Izindlela Zokuqondisa Ukuphendula Ukushaya
Ukuthola ukushaywa ngumntanakho kungabangela ukukhathazeka, ukuhlazeka nokuthukuthela. Futhi kubazali abathile, kuletha umuzwa wokuhlazeka nokuphelelwa yisikhathi.
Abazali abaningi bakhathazeka ngokuthi ukuhlukumeza kwengane yabo kubhekisela ekutheni bahluleka njengabazali. Abanye banamahloni kakhulu ukucela usizo.
Kodwa cishe zonke izingane zishaya ngesikhathi esisodwa. Indlela ophendula ngayo ukushaya izoba nomthelela ukuthi ingane yakho ingabe ishaywa kanjani futhi.
Izizathu ze-Kids Hit
Kunezizathu eziningana zokuthi kungani izingane zishaya abazali bazo. Ngezinye izikhathi baxosha lapho bethukuthele ngoba bengaqiniseki ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nemizwa yabo ngendlela eyamukelekayo emphakathini.
Ezinye izingane ziyashaya ngoba zingenaso ukulawula ukucindezela . Bashaya ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemiphumela noma ezinye izindlela zokwenza izidingo zabo zihlangane.
Ukushaya kungasetshenziswa njengethuluzi lokuxhaphaza. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zishaya ngomzamo wokuthola indlela yazo. Ingane eshaya unina lapho ethi ayikho ingase ithemba ukuthi ulaka lwakhe luzoshintsha ingqondo yakhe.
Misa imithetho mayelana nokushaya
Yakha imithetho yasekhaya ekhuluma ngenhlonipho. Yenza kucace ukuthi ukushaya, ukukhahlela, ukulimaza, noma izenzo zokuhlukumeza ngokomzimba akuvunyelwe ekhaya lakho.
Hlela imithetho yakho ngendlela enhle uma kunokwenzeka. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Ungashayi," tshela, "Sebenzisa okuthinta inhlonipho." Khuluma nengane yakho mayelana nemithetho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyaqonda imiphumela yokuphula imithetho.
Fundisa Ingane Yakho Ukuziphatha Okufanele
Akwanele ukutshela izingane ukuthi, "Ungashayi." Fundisa amakhono akho okuphatha intukuthelo yengane . Khuthaza ingane yakho ukufunda incwadi, udwebe isithombe, uthathe umoya ojulile, noma ungene ekamelweni lakhe lapho ezwa intukuthelo.
Fundisa ingane yakho ngemizwa , njengokudabuka nokukhungatheka.
Xoxa ngokubaluleka kokubhekana nalezi zindlela ngezindlela ezifanele futhi usize ingane yakho ithole amasu ayamsiza ukuba abhekane nemizwelo yakhe ngokuphepha.
Uma ingane yakho ikushaya, tshela ngokuqinile, "Ungabulali. Ukushaya kuyabuhlungu. "Gcina imiyalezo yakho ihambisana nokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ukushaya akuvumelekile futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuyibekezelela.
Nikeza Imiphumela Ecacile Yokushaya
Nikeza umphumela ocacile isikhathi ngasinye lapho ekushaya. Bheka imiphumela engamvimba ukuthi angabe eshaya futhi.
Kwabanye abantwana, ukuphuma kwesikhathi kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokubavimbela ekushaya futhi. Isikhathi sokufunda sifundisa izingane ukuthi zizoziqeda kanjani futhi zisuse emvelweni.
Ezinye izingane zingadinga imiphumela eyengeziwe. Ukuthatha amalungelo kungaba yindlela eqondile yokuqondisa . Vimbela ukufinyelela kwengane yakho kuma-electronics noma amathoyizi athile amahora angu-24.
Ukubuyisela kungasiza futhi. Yenza ingane yakho ikwenze umsebenzi owengeziwe noma yenza ukuthi ikudwebe isithombe njengesindlela sokulungisa.
Uma ingane yakho ikushaya kaningi, lungisa inkinga ngesistimu yomvuzo . Mvuza ingane yakho ngokusebenzisa "ukuthinta ngokunene." Gwema usuku kuze kube izikhathi eziningana lapho angathola khona izitika noma amathokheni okuziphatha okuhle.
Dumisani ingane yakho kaningi lapho esebenzisa ngokuthinta ngomoya omnene. Uma ekugcoba, yenza iphuzu ukumtshela ukuthi uthanda kangakanani ukuthinta okuhle njengokuthinta. Uma ephendula ngokufanele uma umtshela, chaza imizamo yakhe.
Gwema ukujeziswa
Uma usebenzisa i-spanking njengesijeziso, ingane yakho izodideka ngokuthi kungani uvunyelwe ukushaya futhi akekho. Izingane zifunde kabanzi mayelana nokuziphatha okuvela kulokho abakubona ukwenzayo, kunalokho okukuzwayo okukushoyo.
Ukuziphatha ngendlela ehloniphekile yokuziphatha . Bonisa ingane yakho indlela yokubhekana nentukuthelo, ukudabuka nokudumazeka ezindleleni ezifanele zomphakathi.
Funa usizo lobuchwepheshe
Uma unomntwana osekhulile okushaya, noma unomkhuhlane osencane noma oneminyaka eyishumi nambili, funa usizo lochwepheshe .
Khuluma nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho mayelana nokukhathazeka kwakho. Udokotela wakho wezingane angase abhekise ingane yakho ukuze kuhlolwe ukusiza ukucacisa imbangela yokuhlukumezeka kanye nesicwangciso sokubhekana nayo.
Ngezinye izikhathi izimpikiswano ezingezansi zingabangela ukuhlukunyezwa ezinganeni . Isibonelo, izingane ezine- ADHD noma ukuphikisana nokuphikisa okungenakuphikisa kungenzeka zithinte. Ngezinye izikhathi, izingane ezinokulibaziseka kwengqondo noma yentuthuko zingabanjwa ngoba zingenalo ikhono lokusebenzisa amagama azo noma ukuphatha izifiso zabo.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry: Ukuziphatha Okuhlukumezayo Kubantwana Nezingane Ezitholakalayo.
> I-American Academy of Pediatrics: Ingane enolaka.
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuziphatha Okucindezelayo