Funda indlela yokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa uma kuhilela uthisha wengane yakho
Iningi lothisha ingane yakho eyohlangana nalo lihle kulokho abakwenzayo. Eqinisweni, othisha abaningi baya ngaphezu kwalokho okulindelwe. Kodwa, kukhona othisha abangaphathi imisebenzi yabo; futhi ngisho nabanye othisha abaxhaphaza abafundi babo. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa izinqubo ezifanele zokuziphatha noma amasu okuphatha amakilasi asebenza kahle, basebenzisa amandla abo ukulahla, ukuxhaphaza noma ukuhlekisa abafundi.
Lapho ukuhlukunyezwa kungokomzimba, abazali abaningi abanqikazi ukubika izigameko. Kodwa, lapho ukuhlukunyezwa kungokomzwelo noma kuzwakalisa amazwi, abazali abaqiniseki ukuthi benzeni. Besaba ukwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu ezinganeni zabo. Nakuba lokhu kukhathazeka kusebenza, akukaze kube umqondo omuhle ukunganaki ukuxhashazwa. Nazi imibono eyishumi yokubhekana nalolu daba.
Dokisa zonke izigameko zokuxhaphaza.
Qopha konke okwenzekayo kufaka phakathi izinsuku, izikhathi, ubufakazi, izenzo, nemiphumela. Ngokwesibonelo, uma uthisha ehlambalaza ingane yakho phambi kwekilasi qiniseka ukubhala phansi usuku, isikhathi, okushiwoyo nokuthi yiziphi abafundi ababengaba khona. Uma abanye abafundi behlanganyela ekuhlukunyezweni ngenxa yezenzo zothisha, qinisekisa ukufaka lolo lwazi. Futhi uma kukhona ukuxhashazwa ngokomzimba , ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying noma ukuhlukunyezwa okusekelwe kubuhlanga noma ukukhubazeka, kubika lokhu emaphoyiseni akho wendawo ngokushesha. Kuye endaweni ohlala kuyo, lezi zinhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa zivame ubugebengu.
Qinisekisa futhi usekele ingane yakho.
Khuluma nengane yakho ngesikole nokuthi kwenzekani. Khumbula, okubalulekile kuqala ukusiza ingane yakho. Unganqikazi ukuxhuma nomeluleki. Futhi, ingane yakho ihlolwe udokotela wezingane ukuhlola izibonakaliso zokucindezeleka, izinkinga zokukhathazeka nezinkinga zokulala.
Buka izibonakaliso zokuxhashazwa futhi ukhumbule ukuthi izingane ngokuvamile azibiki ukuziphatha okuxhashazayo .
Yakha ukuzihlonipha kwengane yakho.
Siza ingane yakho ibone amandla akhe. Mkhuthaze ukuba agxile ezintweni ngaphandle kokuxhashazwa njengomsebenzi ozithandayo noma izinto ezithandwayo. Ungasichitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ukhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa. Ukwenza kanjalo, kugcina ingane yakho igxilile ekubikeni kokuphila kwakhe. Kunalokho, kumsize abone ukuthi kunezinye izinto ekuphileni ukuze ujabule ngazo. Lokhu kuzosiza ukwakha ukuqina .
Khuluma nengane yakho kuqala ngaphambi kokuzama ukuxazulula inkinga.
Akukaze kube nomqondo omuhle ukuba nomhlangano uthisha noma uthisha oyinhloko ngaphandle kokutshela ingane yakho. Ungase uhlazeke ingane yakho uma ezwa ngesimo emva kweqiniso. Ukwengeza, ingane yakho idinga ukulungiswa ngokomzwelo uma umhlangano ungahambi kahle futhi uthisha aphindiselele.
Landela uchungechunge lomyalo.
Khumbula, osondelene naye kunenkinga, cishe uzokwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo esisheshayo, esisebenzayo. Uma uya ngqo phezulu, cishe uzocelwa ukuthi ubani okhulume ngaye ngesimo nokuthi yini oyenzile yokulungisa lesi simo. Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi usuphelile wonke amathuba wokuxazulula le nkinga kumazinga aphansi kuqala.
Ukwengeza, uma unemibhalo kusuka ekusebenzisaneni kwakho, kuyoba nzima ukungazinaki lokho okushoyo uma ufika phezulu.
Cabanga ngokucela umhlangano uthisha.
Ngokuya ngobukhulu nobukhulu bokuxhashazwa , ungase ufune ukuya ngqo kumfundisi. Izikhathi eziningi, umhlangano wothisha uzoxazulula inkinga uma uthatha indlela yokubambisana lapho uxoxa ngesimo. Zama ukugcina ingqondo evulekile futhi ulalele umbono womfundisi. Gwema ukumemeza, ukusola, ukusola nokusongela ukusola.
Veza ukukhathazeka kwakho kodwa uvumele abanye ukuthi bahlanganyele engxoxweni.
Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane yakho ibonakala isaba ekilasini, khuluma leli qiniso.
Bese ubuza uthisha lokho acabanga ukuthi kungenzeka. Lesi sinyathelo sivumela uthisha ukuba akhulume ngalokho akubonayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, cishe ngeke avikeleke uma uvulekile ukuzwa umbono wakhe.
Thatha isikhalazo sakho esiphakeme uma isimo singaphuthuki noma ukuxhashazwa kunzima ngokwemvelo.
Ngesinye isikhathi othisha bayolinganisa ukuziphatha kwabo, basolise umfundi noma benqabe ukuvuma noma yikuphi ukungahambi kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuxhashazwa kuyingozi kakhulu ukukhuluma ngothisha ngokuqondile. Uma kunjalo, cela ukuhlangabezana nomphathi oyinhloko. Yabelana ngamadokhumenti wakho bese uxoxisana nokukhathazeka kwakho. Ungase futhi ucele ukudlulisa ekilasini kuleli phuzu. Akuzona zonke izikhulu ezizohlonipha lezo zicelo, kodwa abanye benza.
Qhubeka ukukhuphula umzila womyalo uma ungatholi imiphumela.
Ngeshwa, ezinye izikhulu zizovumela othisha abahlukumezayo ukuba bahambe bangaboni noma baphike ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwenzeka. Uma kunjalo, yisikhathi sokufaka isikhalazo esisemthethweni kumphathi noma ibhodi yesikole. Gcina amarekhodi amahle akho konke okuxhumana kwakho kufaka phakathi ama-e-mail, izincwadi, kanye nemibhalo yamakholi wefoni.
Ungavumeli ukuhlukunyezwa kuqhubeke ngokungapheli.
Uma uthishanhloko, u-superintendent noma ibhodi lesikole ehudula izinyawo zabo ekuphenduleni, bese ucabangela ukuthola iseluleko sezomthetho. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, uphenye ezinye izinketho ezinganeni yakho njengokudluliselwa kwesinye isikole, isikole samabanga aphansi, izinhlelo zasemakhaya kanye nezinhlelo ze-intanethi. Ukushiya ingane yakho esimweni sokuhlukunyezwa kungaba nemiphumela emibi. Qiniseka ukuthi wenza yonke imizamo yokuqeda ukuxhashazwa noma ukususa ingane yakho esimweni. Ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi ukuxhaphazwa kuzophela ngaphandle kokungenelela.