Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhathele ngoba izingane zakho azilaleli, noma unemibuzo embalwa mayelana nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinkinga ezithile zokuziphatha, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukwazi ukuthi ungaphila usizo. Ngenkathi abangane nomndeni bekwazi ukunikeza izeluleko ezizwakalayo nokusekelwa ngokomzwelo, ukuthola usizo ngaphandle kwendilinga yakho yangakini kungakunika ulwazi olusha nemibono yomgomo.
Uma ufuna usizo lokubhekana nezinkinga zokuxazulula izinkinga nezinkinga zokubeletha, nansi okunye okukhethwa kukho:
1. Izinsiza Zokuzisiza
Izincwadi zokubeletha zinikeza ulwazi oluningi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukufunda amakhono amasha wokubeletha , noma unethemba lokuthola ukuqinisekiswa kohlobo lwesiyalo osisebenzise kakade, incwadi ingaba indawo enhle ukuqala.
Uma ungajabuli ukufunda, kunezinhlelo eziningi ze-intanethi, izinhlelo ezilandwayo, namavidiyo mayelana nokubeletha. Vele uqiniseke ukwenza ucwaningo lwakho ngaphambi kokutshala isikhathi sakho nemali kwimikhiqizo. Akuwona wonke imikhiqizo adalwe ngokulinganayo ngakho kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyathenga emthonjeni ohloniphekile.
2. Amaqembu asekela oontanga
Kunamaqembu amaningi wokubeletha aqhutshwa abanye abazali. Ezinye zigxile ezindabeni ezithile-ezifana nezidingo ezikhethekile noma ukubeletha okungabodwa-futhi abanye banikeza ukusekelwa okuvamile. Izibhedlela, amasonto, nezinhlangano zempilo yengqondo ngokuvamile zihlinzeka ngamaqembu asekela oontanga.
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungabuka kuphi, hlola iphepha lakho lendawo, cela umeluleki wesiqondiso esikoleni, noma uthintane nenhlangano yezempilo yomphakathi. Ngisho noma inhlangano okwamanje inganikeli iqembu, ingakwazi ukukusiza ekutholeni eyodwa.
Kukhona futhi amaforamu namaqembu amaningi e-inthanethi lapho ungakwazi ukuxhuma nabanye abazali.
Enye yezinzuzo eziyinhloko zokusekelwa kwe-intanethi ukuthi ungangena noma kunini lapho ungakwazi futhi ngeke udinga ukukhathazeka ngokuthola ukunakekela izingane. Kodwa-ke, ukuphazamiseka ukuthi awuyikuthola ukwesekwa ubuso nobuso kusuka kwabanye abazali endaweni yakho.
3. Ukwelapha
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bayabuza, "Uma ingane yami ingenazinkinga zokuziphatha, kungani ngingaya ekwelashweni?" Kodwa ucwaningo lubonisa ukuqeqeshwa komzali kungaba yindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokuxazulula izinkinga zokuziphatha.
Abahlengikazi abaningi bahlangana nomntwana ngehora ngeliviki. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukwelashwa kungaba inqubo encane. Kodwa, uma udokotela efundisa indlela yokuqeqesha ingane yakho, ungasebenza nomntanakho nsuku zonke kulawo makghono futhi cishe uzobona imiphumela ngokushesha.
4. Umqeqeshi wabazali
Abaqeqeshi bomzali banikeza izinsiza ezihlukahlukene. Abanye banikeza ukubonisana ngefoni noma Skype, futhi abanye bangakwazi ukuhlangana nawe ekhaya noma emphakathini. Abaqeqeshi bokubeletha bangakusiza ngezinkinga ezithile-njengokuthola ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngesikhathi sokuhlwa-noma bangaphendula imibuzo yomzali jikelele.
5. Amakilasi okubeletha
Amakilasi okubeletha avame ukunikezwa ochwepheshe abaqeqeshwe. Bangase bahlose abazali bezingane eqenjini elilodwa, noma banganikezwa abazali bezingane ezinenkinga yokuziphatha , njenge- ADHD .
Bavame ukufundisa amakhono ahlukahlukene asemqoka futhi basize abazali ukuba bathembele ezindleleni zabo zokuziphatha. Abanye babo banikeza ukusekelwa kwabazali ekhaya.
Thintana nesikhungo sakho sezempilo sokuziphatha noma ucele udokotela wakho noma udokotela wengane yakho ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi. Amanye amaqembu omzali angase afakwe umshwalense wakho wezempilo.