Yini okufanele uyenze lapho i-kiddo yakho eqeqeshelwa ngamanzi eseduze isendaweni yesiteleka
Isimo sivame kakhulu. Uyenzile ngokusebenzisa i-hellacious, kodwa ekugcineni iphumelele, isonto le-mopping up pee futhi (ekugcineni) linikeze izikweletu uma kuthiwa u-pee uthi ekugcineni uwenze ebhodweni. Ungaqedela lonke uhambo lokubhekela ngaphandle kokudinga ukushintsha izingubo zengane yakho. Izingane zakho ezisemthethweni ziqeqeshwe ngamanzi.
Khona-ke kukhona into enkulu eyenzekayo: Umkhulu nomkhulu bavakashela ukuvakashela ngempelasonto; i-kiddo yakho igula; noma izinguquko zesimiso somsebenzi womama noma ubaba.
Ngokuzumayo lokhu kujabulisa okusha, ukugula, isimiso, noma ukungaqiniseki kumane nje kwanele ukucasula isimiso esiningi esinamanzi futhi uthumele ingane yakho enamandla entloko ibe yimbuyiselo ye-backslide.
Nansi izindaba ezinhle: Awusodwa. Ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwamapayipi okuvamile akuvamile. Ukunciphisa kungabangelwa ukuguquka kokuphila okukhulu noma ukucindezeleka, noma into elula njengokugqoka, kusho uWorney Parchman, ogijima esikoleni sikaJoyful Day eMontessori esigodini saseChicago saseHlathini Park.
"Uma ngabe ingane yakho igqoke izibhulu ezigxile ezitheni ngesikhathi sokungena endlini, kungenzeka ukuthi zikwazi ukuzidonsa phezulu uma zidingeka," kusho u-Parchman. "Uma beqala ukugqoka iJean kunzima kakhulu ukuba ingane isuse amabhulukwe ngesikhathi. Ngenxa yalokho, ijwayele ukubhekana nezingozi."
Indlela yomfundi ka-"butterfly" ekufundiseni "indlu yangasese" ukufundisa izingane ukuba "zilalele izibonakaliso izidumbu zabo ezizinikeza zona."
"Angivuzi izingane ngokusebenzisa i-potty ngempumelelo - ngaphandle kokukhuthazwa ngamazwi - ngoba umqondo wabo wokufeza uzuze ngokwanele," esho.
"Ngamanye amazwi, umgomo wukuthi ukugqugquzelwa ngokwemvelo futhi kungashukunyiswa yizici zangaphandle, njengokwesekese lapho behamba khona."
Kodwa kubazali abaningi abavuza noma bafumbathise izingane zabo nge-candy noma izinsimbi emva kokuphumelela kwamapayipi, ukuyeka uhlelo lomvuzo maduzane kungabangela i-backslide, kusho u-Ashley Hickey, ochwepheshe bokuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kanye nomnikazi we-Successful Potty Training, LLC.
Abanye abazali bathatha isici somvuzo ezingeni eliphelele elisha ngokuphonsa iqembu elimnandi - ligcwaliswe ngendawo yokugezela ehlotshisiwe, izipho, kanye nekhekhe - ukuze bafunde ukuqeqeshwa kwezingane ezisendleleni nasendlini yokugezela.
U-Hickey uthe akakwazanga ukuphawula ngokuphumelela kwala maqembu; Nokho, "uma ingane ishukunyiswa kakhulu yiqembu, kuyinzuzo enkulu yokufunda ikhono elisha."
Ngakho kufanele usondele kanjani ekutholeni ingane yakho ebuyele endlini yokugezela nangamanzi?
Ukuvumelana kubalulekile.
"Umnakekeli kumele ahambisane nesimiso ukuze abuyele ingane endleleni," kusho u-Parchman. "Ngivame ukululeka abazali ukuba balandele iziqondiso ezifanayo abazenza lapho ingane yabo iqala ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese."
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele umelane nesifiso sokufinyelela kuma-diapers.
"[Ukubuyela emuva kwabakwa-diapers] kuzokwenza ukuthi inqubo iqale kabusha," kusho uHickey. "Uma uqala futhi uyeka ukuqeqeshwa, kuzodideka ingane futhi kuphazamise umzali."
Umsakazi uyavuma.
"Abadwebi abalahlayo bafihla ukuzwa kwamanzi futhi ingane ayikwazi ukuzwa umphumela wemvelo nokungahambi kahle wengozi," esho.
Mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu, ungalingani ukuphakama okuzumayo ezenzweni njengoba isibonakaliso sokuthi ingane yakho ayilungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi .
I-regression iyimpendulo encane, "kusho u-Parchman." Uma ngabe ingane yakho isebenzisa ngempumelelo indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuba ikwazi, futhi izokwenza, yenze futhi. "
Ukuthatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa emuva ekuqeqeshweni kwamanzi kungase kuzwe njengokuqala kusuka kwesigcawu esisodwa, kodwa ungakhathazeki. Gcina ukupholile kwakho futhi ekugcineni, ingane yakho encane izobuyela emuva ithrekhi.