Ngisho no-freshman othakazelisayo kakhulu futhi othakazelisayo ekolishi uzokwazi ukuhlala ekhaya ngesikhathi sezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala ekolishi. Amasonto okuholela ekushiyeni ekhaya nokuqala ekolishi agcwele ukupakisha, ukuthenga, ukukhuluma kahle nokucabanga bonke abantu abasha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuzayo. Uma ukungena kuphelile futhi abazali baye bathi ukuhlukana kwabo, iqiniso lokuthi ushintsho olukhulu olusanda kuqalisa lusetha ngokushesha.
Ukuhlala phakathi kwabantu abangabazi endaweni entsha, engazijwayele ngaphandle kwamathrekhi athile ajwayelekile ekhaya kungaba nzima kwabanye.
Kucatshangwa ukuthi abafundi abangu-20% basekolishi bazolinganisa ngokwabo emkhatsini wobunzima bokugula ekhaya ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kulabo abazwa ukugula ekhaya ngokweqile, ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka kungakhula.
"Ephephapheni elibhaliwe nguChris Thurber no-Edward Walton enyatheliswa ku-Pediatrics, iphephandaba le-American Academy of Pediatrics, ukukhulelwa ekhaya kuchazwa ngokuthi 'ukucindezeleka nokukhubazeka okusebenzayo okubangelwa ukuhlukaniswa kwangempela noma okulindelwe kusuka ezintweni ezifakwe ekhaya nokunamathiselwe njengabazali . ' Labo ababhekene nalesi simo bazizwa bekhona uhlobo lokukhathazeka, ukudabuka nokwesaba, futhi ngokucacile, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngemicabango yasekhaya, kusho uTherber. " - CNN.com
Ngenhlanhla, izinkinga eziningi zokukhulelwa ekhaya ziba mnene kunokuba zichazwe lapha, kodwa ukugula ekhaya kungabangela ubuhlungu njenganoma yisiphi isifo somzimba.
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Hlala ekhaya. Abazali bazozwa ubuhlungu babo abasebasha asebekhulile bezwa ngokuzwa izwi labo noma babone ubuso babo nge Skype noma FaceTime. Kuzama ukuthumela ekhaya ithikithi lendiza noma ukujula emotweni ukuvakashela, kodwa lokho akuyona into engcono kakhulu.
Ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ivumelane nemvelo yakhe entsha ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa kokuvakashelwa kuwe indlela yokuhamba, nakuba kungabangela wena nomntanakho izinyembezi ezimbalwa.
Khuthaza umuntfu omdala osemusha ukuba abe nobungane wonke amathuba athola. Vula ukuxoxa nomaphi lapho ehamba khona, kusukela emahholo okufundisa kuya ezitolo zekhofi. Kunzima ukuthola i-hang yokuhlangana nabantu abasha, ikakhulukazi uma ekhulile edolobheni elifanayo futhi wazi abantu abafanayo konke ukuphila kwakhe, kodwa ukuzibeka ngaphandle yindlela kuphela yokuxhumana nabanye.
Melana nesilingo sokuthi uhlale ubize noma uthumele umfundi wakho ekolishi. Ezimweni eziningi, akukhozindaba ezinhle izindaba ezinhle, futhi njengoba izimpilo zabo ziqala ukugcwalisa imisebenzi kanye nabantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo, abafundi bazoxhumana nabazali nabangane basuka ekhaya kancane kancane.
Thumela iphakheji lokunakekela noma amabili. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthumele izinto ezijabulisayo, ezithandekayo, njengesikhwama esikhulu se-popcorn noma amakhukhi ayenziwe. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi inikeze abantu abahlala nabo kanye nabanye ekudleni. Akungabazeki ukuthi ubani ozokwehlisa ukunikezwa kokwelashwa ekhaya, futhi kuyindlela enhle yokuphula i-ice.
Gcina kukhanya. Ungatshele muntu omdala osekhaya ukuthi kunzima kangakanani kuwe, futhi. Ungamenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi ikhaya alifani naye ngaphandle, noma ukuthi inhliziyo yakho iphuka njalo lapho uhamba ngekamelo lakhe elingenalutho.
Mane uvume imizwa yakhe futhi umlalele. Uzobona ukungazwakali kwakho ngokusuka ekhaya uma ungaqapheli, ngakho khetha amagama akho ngokuhlakanipha.
Zama izinto eziningi . Ukuthola indawo yokuzizwa ekhaya ekhaya elikhulu (noma elincane) ekolishi akuyona umsebenzi olula. Uma umfundi wakho ehluleka ukulingana naye, khombisa ukujoyina umsebenzi wangaphakathi noma iqembu. Nakuba lokhu kungase kubonakale kuvelele kuwe, abaningi abasha basaba kakhulu ngokusondela emaqenjini asekelwe futhi bajoyine. Buza ngomfundi wakho ngesineke kodwa ngokuqinile ukuthi abelane nawe amaqembu kanye nemisebenzi esekufundeni, futhi umsize ukuba akhethe abambalwa ukuze bahlole.
Volunteer. Ayikho ikhambi elingcono lokuzwa okwesibhakabhaka kunokusiza omunye umuntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isebenza nezilwane, ukunakekelwa kwezingane, noma ukuvakashela izakhamuzi eziphakeme ekusizeni ukuze kukhanye usuku lwabo, ukubuyisela emphakathini kungasiza kakhulu.
Bheka ukululekwa kwi-campus. Uma ukugula ekhaya nokungajabuli kuqhubeka, thola mayelana nokululekwa kwe-campus kumfundi wakho. Amakholeji amaningi namanyuvesi ahlomiselwe kahle ukubhekana nezinselele zomzwelo zonyaka omusha, futhi banikele ngokusekela ngokubodwa ngezinsiza zabo zezempilo.