Njengoba sezikhulile izingane ezizimele, ngisho nokukhulisa imindeni yazo, ingumthombo wokuziqhenya nokufezeka kwabazali. Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo emndenini wase-US ukuthi izingane ziqaliswe ngempumelelo emhlabeni wonke, kusale abazali bahlale esihlahleni sabo esingenalutho baphumule futhi bajabulele inkululeko emithwalweni eminingi abayitholile ngemva kweminyaka yokubeletha.
Yiqiniso kuyilapho iningi labantu baseMelika lihlala eduze nabazali babo lapho behamba ekhaya, kusenabantu abaningi abasha abatsha izimpande kude nalapho abazali babo behlala khona. Abaningi bahlala edolobheni lapho beya khona ekolishi, bakhuphukele emadolobheni abazayo abanezindlu ezingabizi noma balandele intombi noma isoka lapho bekhetha ukuqala khona ukuphila kwabo. Njengoba ukuphila kwentsha yabantu abadala kukhula futhi kuguquka, kuhlanganise nomshado nomndeni, abazali bangase bacabangele ukuhlala emsebenzini noma ukuthuthela endaweni yabo ukuze basondele izingane zabo ezincane ezindala.
Ingabe lowo mqondo omuhle?
Ingabe Abazali Kufanele Bahambisane Nezingane Zabo?
Abazali kufanele bacabange ngokucophelela ngokuzulazula bona bathuthele ukuba basondelane nezingane zabo. Kuzwakala njengokukhetha okuhle ekucatshangweni kokuqala, kodwa izici eziningi kufanele zicatshangelwe ngaphambi kokufika esiphethweni.
Into yokuqala okuzoxoxwa ngayo yikhwalithi yokuphila.
Isimo sezulu yisici esikhulu. Uma uphile impilo yakho yonke indawo efudumele-sezulu, ukuthuthela endaweni ebandayo noma emvula angeke kube yinkinga yempilo kuphela kodwa futhi kunzima ngokomzwelo.
Ngokufanayo, uma uthanda izinkathi ezine zezinkathi kanye nokwahlukana kwamaqanda abandayo ngokushisa okushisayo, ukuhlala lapho ilanga nokufudumala isikhathi esiningi kungase kubangele.
Uphi ingane yakho esekhulile ekhona? Uma uthanda ukuhamba, ujabulele indawo yaseshashalazini, impilo yomuzi futhi ube matasa futhi usebenza, ukuhlala edolobhaneni elisemadolobheni kude nomgwaqo kunganciphisa ongakhetha kukho.
Hlola ukubona ukuthi kukhona yini imisebenzi yomhlalaphansi emphakathini - mhlawumbe amathuba okuvolontiya , amaqembu omphakathi, noma izinhlangano zamasiko - lapho ungagcina ingqondo nomzimba wakho ukhuthazwe futhi uvuselelwe.
Ukuthola abangane akulula. Uma usenhlalakahle kakhulu, ukuhamba kude nomngane wakho wabangane nabantu obaziyo kungaba nzima kakhulu. Ngenkathi kungenakwenzeka, kungaba yinselele ukwenza ubungane obusha nabangenalutho edolobheni elingaziwa uma uhlala umhlalaphansi, ikakhulukazi uma wakhela impilo yakho eduze nezingane zakho nabazukulu. Enye ye-caveat yilapho ukhetha ukuthuthela emphakathini wokuthatha umhlalaphansi, okwenza kube lula ukuxhumana.
Iyini Indima Yakho Eyoba Emndenini?
Ingabe uzoba umsizi? Ukuchitha isikhathi nabazukulu kufanele kube mnandi, hhayi umthwalo wemfanelo. Ngenkathi imindeni ethile ithembele kunogogo nomkhulu ukukhathalela izingane zabo ngenxa yezinkinga zemali nokuntuleka kwezingane ezinempilo, ugogo nomkhulu kufanele bajabule isikhathi esinikezelayo ukunakekela abazukulu babo futhi bangakhulumi ukuzethemba izingane zabo.
Umlingani wengane yakho uzizwa kanjani? Ngenkathi ingane yakho esekhulile ingase ijabulise ukuthi ube eduze nawe futhi uyakwazi ukuyeka ukuvakashelwa njalo, oshade naye angase angajabuli ngempela.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlale uqaphile emasignali akhombisa ukuthi ungase ukwedlula ngokwakho ukwamukela uma usushukumisela ukuba usondelane nomndeni wakho. Awufuni ukuba umthwalo kunokuba isibusiso.
Ungakuzuzisa Kanjani?
Ukusekelwa okuseduze . Uma ulwa nesifo esingapheli noma unokukhubazeka, ukuba nezingane ezikhulile ngaphakathi kokushayela ibanga kungaba usizo olukhulu. Nakuba mhlawumbe ungafuni ukucela izingane zakho eziningi ezikhulile, ezimweni ezinzima wena-kanye nezingane zakho - zizokujabula ngokuthi usondelene. Ukuthola enye indlebe ekuqeshweni kukadokotela, ekusizeni ekulawuleni izimali, ngisho nje ukwazi ukuthi basuke befonele ucingo nje - lezi zinto zingaduduza kakhulu labo abangenalo impilo engcono kakhulu.
Jabulela umndeni wakho! Kukhona okuningi okumele kuthiwe ngokungahambi ngezimoto noma indiza amabanga amade ukuba ube nalabo obathandayo kakhulu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukusondelana nezingane zakho nabazukulu kungaba yinto nje oyidingayo ukuhlala ugcwalisekile.
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