Izindlela Zokukwenza Isiyalo Sakho Sivumelane

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo ezinhlanu zokuqondisa ozisebenzisayo, ngeke zisebenze uma ungahlali. Ukubambisana kungenye yezinkinobho ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha kwengane . Ukubeka ngokulinganayo imingcele , ukunikeza imiphumela ephumelelayo nokuphoqa imithetho yonke usuku nsuku zonke kungaba nzima, noma kunjalo. Hlola ukuthi yini ethola indlela yokuhlala njalo futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokwandisa ukuvumelana kwakho kwesiyalo.

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Ukusungula Imithetho Yezindlu

Misa imithetho yendlu ukuze ukwazi ukuphendula ngokuvumelana nokuziphatha okungamukeleki. Uhlu olulotshiwe lwemithetho luqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zicacile ngalokho okulindeleke kubo. Uma wenza okungafani nemithetho, memezele ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Isibonelo, uthi, "Ngisho noma isikhathi sokulala kaneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye, kusukela ngesonto elizayo yisikhathi sokuvakasha esikoleni ungahlala ihora elingeziwe." Lokhu kubonisa izingane ukuthi kukhona okungahle kwenziwe kuhlelwe emithethweni futhi ukuthi unesibopho sokunquma lapho lezo zingaphandle kufanele zenzeke.

Okuningi

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Nikeza Ukwakhiwa

Izingane zenza kahle uma zakhiwe futhi zizokwenza kube lula ukuqeqesha njalo. Hlanganisa imikhuba enempilo njengengxenye yendlela yabo yansuku zonke futhi izingane zizokwazi ukuthi yini oyilindele kuzo. Yakha isimiso esika eceleni isikhathi esithile sokwenza imisebenzi ethile. Izingane ezincane zidinga ukuhambisana nezikhathi zokulala kanye nezikhathi zokudla. Izingane ezindala zizuza kuhlelo lokubakhumbuza ukuthi bazokwenza nini umsebenzi wesikole, imisebenzi ephelele futhi banakekele ezinye izibopho.

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Yakha uhlelo

Kulula ukuhlala njalo uma unesimo esicacile mayelana nemiphumela emibi ongayisebenzisa ukuze ubhekane nokuziphatha okungalungile. Yilungele ngemiphumela enengqondo , isikhathi sokuphuma , noma ukungazinaki ngokuya ngokuziphatha. Futhi, cabangela ukuqiniswa okunamandla kokuziphatha okuhle, njengokuthi uhlelo lomvuzo noma uhlelo lwezomnotho we-token .

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Sebenza Nabanye Abanakekeli

Uma kunokwenzeka, yakha imithetho nemiphumela ehlala njalo phakathi kwabanakekeli kanye nemvelo. Uma uthisha, umhlinzeki wezinsuku, nomndeni onwetshiwe bonke bakhona, kungasiza ukushintsha ukuziphatha ngokushesha. Kubantwana abazali babo abahlukanisile, kuhle uma zombili imindeni isebenzisa imithetho efanayo nemiphumela. Khuluma nabanye abanakekeli mayelana nokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuziphatha ukubhekana nezinkinga ezithile.

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Qaphela Imizwa Yakho

Ukuziphatha komzali kuyisici esikhulu ekuqondiseni. Uma uzizwa ukhathele noma ucindezelekile kungenzeka ukuthi uyala kancane kancane. Nakuba abanye abazali bengase babe nesineke kancane ngokuziphatha, abanye abazali bangase bazizwe bekhathele kakhulu ukubhekana nabo. Naka amehlo akho ngokushesha futhi ufake umzamo owengeziwe wokuphendula izinkinga zokuziphatha ngokuqhubekayo, naphezu kokuthi uzizwa kanjani.

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Landela Ngezimo

Izinsongo eziphindaphindiwe ngokuqinisekile zingenza isiyalo singavumelani. Uma uthola ukuphindaphinda imiyalelo ngokuphindaphindiwe noma ukwenza izinsongo ngaphandle kokulandela, cishe izingane zakho ziye zafunda ukukukhipha. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali batjho lokho abakushoko njengoba kwakha ngokuthembeka. Uma ingane iyazi ukuthi usho ukuthini ibhizinisi, uzolalela okokuqala. Landela ngemiphumela futhi ungenzi nje izinsongo njengoba uzobe uqeqesha ingane yakho ukuba ingakulaleli.

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Khetha Ngokuhlakanipha Izimpi Zakho

Uma ufuna ukuvumelana, kuzodingeka ukhethe izimpi zakho ngokuhlakanipha. Uma unemithetho eminingi kakhulu noma imiphumela eminingi kakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukugcina konke kuqondile. Uma unengane enezinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha, khetha ukubhekana nokuziphatha okukhathazayo kakhulu kuqala. Zama ukungamlandeli ngakho konke okuncane futhi uzokugwema ukulwa kwamandla okungaholela ekuqondiseni okungavumelani.

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Melana nesifiso sokunikeza

Ukungavumelani kungadalwa ekunikezeni lapho abantwana bekhala, bhala noma bethembisa ukuba kuhle. Uma usususe ilungelo awubuyisele emuva kuze kube yisikhathi esibekiwe. Esikhathini esiningi, ukususa ilungelo lamahora angu-24 kwanele. Uma uyibuyisela kusengaphambili ngoba ingane yakho ikukhulumayo kuyo, umfundele ukuthi ukumemeza , ukucela noma ukuzama ukuxoxisana kuyindlela enhle yokuthola lokho akufunayo.

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Lindela Ukuguquka Ukuthatha Isikhathi

Izinguquko zokuziphatha ngeke zenzeke ngobusuku ngakho-ke ungayeki ekusebenziseni amasu akho okufundisa ngokushesha kakhulu ngenxa yokuthi awuzange usebenze okwamanje. Kuthatha isikhathi ingane ukuba iqaphele ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ehlukumeza, uzoyilandela ngenhloso. Ngokuvamile, izingane zizocindezela inhlanhla ngokuthemba ukuthi uzokhohlwa noma uzoyeka. Uma uhlala njalo njalo, ingane yakho ekugcineni izofunda ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwayo.

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Gxila esikhathini eside

Esinye seziyalo ezine eziphuthumayo abazali abazenza ngaso sonke isikhathi asibheki okwanele esikhathini esizayo. Nakuba ukuvumela noma ukuvumela izinkinga zokuziphatha ukugoba kungenza ukuphila kwakho kube lula manje, esikhathini eside, kuzokwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Ukugxila emigomweni yesikhathi eside kuzokusiza ukuba ukhumbule ukuthi ingane yakho ayidingi ukujabula okwamanje kepha kunalokho kudingeka ifunde amakhono ayisithupha okuphila adingekayo ukuze abe umuntu omdala onempilo, onomthwalo wemfanelo.