Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe uma isikhathi sakho sifikile ngemuva kokuba ube nobulili obuvikelekile. Nakuba kungekho ngokuphelele ukuthi kungenzeka. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma uthola isikhathi sakho ngosuku emva kokuba ulale ucansi.
Kubalulekile ukuhlola ukuthi ngabe unesikhathi sakho noma uma uthola igazi lokugoma. Lokhu kuphuma kungase kungabi yinkathi yakho kodwa kungase kube enye into efana nokwelapha ukufaka igazi , okungenzeka kubonise ukukhulelwa.
Kumele ucabange ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa uma isikhathi sakho sibonakala sikhanya noma nganoma iyiphi indlela ehlukile. Lokhu kwenzeka okujwayelekile.
"Ngangikhathazekile kakhulu ngokukhulelwa. Sasiqhelile ikhondomu, kanti ngenkathi nginamaqiniso ukuthi sekusele isikhathi eside emjikelezweni wami ukuthi angingadingeki ngikhathazeke kakhulu, ngisakhathazeka kuze kube yilapho ngiqala isikhathi sami. ngijabule ukuyibona, "kukhumbula uSharon. "Noma kunjalo, ngemuva kokuqala othile othile wangitshela ukuthi ngeke kube yinto futhi ngingakwazi ukukhulelwa. Kwakungokwemvelo ngokwanele, ngakho ngangikhathazeka ngakho ngize ngiqale isikhathi sami esilandelayo, kodwa kancane kancane ngangingazizwa ngikhulelwe . "
Ezinye izindlela zokulawula ukubeletha zizosebenzisa izinsuku eziphephile nezinsuku ezingaphephile njengendlela yokukhombisa izinsuku ukuthi awudingi ukusebenzisa izindlela zokusekelayo zokulawula ukubeletha, njengekhondomu. Ngenkathi izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba isikhathi sakho singabhekwa njengezinsuku eziphephile ezingadingi ukulawulwa kokubeletha kokubeletha, lokhu kuzokwaziwa kuphela ngemuva kwemijikelezo eminingana yokufunda ubude bakho bomjikelezo.
Lokhu kwenza kube ukwethenjelwa kwabesifazane abangenzi lokhu njengendlela yokulawulwa kokuzalwa.
U-Angela uthi: "Ngangilokhu ngibalwa izinsuku zokujikeleza kwami ngaphambili, kodwa hhayi ngale nyanga." "Ngihlala ngivamile, kepha ngidlwengulwe usuku. Ngangiqiniseke ukuthi kuzoqala kamuva ngalolo suku, lapho ngingakhulumi kuze kube yilapho lenza khona."
Ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kuzokutshela ukuthi ukhulelwe noma cha. Uma unemiphumela yokuhlola yokukhulelwa okungalindelekile , njengesivivinyo esingalungile uma uqinisekile ukuthi ukhulelwe, linda izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze uphinde uzame. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi uthola impendulo enembile kakhulu kusuka ekuhlolweni kwakho kokukhulelwa. Kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi umzimba wakho unesikhathi esanele sokukhiqiza i-hCG ukuze uvivinye okuhle ekuhlolweni kokukhulelwa, njengoba i-hCG isondela kabili njalo ezinsukwini ezimbili ekukhulelwe kokuqala.
Uma uzama ukugwema ukukhulelwa, kufanele usebenzise okungenani indlela eyodwa yokulawulwa kokuzalwa njalo uma ucansi. Izindlela ezehlukene zokulawula ukubeletha zonke zinemfanelo ehlukile. Nguwe kuphela onganquma ukuthi yikuphi okuhambisana nokuphila kwakho nezidingo zakho. Uma kusetshenziswe kahle ukulawula ukubeletha kuyindlela enembile kakhulu yokuvimbela ukukhulelwa. Ungathola ukulawulwa kokubeletha kusuka kumhlinzeki wakho oyinhloko wokunakekela, umnyango wezempilo wendawo, noma uhlobo lwe-Planned Parenthood lwamahhovisi.
> Imithombo:
> Izibilini: Ukulungiswa Okujwayelekile Nezinkinga. IGabbe, S, Niebyl, J, Simpson, JL. Edition Sixth.
> I-Ovulation Ikhalenda. March we-Dimes.