Ngikholelwa noma cha, ngithola imibuzo eminingi evela kubantu ebhokisini lami lemeyili, abaningi bakhathazekile ngokuthi umlingani wabo ukhulelwe. Isihloko ngokuvamile ukuthi owesifazane wesaba ukuthatha ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama ukukhulelwa noma uthandaza ukuthi impendulo ayibi. Lokhu kuyimizwa evamile futhi evame ukudlala ezindlini zokulala kanye nezindlu zokugeza kuwo wonke umhlaba.
Ngiyajabula ukubona ukuthi abalingani bajoyina futhi babuza imibuzo, ngakho ngiyajabula njalo ukuphendula kule mibuzo.
Nakhu engikutshelayo:
Akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi owesifazane ukhulelwe ngaphandle kokuthi athathe ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa. Lokhu kuvame ukwenziwa ngokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ekhaya okusebenzisa umchamo. Ungathola ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa cishe noma yisiphi isitolo sokudla esendaweni, isitolo sezidakamizwa, noma isitolo esikhulu sebhokisi. Ungalawula ngisho nokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ku-inthanethi kusuka emithonjeni ehlukahlukene.
Ukuhlolwa kubheka i-hormone gonadotropin (i-hCG) ye-hormone yomuntu emcinini, okukhiqizwa ekukhulelwe. Ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ekhaya kufana nalokho okusetshenziselwa ehhovisi likadokotela noma umbelethisi futhi imiphumela kufanele iqinisekiswe.
Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ukuvivinywa kuyinto enembile kunazo zonke, ungafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ulandela yonke imiyalo ebhaliwe ekuhlolweni kokukhulelwa. Izwi lokuqapha mayelana nokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kokuqala okusho ukuthi angasetshenziswa ngaphambi kwenkathi yakhe engabanjwanga - ayinembile njengoba iHCG iyatholakala.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kungenzeka, kodwa okubi kungase kube kuhle ezinsukwini ezizayo. Ukuvimbela lokhu ukuthi kungakhathazeki kuwe, qiniseka ukuthi ulahlekelwe isikhathi sakhe. Isivivinyo sokukhulelwa kwegazi singabuye siyalwe udokotela noma umbelethisi kwezinye izimo. Lolu hlobo lokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa lubuye lufune i-hCG.
Ingabe Kufanele Athathe Ukuhlola Ukukhulelwa?
Kufanele ucabangele ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa uma engaphuthelwa isikhathi sakhe. Lokhu kuyiqiniso noma ngabe unayo yini izimpawu, njengoba kungekhona wonke umuntu ophethe izimpawu zokukhulelwa masinyane, futhi ahlale eqala ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa. Ezinye izimpawu zokukhulelwa zingabandakanya:
- Amabele amancane
- I-nausea nokuhlanza (ukugula kwasekuseni)
- Ukukhathala
- I-Mood iyashintsha
- Futhi okuningi okuningi.
Ngenkathi ungakwazi ukumphoqa ukuba athathe ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa, mhlawumbe ukukhuluma naye mayelana nokwesaba ayenakho kungamkhuthaza ukuba avivinye. Ukumqinisekisa ukuthi ukhona lapho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umphumela. Mhlawumbe ngisho nokuthenga uvivinyo kuye futhi ngisho nokugijima ukuhlolwa naye kungamsiza.
Izikhathi eziningi umbhangqwana ukhathazekile ngemiphumela. Uma uzama ukugwema ukukhulelwa, kusobala ukuthi ukhathazekile ngokukhulelwa okungahleliwe. Uma uzama ukukhulelwa, ungase ukhathazeke ngokuthi awukakhulelwe okwamanje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, ngokushesha uma uthatha ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa, ngokushesha uzokwazi ukuthi ukhulelwe noma uma udinga ukuthola usizo lwezokwelapha esinye isizathu.
Uma wena nomfazi obabuzwayo bengasaboni ndawonye futhi unemibuzo mayelana nokukhulelwa okusolakala ukuthi ukhulelwe nokuthi ukhulelwe nokuthi ingane ingokwakho, unenkathi enzima kakhulu.
Ungase ufune ukuzama ukuthola lapho ekhulelwe ukubona ukuthi lokho kusebenza izinsuku ezihlakaniphile ngesikhathi sakho ndawonye. Ukubuza mayelana nokuvakasha kokubeletha kungasiza. Uzodinga ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi imithetho yobunikazi esesimweni sakho. Uzodinga ukuthola ukuthi yini amalungelo akho nemithwalo yemfanelo yakho eqhubeka phambili. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukukhuluma ngokuhlolwa kwabazali kumaphuzu ahlukahlukene ebuhlotsheni. Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuthi umsekele futhi umsize endleleni.