Umsizi womama ungumuntu osiza umzali noma umndeni odinga ukondliwa okungaphezulu nezingane zabo ngenkathi umzali esekhaya. Le nkulumo ivame ukugcinwa ngamantombazane amancane, abafundi abasha noma abafundele ekolishi, abangenayo iminyaka ephelele yokuthola izingane ukuze bathole amakhono nokuqeqeshwa kwezikhundla zokuhlala ezizayo. Ngenxa yemisebenzi ehlukahlukene futhi ngoba umuntu omdala uvame ukuhlala ekhaya, indima ihlukile kuneyomntwana , umntanami noma umhlinzeki wezempilo .
Ukusetshenziswa okuqhubekayo koMsizi Womama kungenxa yabazali abasebenza ekhaya, esikoleni noma ekhaya. Abasizi BakaMama abadingeki ukuba babe nokuqeqeshwa noma iziqu ezithile, kepha iCPR nokuqeqeshwa kosizo lokuqala kunconywa.
Uthini Umsizi Womama?
Umsizi womama ikakhulukazi usebenza ngaphansi kokuqondisa okunye ukubhekana nazo zonke izici zokunakekelwa kwengane, imiraro, ukulungiselela ukudla okulula kanye nomsebenzi wendlu yokukhanya. Ungaqasha umsizi womama ngezizathu eziningi ezahlukene. Eminye indlela uMsizi KaMama angenza ukuphila komzali kube lula kakhulu kufaka phakathi:
- Ukudlala nabantwana ngenkathi umama enza umsebenzi othile noma eqa efonini yenkomfa.
- Ukwenza ukudla okulula nokulungiselela ukudla okulula.
- Ukusiza ngomsebenzi wesikole.
- Ukujabulisa ingane encane ngenkathi umama edla, ehlisa, ethatha ingane noma esiza izingane ezindala ngomsebenzi wesikole.
- Ukwenza izitsha ngenkathi umama edlala nezingane.
- Ukuvumela umama ukuthi athathe ukunambitheka okusheshayo okudingekayo noma ukugeza noma ukuphumula.
- Ivumela umama ukuthola izinto zokuphatha ezenziwe, njengokukhokha izikweletu, ukuhlanza nokuhlela indlu.
Kunezindlela eziningi ongahlela ngayo umsizi womama wakho kuzidingo ezithile zomndeni wakho. Lo msebenzi uguquguquka kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi ube yingxenye yesikhathi esithile noma isikhathi esigcwele, uhlala noma uphile ngaphandle, ungabandakanya ukubeletha ngezikhathi ezithile (lapho umsizi ekhokhelwa kuphela), futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ube ngehora noma ukukhokhelwa isikhundla.
Ngingayitholaphi Umsizi Womama?
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola umsizi womama isuka kokudluliselwa, ngezwi lomlomo futhi usebenzisa ukuxhumana okukhona emphakathini wakho. Buza nxazonke ku-playgroup, i-YMCA, ekilasini lokuzivocavoca, noma ku-club yakho yencwadi. Iningi lamamazana asetsheni noma ama-tweens alangazelela ukusiza amadodakazi abo athole amakhono wokufunda. Hlela isikhathi sokukhuluma nomsizi womama wakho ongabonakala kanye nabazali bakhe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyavumelana ngaphambi kokuthi umqashe.
Ngifundisa Kanjani Umsizi Womama?
Njengomzali kungumthwalo wakho wokuqeqesha umsizi womama ukusiza umndeni wakho ngendlela ewusizo kakhulu kuwe. Mnike imiyalelo eningiliziwe yokuthi angasiza kanjani. Abasizi Abamama abaningi bancane futhi bangase babe ngabasha kule ndima ukuze kube ngokucacile ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nezidingo zakho, izidingo kanye nesikhathi semisebenzi yesikhathi ngokuthatha.
Yini Abasizi Bamama Abakhokhelwa?
Ukuhlanzeka kuzohluka, kuye ngokuhlangenwe nakho nokuthi uhlalaphi. Uma ungumndeni wokuqala awusizile, u-$ 3 ngehora kuyisilinganiso esivulekile. Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka futhi umsizi womama wakho ufinyelela eminyakeni yobudala yokuthola izingane , uzodinga ukuphakamisa izinga lakhe okungenani umholo omncane noma ngabe yikuphi izinga lokuhamba elikuyo. Thola amazinga wokuthola izingane lapha.
Ukuxoxisana nokuHlala
Uma uthola abanye Abasizi Abamama abangase bakwazi, setha ingxoxo. Ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana unomsizi ozokwazi ukusebenzisana nezingane zakho, ikakhulukazi uma lokho kuyoba umsebenzi wakhe oyinhloko. Nakani amandla akhe. Ingabe ujabule, uxhumane futhi unomusa kubantwana? Sebenzisa umqondo wakho womama bese ukhetha umuntu oletha ukumomotheka ebusweni bomntanakho kanye nomuntu ozofanelana kahle nomndeni wakho.
Uma usuqumile kuMsizi womama, wabeka imithetho nemindeni eminye yemindeni. Xoxa ukuthi yikuphi ukudla okungabantwana futhi abavunyelwe ukuba badle. Ingabe uMsizi Womama uvunyelwe kuwo wonke amakamelo ekhaya noma kukhona eminye imikhawulo?
Beka imingcele ngaphambi kobudlelwane futhi ubambelele kubo. Imingcele yemvelo neyomzwelo ibalulekile uma unomuntu osebenza ekhaya lakho kanye nezingane zakho. Kumantombazane amaningi, lokhu kungase kube umsebenzi wabo wokuqala ukuze wenze okulindelekile kucace. Lapho abantu bekwazi ukuthi balindeni, bakhululekile futhi bangenza umsebenzi ongcono.