Izindlela ezi-8 eziphezulu zokukhuthaza ingane enezidingo ezikhethekile

Abazali bezingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile kumele bafunde ukuhamba ngendlela eqondile imithetho yezemfundo ekhethekile bese beya bathela izingane zabo. Ngamafuphi, lokhu kusho ukuthi kumele bafunde ukuba ngabagqugquzeli.

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Funda konke ongakwenza mayelana Nezidingo Ezikhethekile Zengane Yakho

Ukwaziswa ngamandla, futhi abazali kudingeka baqale ngamaqiniso mayelana nezidingo ezikhethekile zezingane zabo. Zama futhi ugcine umzwelo kuwo; abazali kudingeka babe nolwazi olusekelwe eqinisweni odokotela bezingane zabo, ochwepheshe, ochwepheshe bezemfundo ekhethekile, abazali bezingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile esifanayo, abameli, othisha, nanoma ubani omunye onganikeza ulwazi.

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Buza imibuzo eminingi bese ulalela izimpendulo

Yiba njengomlobi wezindaba: Buza imibuzo efana, "ngubani, ukuthi, kuphi, nini, nini, nini" bese ulalela ngokucophelela izimpendulo ozitholayo. Imibuzo efanele yocwaningo bese uphendula imibhalo esikhundleni sokumane uthembele ememori yakho. Funda ukuthi ungathanda kanjani ukubuza imibuzo futhi ungahlangabezane nokuphikisa noma ukuzivikela ukuze uthole izimpendulo ezivulekile neziqotho.

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Yibani "Ummeli Wombumbulu" eMthethweni Wezemfundo Ekhethekile

Abazali bemfundo ekhethekile izingane abadingi ngempela ukuba ngabameli; Nokho, kuhle ukuba nolwazi olunzulu ngemithetho ekhethekile yemfundo. Funda imininingwane esekelwe emthethweni wesifundazwe owadala ngokuphumelelayo imfundo ekhethekile, manje eyaziwa ngokuthi ngabanye abantu abane-Disability Education Act (IDEA).

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Gwema njalo umdlalo we-Blame

Ubuhlobo obuphikisanayo phakathi kwabazali nothisha ngokuvamile abulokothi bube nesithakazelo esihle kwengane. Ngezinye izikhathi kulula ukuwela esicupheni sokusola abanye noma ngisho nokukhomba umunwe kwi-bureaucracy ngenxa yokudumazeka noma isimo esithile. Kodwa ukusola akuvami ukuholela kunoma yini engaphezu kwemizwa emibi nesimo esibi. Kunalokho, gwema ukusola, bese uzama indlela ehlukile. Gcina uzolile, wazi amaqiniso, futhi ukhuthaze ngokuhlangabezana nezidingo zezingane zakho eziyingqayizivele.

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Yiba yisisombululo sezinkinga, hhayi umenzi wezinkinga

Ukusebenza ndawonye ukuxazulula izinkinga ngothisha wengane noma umhlinzeki wezokunakekelwa kwengane ngokuvamile kuvumela imiphumela engcono kunokuba ngumenzi wezinkinga. Khombisa izixazululo noma udale uhlelo oluhle olusebenza kahle kumzali-umhlinzeki / uthisha. Yiba nomqondo ovulekile futhi uzwe izixazululo ezihlongozwayo kusukela ohlangothini lwezemfundo kanye.

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Cabanga Ngesikhathi Eside Futhi Ube I-futurist

Abazali abanomthwalo wemfanelo wokuhlela imfundo yengane nemfuno zabo namhlanje; baphinde babhekene nomsebenzi onzima wokucabanga isikhathi eside. Ngamanye amazwi, abazali kumele babe ama-futurists asebenzayo ekusekeni impilo yengane yabo yimpumelelo ngaphansi komgwaqo.

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Yiba yi-Master Planner

Ngokuvamile abazali banezinhloso zezingane zabo, futhi imindeni yabafundi abakhethekile bezemfundo kufanele iqoke imigomo kanye nesu lokuyithola.

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Ngempela Yazi Umhlinzeki Wakho Wokunakekela Ingane Noma Uthisha

Ungacabangi ukuthi abahlinzeki bokunakekelwa kwengane noma othisha abafuni ukuhlangabezana nezidingo ezingavamile zezingane zakho futhi banikeze izinzuzo zemfundo. Abaningi benza. Kodwa-ke, izidingo ezahlukene ezihlanganiswe nezinsizakalo ezinganiselwe ngokuvamile zidala amathuba okuphikisana phakathi kwalokho okungabonelelwa khona nabazali abafuna lokho abakakholelwa ukuthi "kuhle" kwezingane zabo. Abazali kanye nabahlinzeki / othisha kufanele benze konke okusemandleni ukuze basebenzise indlela enhle yokufunda nokusebenzisana kanye neqembu ndawonye.