Isikhathi sokushiya isidleke ... futhi
Abantu abadala nezinkulungwane zeminyaka babuyela ekhaya bazohlala nabazali babo ezinombhalweni. Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu, kodwa ngokusho kwePew Research, isizathu esivame kakhulu salokhu kubuyela esidlekeni semindeni yilokho abantu abasha abakhipha umshado kuze kube nini nanini ngaphambili.
Ukudlulela emuva ngo-1880, inhlangano evamile kakhulu yokuphila phakathi kwabantu abasha iye yahlala nomlingani othandana naye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyishade naye noma enye into ebalulekile. Lolu hlobo lwelungiselelo lwaqala cishe ngo-1960, lapho abantu abangamaphesenti angama-62 abantu abaneminyaka engu-18 kuya ku-34 ubudala behlala nomlingani noma umlingani endlini yabo, futhi kuphela umuntu oyedwa kwabahlanu abahlala nabazali bakhe. - Pew Research
Ikhaya Labo?
Izindleko zezindlu ngenye into yokuthumela abantu abasebasha ukuba babuyele emakamelweni okulala asebuntwaneni noma ezindlini zokuhlala ezingaphansi komzali. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bakhetha ukuqhubeka nemfundo yabo, abatholi imali eyanele yokuhlala bodwa, noma basindisa ngokwanele ikhaya labo, izimali zidlala indima enkulu kubantu abadala abakhetha ukuhlala nabazali babo eminyakeni engama-20 noma ngisho amanye amacala angu-30. Uma uhlangabezana nokuhlala nabantu ohlala nabo futhi wabelana ngendawo yokuhlala nabantu abangabazi noma abangazinakekeli kakhulu, izinkulungwane zeminyaka zikhetha induduzo nokuphepha kokuhlala nabazali babo.
Akunandaba Nothando
Izinkulungwane zeminyaka zinezocansi kakhulu kunama-Gen-Xers noma ama-Boomers. Ukungabi nesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni obuseduze kungabonakala ukuthi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukucindezelwa ukuba baphumelele emisebenzini yabo, ukwesaba ukulimala ngokomzwelo, ukwanda kokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, okungathinta i-libido, nokuhlangenwe nakho okungahambi kahle kumahlelo wokuphola.
Esikhundleni sokuchitha isikhathi namandla abo befuna uthando, izinkulungwane zeminyaka zigxila empilweni yabo, emisebenzini yabo, nasezihlotsheni zabo.
Kuyinto elula kakhulu
Ukuhlala nomndeni kunokuba kube ngokwakho kulula kakhulu kuminyaka eyizinkulungwane zeminyaka, okunye okunye okungakwenza bangakhetha ukungabikho esihlahleni.
Imithwalo yemisebenzi yansuku zonke efana nezitolo zokuthenga, ukuhlanza indlu, ukupheka nokunye okuningi kuvame ukunakekelwa abazali ngokuzenzakalelayo, ukunikeza abantu abasebasha isikhathi esiningi esikhululekile kanye nezindleko ezingaphansi kwezimali. Uma sebebuyele ekhaya futhi bathole ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuba yingxenye yomndeni, ukudla kanye nokugezela okuhlanzekile, kungase kube nzima ukuphuma noma nini nanini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sabo sezimali singaba kanjani.
Lokho Abazali Abangakwenza Ukukhuthaza Abantwana Babo Abasha Ukuba Bahambe
Ucabanga ukuthi umuntu omdala osemusha wenza impilo ehle futhi angazinakekela, abazali bangakukhuthaza kanjani-ngisho nokuphikelela-ukuthi izingane zabo ziphume ekhaya? Kulaba bazali, amacebo asters angenalutho noma abahlala emakhaya bangafakwa emshini wokushisa emuva, kuhlanganise nokuthengisa ikhaya elikhulu ukuze lihlehlise futhi liqhubekele esigabeni esilandelayo sempilo yabo.
Asikho isizathu sokuba abazali kufanele bagweme ukubuza izingane zabo ezincane ukuba zibe nomkhawulo wesikhathi kanye necebo lesinyathelo esilandelayo ekuphileni kwabo. Uma abantu abasha bebonakala bengenqikazi ukwenza usuku noma isimiso, abazali kufanele baziqaphele ukuchaza ukuthi balindelwe yini kanye nezidingo zezingane zabo ukuthola ikhaya labo.
- Uma abazali beqoqa ukuqasha, yeka ukuyisebenzisa izindleko zendlu bese uqala ukuyifaka kwi-akhawunti yokulondoloza ngokushesha. Le mali ingasetshenziselwa ukuthola izingane zabo ezincane zihlelwe endlini entsha noma ukukhokha phansi ekhaya, kuye ngokuthi izindleko.
- Yeka ukunakekela izingane ezincane. Ukuphikelela ukuthi bapheka ukudla okumbalwa ngesonto, ukuhlanza umndeni, ukuhlanza indlu yokugezela noma ukuguqula utshani. Esikhundleni salo uzizwa njengendlela yokuhamba mahhala, yenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuhlala ubeka.
- Uma ubheka ukuthengisa ikhaya lakho nokuncipha, thola kuhlu. Akukho okuzoshukumisa umdala wakho omusha ngaphezu kokubona isibonakaliso "sokuthengisa" phambi kwendlu yakho. Chaza ngobumnene ukuthi uyaqhubeka nokuphila kwakho futhi yisikhathi sokuba aqhubekele naye, naye.