwabafundi esikoleni.
Lokho okucatshangelwa ukuthi izingane nezingane ziphumelela esikoleni ngoba yilokho abazali babo abalindele ukuba bakwenze. Abacwaningi bachaza ukulindela kwabazali abaningi njengoba bekholelwa ukuthi izingane zizohamba ngaphezu kokuthola idiploma yesikole esiphakeme futhi zifike ekolishi noma eminye imfundo elandelayo.
Lokho Ongakwenza Ukuze ube nokulindela okuphakeme kwengane yakho ukubeka ilindele ukuthi ingane yakho ikwazi ukufunda izinto ezifundiswa esikoleni. Nakuba cishe zonke izingane zihlukumezeka ngesikhathi esikoleni, izinkinga zinganqotshwa ngokuthuthukisa imikhuba emisha noma ukuthola usizo olwengeziwe uma kudingeka.
3) Khombisa i-Mindset yokukhula
Ukucabanga kwengqondo ukukholelwa ukuthi abantu bahlakaniphile futhi baphumelela ngokusebenza kanzima ukuze bafunde.
I-mindset yokukhula iqhathaniswa nomqondo oqondile, lapho umuntu ekholelwa ukuthi abantu bazalwa benamandla futhi ngeke bakwazi ukuguqulwa.
Abantu abanengqondo yokukhula bazofaka isikhathi nokuzikhandla ekufundeni ngoba bayazi ukuthi yilokho okumele kwenziwe ukuze bafunde izinto ezintsha. Abantu abanengqondo ehleliwe kungenzeka bayeke umsebenzi omusha ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi okuncane kungenziwa ukuthuthukisa.
Okungakwenza Ungasiza ingane yakho ukuba nengqondo yokukhula ngokuhlanganyela nabo ukuthi ukujwayela njalo nokuzikhandla kuyoholela ekuzuzeni ulwazi nolwazi. Gwema ukutshela ingane yakho ukuthi ayikho into ethile, njengezibalo.
Kunalokho, khuluma nabo mayelana nokuthi yiziphi izenzo ezithathayo ukuze uthuthuke. Khumbula, ukucabanga kwengqondo ukugxila ekugxilweni komuntu ukuthi kugxile kanjani umzamo nezenzo ezenza kube yimpumelelo.
Ezinye Izinhloso Zokugcina Ekuboniseni Ingane Yakho Indlela Yokuthola Isimo Sengqondo Esihle Sesikole
Indlela imibono engenhla ithonya ngayo umbono wengane yakho ngukubonakaliswa kwakho kwamagugu. Lezi zindinganiso zivela lapho ukhuluma nengane yakho ngesikole futhi uzibandakanye emfundweni yabo .
Abazali banezindlela ezihlukahlukene ezithathayo ezibonisa isimo sengqondo nezindinganiso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi leso senzo silandela umsebenzi wesikole noma sizama ukusiza ingane yakho uma silwa , isimo sengqondo esihle, esingakwenza kungaba usizo mayelana nesimo sengqondo esibi, sokuhlulela. Lokhu kusebenza endleleni okhuluma ngayo nengane yakho, kodwa futhi nokuthi ukhuluma kanjani ngothisha wengane yakho phambi kwengane yakho.
Uma ukhungathekile nganoma yini eyenzeka esikoleni somntanakho, thola indlela enhle yokubhekana nale nkinga. Othisha banomatasa kakhulu, imisebenzi evame ukucindezeleka esebenza nezingane ezihlukahlukene ngezidingo ezahlukene. Ngisho nabafundisi abangcono kakhulu benza amaphutha ngezinye izikhathi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi into ethile esikoleni somntanakho ishintshe, thola isikhathi sokuthula ngokukhululeka uthisha uthisha wengane yakho ukuze ufunde kabanzi nokuthi yini engenziwa.
> Harris, Angel L., noKeith Robinson. I-Compass Broken: Ukubandakanya Kwabazali Nezemfundo Yezingane . Np: Harvard U Press, 2014. Print.
> Jeynes, uWilliam. Ukubandakanya kwabazali nokuphumelela kwabafundi: Ukuhlaziywa kwe-Meta / Ukubheka i-Publications yethu / Izincwadi Nezinsiza / i-HFRP - I-Harvard Family Research Project. " Ukubandakanya kwabazali nokuphumelela kwabafundi: Ukuhlaziywa kwe-Meta / Ukuqapha / Ukudlulisa amehlo kwi-Publications yethu / Izincwadi Nezinsiza / HFRP - I-Harvard Family Research Project. I-Harvard Family Research Project, ngoDisemba 2005. Iwebhu. 29 Septemba 2016.