Izizathu Eziyiqiniso Abantwana Abazitholi Imithetho
Izingane zisebenzisa ukuziphatha kwazo ukukhombisa ukuthi zizwa kanjani nokuthi zicabangani. Ngokuvamile, baxoxisana okuthile ngokuziphatha kwabo kangangokuthi abakwazi ukukwazi ukukhuluma.
Uma unquma ukuthi yiluphi uhlelo lokuqeqesha oluzosetshenziswa, cabanga ukuthi kungenzeka yini isizathu esiyinhloko senkinga yokuziphatha.
1. Bafuna Ukunakwa
Lapho abazali bekhuluma efonini, bevakashele nabangani noma umndeni, noma bahlala ngenye indawo, izingane zizwa zishiywa ngaphandle.
Futhi ukudumaza, ukugcoba, noma ukushaya ingane yakini kuyindlela enhle yokuheha.
Ngisho noma kungakhathazeki kahle, izingane ziyakunxanela. Ukungazinaki ukuziphatha okubi nokudumisa ukuziphatha okuhle kungenye yezindlela ezingcono zokubhekana nokuziphatha okufuna ukunakekelwa.
2. Bakho Ukukopisha Abanye
Izingane zifunda ukuziphatha ngokubuka abanye. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi babona oontanga esikoleni behlukumeza noma bekopisha into abayibonile ku-TV, izingane zizoziphinda.
Nciphisa ukuvezwa kwezingane zakho ekuziphatheni okubi ku-TV, kumageyimu wevidiyo, nakuphila kwangempela. Imodeli ehlelekile yokuziphatha okuhle ukufundisa ingane yakho indlela efanele yokuziphatha ezimweni ezihlukahlukene.
3. Ziyizilinganiso zokuhlola
Uma usungule imithetho futhi utshele izingane ukuthi yini engavunyelwe ukuyenza, ngokuvamile bafuna ukubona ukuthi ungathà sina yini. Bahlola imingcele ukuze bathole ukuthi imiphumela iyoba yini uma bephula imithetho.
Beka imingcele ecacile futhi unikele ngemiphumela ngokuqhubekayo.
Uma izingane zicabanga ukuthi zincane ithuba lokuthi zikwazi ukuhamba nento ethile, zivame ukulingwa ukuba zizame. Uma ubatshengisa ukuthi bazothola umphumela omubi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho bephula umthetho, bazoqala ukuthobela ngokwengeziwe.
4. Abanakho Amakhono
Ngezinye izikhathi izinkinga zokuziphatha zibangelwa ukungabi namakhono.
Ingane engenamakhono omphakathi ingase ishaye enye ingane ngoba ifuna ukudlala ithoyizi. Ingane engenamakhono okuxazulula izinkinga ingase ingahlanzi igumbi layo ngoba ayiqiniseki ukuthi kufanele yenzeni lapho amathoyizi akhe engafanelanga ebhokisini lokudlala.
Uma ingane yakho ingalungile, esikhundleni sokumane umnike umphumela, mfundise ukuthi benzeni kunalokho. Mbonise izindlela zokuziphatha okubi ukuze afunde emaphutheni akhe.
5. Bafuna ukuzimela
Njengoba izingane zasenkulisa zifunda ukwenza izinto eziningi zodwa, zivame ukubonisa amakhono abo amasha. AmaTweens nawo ayaziwa ngemizamo yabo yokuzimela. Bangase babe nokuphikisana okuningi futhi bangase baziphathe ngokungenhlonipho ngezinye izikhathi.
Intsha ingase ivukele emzamweni wokukhombisa abantu abadala ukuthi bangazicabangela bona. Bangase baphule imithetho ngenhloso futhi bangase bazame ukubonisa abadala ukuthi abakwazi ukuphoqelelwa ukwenza izinto abangafuni ukuzenza.
Nikeza ingane yakho izinqumo ezifanele. Buza ingane yakho yasenkulisa, "Ufuna amanzi noma amanzi ephuza ukuphuza?" Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi, "Kungcono kuwe ukuthi unqume lapho wenza imisebenzi yakho. Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho imisebenzi yakho yenziwe khona, ungasebenzisa i-electronics yakho." Ukunikeza inkululeko efanelekile yobudala kuzohlangabezana nesidingo somntanakho sokuzimela.
6. Abakwazi Ukulawula Imizwa Yabo
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane azikwazi ukuthi benzeni ngemizwa yazo.
Bangase badikibale kalula lapho bethukuthele, futhi ngenxa yalokho, bangase babe nolaka. Bangase benze ngisho nalapho bejabula, becindezelekile, noma benesizungu.
Izingane zidinga ukufunda izindlela eziphilile zokubhekana nemizwa efana nokudabuka, ukudumala, ukukhungatheka nokukhathazeka. Fundisa izingane mayelana nemizwa futhi ubonise izindlela eziphilile zokuphatha imizwelo yabo ukuze zivimbele ukuba zingaboni kahle.
Uma izingane zikwazi ukulawula kangcono imizwelo yazo, zingasebenzisa amakhono okubhekana nokuphilisa okunempilo ukubhekana nemizwa yabo. Esikhundleni sokungaziphathi kahle ukuveza imizwelo yabo, ingane ingase ifunde ukuthatha isikhathi sokuphumula .
7. Unesidingo esingavumelekile
Uma umntwana ezwa elambile, ekhathele, noma egula, ukuziphatha okungalungile kuvame ukuqhubeka. Abantfwana abancane nabasenkulisa akuzona okuhle ekukhulumeni lokho abakudingayo.
Ngenxa yalokho, bavame ukusebenzisa ukuziphatha kwabo ukukhombisa ukuthi banesidingo esingavumelani. Abazali bangasiza ekuvimbeleni izinkinga zokuziphatha ngokubheka izidingo ezingapheli.
Isibonelo, thatha isitolo sezingane ezincane ngemuva kokulala futhi uma unesidla esandleni. Buza ingane yakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani futhi ubheke izinkomba ukuthi angaba nezidingo ezithile ezingavumelani.
8. Bafuna amandla nokulawula
Amandla nokulawula ngokuvamile kubangele ekuziphatheni okungalungile. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuziphatha okungcolile nokuphikisana kubangelwa lapho ingane izama ukuphinde ithole ukulawula.
Lapho izinkinga zokuziphatha zivela emzamweni wengane wokulawula okuthile, umzabalazo wamandla ungagcina. Enye indlela yokugwema umzabalazo wamandla ukunikeza ingane izinqumo ezimbili. Isibonelo, buza "Ungathanda yini ukuhlanza ikamelo lakho manje noma emva kwalokhu kuvezwa kwe-TV sekuphelile?"
Ngokunikeza izinqumo ezimbili, ungakwazi ukunikeza izingane ukulawula okuthile ngesimo. Lokhu kunganciphisa izingxabano eziningi futhi kungenze ukwandise amathuba okuthi ingane ihambisane nemiyalelo.
9. Ukungalungi Kuyasebenza
Esinye sezizathu ezilula izingane ezizihlukumeza ngoba zisebenza kahle. Uma ukuphulwa kwemithetho kubathola ukuthi yini abayifunayo, bayokufunda ngokushesha ukuthi ukungalungi kuyasebenza.
Isibonelo, ingane egxuma kuze kube yilapho unina engena kuyo izofunda ukuthi ukugcoba kuyindlela enhle yokuthola noma yini ayifunayo. Noma ingane ethukuthele idabuka phakathi kwesitolo, futhi uyise uyavuma ukumthenga ithoyizi ukuze amise ukukhala, ufunde ukuthi ukufutheka kuyasebenza.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukungalungi komntanakho akusikhonzi kahle. Uma ukunikeza noma ukusekela phansi kungenza ukuphila kwakho kube lula okwamanje, uzobe uqeqesha ingane yakho ukuphula imithetho.
Izimpendulo Zempilo Yengqondo Yengqondo
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zinezinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezithinta izinkinga zokuziphatha. Izingane ezine- ADHD , ngokwesibonelo, zilukhuni ukulandela izikhombisi-ndlela futhi ziziphatha ngokungapheli.
Ukukhathazeka ngokucindezeleka noma ukucindezeleka kungabangela nokuba nezinkinga zokuziphatha. Ingane ekhungathekile ingase igweme ukuya emakilasini okwenza akhathazeke. Ingane ecindezelekile ingase ithukuthele futhi ingabi nesisusa sokuqedela imisebenzi yakhe yomsebenzi noma umsebenzi wesikole.
Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ibe nenkinga yenkinga yengqondo noma inkinga yokuthuthukiswa, khuluma nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho. Ukuhlolwa kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo okuqeqeshwe kungadingeka ukuthi kutholakale ukuthi kukhona yini izimpikiswano ezingokomzwelo ezibangela izinkinga zokuziphatha .
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